Imibuzo Yakho Yokuphendula Iphendulwa
Q. Ngaba ndingamnceda ukuba andinakukwazi (angayikhethi) ukuba ndinake abantwana bam bangaphambili?
A. Akunjalo. Abahlengikazi abangaphaya kobomi akusiyo imfuneko yokuncelisa le ntsana. Nangona amava angaphambili angakunceda, ngokuqinisekileyo akuyimfuneko. Amabele akho aya kuvelisa ubisi kunye nokukhulelwa kunye nosana, njengoko kuya kukwenza ngokukhulelwa konke kunye nosana, nokuba ngaba uthathe imithi phambi kokuba uname ubisi lwakho.
Imfundo nokulungiselela kuyakunceda, nangona kungadingeki. Ndiyifumanisa ukuba oomama abaye bafumana iklasi yokuncelisa okanye bafunde incwadi okanye ababini babonakala benesihloko sokuqala ekuncediseni abantwana babo. Izibhedlele ezininzi kunye namaziko okuzalwa anika iiklasi zamahhala kunye nabacebisi abaqeshwe ngabasebenzi. Qinisekisa ukuba ucele ukutyelela ngaphambi kokuba uhambe esibhedlele okanye kwisiko lokuzalwa, nokuba ucinga ukuba konke kuhamba kakuhle. Kukho nabacebisi bamacandelo abucala kunye neLa Leche League International, iqela lokuxhasa ngenkxaso engenzi nzuzo kunye nokuxhasa abasetyhini ukuba bancelise emhlabeni jikelele.
Q. Ndingayazi njani ubuninzi bebisi yam umntwana?
A. Iintsana ezisondeza iintsasa zibonisa ukuba zikhula kwaye zanele ubisi lwebele. Ezi zibandakanya ukubalwa kwee-diapers ukuqinisekisa ukuba zihlambulule phakathi kwama-diaper 6-8 ngosuku kwaye zibale izihlalo, eziya kuhluka ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yengane yakho nokuba ingaba zingadli izilwanyana.
Udokotela wakho wezilwanyana uya kucela kwakhona malunga nophuhliso lwakho lomntwana kunye nomzekelo wesisindo. Ukutshatyalaliswa kwamashadi amatshwayo amancinci, ke qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ubhalwe kule ndawo ekutyeleleni umntwana kakuhle.
Uninzi: Ngaba umntwana wam usana olwaneleyo?
Q. Ngaba ndingamncelisa xa ndibele amabele amancinci? Amabele amakhulu?
A. Ubungakanani besisu abuyinto ebalulekileyo ekuveliseni ubisi. Abafazi abancinci abancinci banako ukunamsa ngaphandle kweengxaki. Uphononongo olutshanje lubonise ukuba abafazi abancinci baninzi babe nexesha elilukhuni lokufumana umntwana ukuba angene kwi-ingono, kodwa oku kulula ukuyilungisa imeko, ngokukodwa ngesikhokelo esithile soqeqesho.
Q. Ngaba ndinokunyanga ukuba ndiba neemplantshi? Ukunciphisa isisu?
A. Oku kuya kuxhomekeka ekubeni kukho nayiphi i-milk ducts ephazamisekile xa kufakwa izilwanyana okanye yenza ukunciphisa. Izindlela zokuhlinzwa ezintsha zisebenza nzima xa zizama ukulondoloza iisifuba zesifuba ukuze kuncelise ukondla. Cela ikhophi yengxelo yakho yokugada kwaye uzama ukubuza ugqirha wakho ukuba awuzange ubuze ngexesha lokuhlinzwa kwakho. Ukubona umcebisi we-lactation ngaphambi kokuzalwa kunokunceda kakhulu.
Okunye: Iingcamango ezingakumbi zoBushushu
Q. Ngaba ndingamncelisa xa ndifumana unyango?
A. Oku kuncike kakhulu kwiyeza. Kukho amayeza amaninzi esicinga ukuba akhuselekile ukuba athathwe ngexesha lokuncelisa. Kukho ezinye ezingabonwa njengekhuselekile kuzo zonke, nangona kukho ezinye iindlela eziza kutshintsha. Thetha ugqirha wakho kunye nodokotela wezingane ukuba ufumane impendulo ethile kuwe kunye neyeza zakho. Ininzi yeprogesterone esebenzisa iindlela zokulawula ukuzala, njengemithi yokukhulelwa komlomo, iDepo-Provera, njl.
zithathwa njengamkelekileyo ngexesha loongikazi. Kukho neengxaki zokuxhatshazwa ezingasetyenziswa ngexesha loongikazi. Unxibelelwano olungileyo phakathi kwababoneleli ngabanonophelo.
Q. Ngaba ndinokupompoza kwaye ndinike nje ubisi lwebele kubhotile?
A. Akunjalo. Enyanisweni, kukho inani elikhulayo labasetyhini abakhetha ukukhetha ubisi lwebele kuphela ngenxa yezizathu ezithile. Oku kusebenza kakuhle kwiintsana ezisemzimbeni ezingenakunakeka kwibele okanye abo oomama abakhetha ukungazinzi, kodwa ufuna umntwana wabo abe neenzuzo zobisi lwebele.
Uhlobo luni lompompo endifumanayo?
A. Oku kuncike kwizinto ozifunayo.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba awuyi kusebenzisa ipompo yakho ngokuphindaphindiweyo isandla esincinci esabanjelwe okanye nokuba nesandla salo ubisi siya kusebenza kakuhle. Kukho umbane, iipompo eziphindwe kabini ezifumanekayo rhoqo okanye ngokukhawuleza ukupompa . Umcebisi we-lactation okanye iklasi yokuncelisa inokukunceda ukuba wenze le ngqiqo.
Q. Ndiya phi na ukuba ndifuna uncedo?
A. Qhagamshelana nendawo owabeletha ngayo, uLa Leche League, abacebisi bendawo yokucebisa, njl. Uncedo lukhoyo.
Umthombo:
Mohrbacher, N, Stock, J. Incwadi Yempendulo Yokuxilisa. 2003.