Ukujamelana nokuba nosana olungenakunzima kunokuba nzima. Ukuba nosana olungaphambi kwexesha luhluke kubazali-bafanele baphuphe malunga nexesha xa benza izicwangciso zabo kubantwana babo. Amava okuzalwa, iintsuku zokuqala, ukuhlaliswa, kunye nomntwana onokuzalwa konke kuba ngamava obangelwe kukukhathazeka nosizi. Uvuyo kunye nolonwabo lunakho kodwa lufihla phantsi kwezinye izinto ezixhalabisayo.
Xa umntwana wakho engekafiki, kuyimvelo ukuziva uninzi lweemvakalelo ezinzima. Amava ahlukeneyo kwintsapho nganye, kodwa abaninzi abazali abangabantwana abangaphambi kokuqala bavakalelwa okanye ezinye zilandelayo:
- Ukuxhatshazwa
- Zixinzeleleke
- Ukutshitshiswa
- Izaliswe intlungu
- Nomsindo
- U netyala
- Ngenamandla
- Ukukhathazeka
- Ngethemba
- Uthando olunzulu lomntwana wakho
- Ukulangazelela ukuba nomntwana wakho
- Ingqiqo yokulahlekelwa
Njengoko uyakubona, umxube weemvakalelo ezibazali abangabelana nazo zibanzi kwaye zibanzi. Ezinye zeemvakalelo ziyingozi, kanti ezinye zizintle kakhulu. Unokuba uziva nabo bonke!
Ukujamelana Nemvakalelo Yakho
Ukwamkela nokwamkela iimvakalelo zakho kuyisinyathelo sokuqala ekujonganeni nokufumana umntwana osanda kuzalwa. Okokuqala, qaphela zonke izinto ozivelayo ngokwenza uluhlu, uchithe ixesha elithile ukucinga ngokuthula, okanye ukuthetha nomlingane wakho okanye umhlobo okanye umcebisi. Vumela ukuba ubhekane ngqo neentlungu ozivelayo. Khawukhala, utsho, uthandaze, okanye uhleke xa iimvakalelo zakho zifuna.
Cinga ukubhala iimvakalelo zakho namava . Abazali bentsana ebengaphambi kwexesha bahlala bebunzima ukukhumbula konke okwenzeka kubo, njengoko izinto zenzeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye zihlala zibuhlungu. Ukubhala amava akho phantsi kunokukunceda ukuba ube nengqiqo yeziganeko kunye neemvakalelo zakho.
Fumana inkxaso evela kwabanye. Kwixesha le-Intanethi, kulula ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili ukuxhuma nabanye abazali abaye basinda kwixesha le-preemie okanye bahamba ngayo.
Khangela iibhodi zeengxoxo kunye namaqela enkxaso kunye nabanye abazali abanomntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, kwaye badibanise baninzi njengoko uziva unako. Kwakhona, cinga ukuhambela umcebisi okanye isazi sengqondo. Ukuba isibhedlele sakho sinikeza iinkonzo zengcebiso kubazali beziintsana ezisanda kuzalwa, bhalisa! Ezi nkqubo zinceda abazali baqalane nokujamelana kwaye banemvakalelo emihle ngexesha elide.
Yiba ngumzali wengane yakho. Zichitha ixesha kunye nosana lwakho rhoqo ngangokunokwenzeka. Buza yonke imibuzo ongayicinga ngayo ngononophelo lwakho kunye nemeko yakho, uze ukwazi oogqirha kunye nabongikazi banakekele umntwana wakho. Ukuba ayinakunikezwa, cela ukuba unokuzama ukunakekelwa kwe-kangaroo. Ukuchitha ixesha lolusu ngesikhumba kunye nosana olusandul 'ukuzalwa lungamncedisi ukuba ahambe ngokukhawuleza, kodwa unokukunceda uzive ungakumbi kumntwana wakho kwaye unomzali othembekileyo. Abazali abaninzi bentsana engaphambi komntwana basebenzisana nabaqeshi babo ukuba basasaze ixesha labo lokuphumla ukuze basindise intsapho ethile yokuhamba. Ukwenza oko kungenza kube nzima ukuchitha ixesha kunye nosana lwakho kwi- NICU , kodwa kukuvumela ukuba ungaxakali ixesha lokubambisana ekhaya.
Isaziso kuBawo boBantwana abaseBusheni
Nangona umntwana okhulelwe kusenokuba nzima kubazali bobabini, amava amaninzi kunzima kubabawo.
Iinqununu zonyango ezinzulu zeNonatal (i-NICUs) yindawo enzima ukuziva ngathi ungumzali, kwaye oobawo banokuvakalelwa kakhulu kwiindawo ze-NICU. Iingcebiso eziphambili ezibhalwe apha ngasentla ziya kunceda abantwaba bazive benokuthula kunye ne-preemie, njengoko kuya kubakho iingcebiso ezilandelayo kubantwana:
Gxininisa umntwana, kungekhona oomatshini. Kwi-NICU, oobawo banomdla wokuhlala kwizixhobo , abagadi, izicwangciso zenkxaso yokuphefumula, kunye neemvavanyo zonyango. Ukubuza imibuzo malunga nenkathalo yonyango yakho kubalulekile, kwaye kunokukunceda uzive uvakalelwa. Kodwa xa imibuzo yakho iphendulwe, vula kwintsana yakho.
Unokuhlakulela ulwalamano olumzali kunye nosana olusandul 'intanga ngokuthatha amaqondo obushushu, ukutshintsha i-diapers, ukunyamekela ngonyango , okanye ukugcina umntwana wakho ngexesha lokutya, nangona ukuba ezo zifo zingena kwi-tube yokutya.
Ukuxhasa lakho iqabane . Wena nomama wakho umntwana unokuba neemvakalelo ezahlukileyo kwaye uphathe loo mvakalelo indlela ezahlukeneyo. Qonda loo nto, nangona uhamba ngoku kunye, unako uvakalelwa yedwa. Zama ukumxhasa ngokumvumela ukuba achithe ixesha elininzi njengoko ufuna ukuba umntwana, ngokumkhuthaza kwimigudu yakhe yomzali, kunye nokumxhasa njengoko ephuza ubisi ukuze ancelise umntwana wakho.
Yamkela uncedo kwabanye . Ukuba unomsebenzi obangela uxinzelelo kumsebenzi kunye nenani lemithwalo yemfanelo, ngoko ukuba umntwana onokuqala usenokubonakala ngathi yinto enye eninzi ukuyenza. Ukumisela imisebenzi eninzi njengoko unako, kokubili emsebenzini nasemakhaya.
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