Ihlabathi leNkuLuntu eliNyaka eliNyaka eliNyaka eli-6
Abantwana abathandathu abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala baya kukhangela ngokuzimela ngakumbi kwaye baya kuqhubeka ngokugxila ngakumbi kubangane kunye noontanga baze babonise umdla kubantu abadala ngaphandle kwentsapho, njengabazali bahlobo okanye ootitshala. Kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6, ubuhlobo kunye nolunye ulwalamano loluntu kunye noontanga kunye nabadala baba nzima kakhulu kwaye bathabatha injongo ngakumbi njengoko baqonda ngakumbi ihlabathi elibangqongileyo kunye nendima yabo kuyo.
Abantwana kule minyaka banokukwazi ukuqonda imithetho kwaye banokuba nomdla ekuqinisekiseni abanye ukuba benze oko bafanele bayenze. Baya kuhlakulela inxaxheba ekwandayo kwimidlalo ehleliweyo kunye nentlalo kunye nabahlobo. Abantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala banolonwabo ngokuba yingxenye yeqela okanye iqela kwaye baya kudlalwa ukudlala imidlalo yeqela lebhola.
Bahlobo
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 banokukhetha ukudlala kunye nabantwana babo besini kwaye bangenza "ubudlelwane bomhlobo obulungileyo" kunye nabanye abakhethiweyo abancinane. Abazali bafanele bajonge ngenxa yokuziphatha okungalunganga okuhambelana nesi sigaba esivamile sokuphuhliswa, njengokwakhiwa kweefowuni , ukugxotha abanye (okanye ukushiywa ngaphandle) kunye nokuxhatshazwa .
Abantwana abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala baya kuba banokuqonda ngakumbi ubudlelwane bokuhamba kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho kwaye baya kuziva bekhuselekile baze bathuthuke ebuhlotsheni babo kunye nabo abasondelene nabo.
Ukuziphatha kunye neMithetho
Abantwana, esi sizukulwana sinokuziva ukunyuka kokwazisa okulungileyo nokungalunganga, kwaye "kunokuxelela" oontanga abo bacinga ukuba abakwenzi nto efanelekileyo.
Ukutshatyalaliswa, kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, banokuqhelekileyo, kodwa baya kuphelela ngokukhawuleza njengoko baqala, ngokukodwa ngokukhokelwa ngothando evela kootitshala nabazali.
Ukunika, Ukukwabelana kunye novelwano
Uneminyaka engama-6 ubudala uya kufumana ukuzonwabisa ngokutya, ukutya kunye nezinye izinto kunye nabahlobo esikolweni nakwikhaya.
Oko akuthi ukusongana kunye nokuqhutywa kweetayimitha ezizithandayo aziyi kuvela, kodwa iimpikiswano ziya kudlula kwaye abafundi bebakala baya kuzuza ngokubanzi izakhono zentlalo ukuya kwelinye ilanga baphumelele ngokwahlukileyo ngokwabo, ngaphandle kokungenelela kwabantu abadala.
Abantu abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala banomdla ngokuzimeleyo kwaye baya kufuna induduzo ebusweni kubantu abadala ukuze babone izinto ezivela kwabanye.
Imiba yophuhliso
Abantwana abaninzi, abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala, basebusenjini okanye kwibanga lokuqala. Oku kungabokuqala ukuba bachithe ixesha elide kunye nabalingana nabo, balandele imithetho eqingqiweyo yesikolo, okanye bagxininise emsebenzini wesikolo ixesha elide. Ngenxa yoko, le nto ingaba yinto apho ukungafani kokuphuhliswa okanye ukulibaziseka kunokwenzeka.
Iingxaki zokusebenzisana kontanga, ukulandela imiyalelo ethethiweyo, okanye ukulawula iimvakalelo, zonke zinokubonakala ngakumbi kwiindawo zokufundela. Ukuba kunjalo, ngoku lixesha elide lokujongana nale micimbi, ukuze bangabi yingxaki enkulu njengoko umntwana wakho eqhubeka esikolweni. Xoxa notitshala womntwanakho kunye nodokotela wezilwanyana ukuba anqume ukuba nayiphi na imingeni ebhekene nayo ifuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo.
> Imithombo
- > Amacandelo okuLawula nokuLawula izifo. Izinto ezibalulekileyo ezibalulekileyo: ebuntwaneni obuphakathi. KwiWebhu. 2017.
- > Abazali bePBS. Umtsalane wokuphuhlisa abantwana: wakho oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala. KwiWebhu. 2017.