Into enokuyenza Ukuba umntwana wakho osengaphambili uyagula

Ukugqiba ixesha lokuya kubiza ugqirha okanye iNtloko kwiNgxamiseko

Ukugqiba malunga nokuba ubiza ugqirha wakho xa umntwana wakho egula kuhlala kunzima. Xa oomama bebuyela ekhaya benesana esengumntwana , ukuxhalabisa kunokukwenza ukuba isigqibo sibonakale sikhulu kakhulu. Yonke imemeza, ukukhala konke kunokubonakala kusongela.

Nangona oogqirha benza yonke imizamo yokukhupha iintshaba xa bephilile kwaye bezinzile ngokupheleleyo, ugula lunokuvela emva kokuba umntwana esele ekhaya.

Ngelixa usenokuzixelela ukuba "zonke iintsana ziya kugula" kwaye akukho nto malunga nayo, into yokuba umntwana wakho wazalwa ngaphambi kokuba akwazi ukukunceda kodwa ukudala uxinzelelo.

Ingaba wenza ntoni?

Ukuqaphela iZibonakaliso eziqhelekileyo zokugula

Iimpawu zokugula ezinsaneni zihlala zifana naluphi na uhlobo lokugula umntwana wakho. Ezinye iimpawu zinokuba zilula kwaye zinzima ukuzibona; abanye bangabonakala okanye baqhubekayo. Naluphi na umqondiso, umyalelo wokuqala ukuthembela wakho. Ekugqibeleni, akufanele unganqikaze ukubiza ugqirha wakho ukuba ubhekane neempawu ezingabonakali kakuhle.

Ezi zimpawu ziquka iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zokugula. Phakathi kwezi zinto ezinokukhathazeka:

Ukuqaphela izibonakaliso zezifo ezibi

Nangona iimpawu zentsholongwane yengane zidla ngokungaqondakali (njengokukhala okanye ukunyaniseka), iimpawu zesifo esibi kakhulu ziqhelekile ukuzibona lula. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa iimpawu ezithile, biza ugqirha wakho ngokukhawuleza okanye uhambe kwigumbi eliphuthumayo elisondeleyo:

> Umthombo:

> I-American Pregnancy Association. "Ukunyamekela umntwana osengumntwana." Irving, Texas; hlaziywa ngo-Ephreli 12, 2017.