Ukumamatheka, ukubingelela abanye nokubuza imibuzo kunokunceda
Abafundi abanokukhubazeka ngokufunda baziva behlala behlala kunye kwaye kunzima ukwenza ubungane noontanga. Kodwa iimfuno ezizodwa abantwana abafanelekanga ukuba bazive bengenathemba malunga nokwenza abahlobo. Ngokuphuhlisa izakhono eziphambili zezentlalo, aba bantwana banokufumana abahlobo abaninzi njengabahlobo babo.
Kutheni iimfuno ezizodwa abantwana abazama ukuzenza abahlobo
Abantwana abanokukhubazeka ngokufunda bafumana ubunzima ukwenza abahlobo kuba:
- Yiba nexabiso eliphantsi ;
- Ukukhathazeka malunga nendlela (bacinga ngayo) abanye bababone;
- Unobunzima bokungaboni ngokucacileyo kunye nokuthatha iingcamango zoluntu ezifana nolwimi lomzimba okanye intsingiselo engcolileyo kwintetho yansuku zonke;
- Ukuthintana ngokukhawuleza kunye nabaontanga abaqhelekileyo ukuba abaninzi beeklasi zabo zifundo zamagumbi okufundela; kwaye
- Khetha ukuba ungathathi inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yexesha elide kunye nabafundi abangenakho ukukhubazeka kwaye banokuthi banomdla ongaphelelanga ngaphandle kwesikolo.
Abafundi abaneziphene zokufunda banokuziva bexakeke kukuba banokuba ngabahlobo. Abazali banokunceda abantwana banqobe ukwesaba baze benze abahlobo ngokusebenzisa amanyathelo okulawula.
Ukulwa nobunzima beMhlobo
Abazali banokubhenca abantwana kwizicwangciso eziliqela zokubanceda benze izihlobo. Bangakwazi ukutshintshana ngokudlala indima kunye nezicwangciso ngaphambi kwesikolo okanye phambi kwezehlakalo zentlalo. Xa kunokwenzeka, abazali kufuneka basondele ekubeni abantwana baxoxe nabo ngezikhumbuzo.
Ngaphandle koko, abazali banokwenza izicwangciso zokuthetha nabantwana emva koko ukuba baxoxe ngendlela izinto ezihamba ngayo. Ngaphezu kwayo yonke into, abazali kufuneka bahlale bechanekile kwaye bafundise abantwana ukuba benze abahlobo ubuchule obunokuthi umntu afunde ngokusebenza.
Ukunikezela ngokuSondeza uMhlobo
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba amomotheka ngendlela enobungane okungenani umntu omtsha ngamnye imihla.
Akamele athethe nantoni na okanye enze nantoni enye ngaphandle kokumomotheka, nokuba uyadlula. Ukuba omnye umfundi akayi kubuya, menze aqhubeke ehamba okanye ekhangele kude. Ekupheleni kosuku, mbuze into akukhumbulayo ngabafundi abonileyo.
Ngaba uyazazi amagama abo? Ngaba uyakhumbula oko babembethe? Injongo yalo msebenzi kukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba aqaphele abanye, amomotheka aze azigcine iimpawu ngabo. Xa umntwana wakho eziva ekhululekile ngokumomotheka abantu abatsha, lixesha lokunyuka kwisinyathelo esilandelayo.
Babingelela Oontanga
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba amomothe kwaye abingelela abanye. Qinisekisa umntwana wakho ukuba akayidingi ukuthetha ngaphandle kokuthetha ngaphandle kokuba eziva ekhululekile ukwenza njalo. Ekupheleni kosuku, mxelele ngaye ngabantu abambulisayo. Ngubani owathetha emva? Kwakhona, ukuba abanye bangaboni, umntwana wakho akafune ukwenza nantoni na ngaphandle kokunyuka kwenye into. Xa eziva ekhululekile, mthumelele kwisinyathelo esilandelayo.
Ukuqala Ingxoxo
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba amomotheka, bulisa abanye kunye namazwana. Yenza umomotheka, zithi bonamo uze wenze ingxelo kumntu omtsha omnye ngalunye ngosuku. Yenza iimvo phambi kwexesha ukuze umntwana wakho alungele ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo.
Unako ukubuza abafundi ukuba usuku lwabo luhamba njani, baxelele ngemozulu, imisebenzi yamagumbi okufundela okanye bawongeze umsebenzi wabo kwiklasi okanye kwezinye izitenxo ezilungileyo. Xa umntwana wakho eziva ekhululekile nale nto, qhubela phambili kwisinyathelo esilandelayo.
Ukubuza imibuzo yePoliti
Fundisa umntwana wakho ubugcisa bokubuza imibuzo. Ukubuza abanye imibuzo ehloniphekileyo ngabo ngokwabo yindlela enhle yokuba umntwana wakho afunde ngabo kwaye afune umdla oqhelekileyo wokwakha ubuhlobo.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abanye bathetha njani ngokwabo yindlela enhle yokuba umntwana wakho ancede abanye bazive bebalulekile kwaye baxabiseke. Iyakususa uxinzelelo olusuka kumntwana wakho kuba akayi kuqhuba incoko.
Ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kuqala ukuziva ekhululekile malunga naba bafundi kunye nokusebenzisana nabanye.
Njengamaxesha onke, qhubeka uxoxa nomntwana wakho ngendlela engaqhelekanga malunga nabahlobo abatsha abadibana nabo nento awayeyifunde ngayo.
Ukuqhawula phezulu
Kungekudala, iingxoxo zomntwana kunye nabanye abafundi kufuneka ziqale ukukhula zodwa. Cinga ukuba umntwana wakho athathe umhlobo omnye okanye ababini ukuba bamemezele umdlalo wokudlala. Khangela iindlela ezongezelelweyo zokuphucula ubuhlobo bakhe okanye ukukhuthaza abantwana abanamahloni ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kumaqela.