Indlela Yokukhulisa Ukuzimela Kwezingane Zakho
Ngethuba ixesha umntwana wakho eneminyaka engama-7 ubudala, uya kuchitha ixesha elide elikude nawe-esikolweni, kwinkampu yemini, mhlawumbi nakwi-sleepover okanye ezimbini. Uya kwenza abahlobo ngaphandle kweepaldate pals owamisa ngaphakathi kweso sikolo kwaye uya kuba nomdla wokuphuhlisa ubuni bakhe- into evumela ukuba ahluke kuyo yonke intsapho. Oontanga bakhe baya kuqala ukuphazamisa yonke into esuka kwimidlalo ayidlala kuyo kwimpahla ayifunayo ukuyifaka.
Kukwa-7 okanye iminyaka eyi-8 ubudala ukuba inkwenkwe iya kuqalisa ukuqonda ukucinga okungenangqiqo kunye nokuziphatha kwayo, kuya kuqalisa ukuma. Ekupheleni kwesi sihlandlo, unokubonakalisa iimpawu zokuba ubusuku bendoda ejikelezayo .
Ngamanye amazwi, umntwana esikolweni esikolweni sokuqala uza kuza ngokwakhe. Yaye yinto entle, nangona oko kukukwenza uzive uncwina xa uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula. Kodwa ungakhathazeki: Uyakudinga kwaye uza kufike ixesha elizayo. Enyanisweni, enye yemisebenzi yakho ebalulekileyo njengomzali iya kubonakala ngeli xesha-ukukhuthaza ukuzimela komntwana wakho . Nazi ezinye iindawo apho kubaluleke ngakumbi kwaye kulula ukwenza oku.
Ngexesha lokutya
Abafundi bokuqala bebanga-bakala baqaphela ngokugqibeleleyo ngokutya. Inkwenkwe eyake yanyuka phantsi yonke ihlumela laseBrussels ibeke phambi kwayo ingazifungela ngokuzenzekelayo uyazizonda. Intombazana eyayisoloko ivuyiswa ngokufanelekileyo ukusela amanzi kunye nentlanzi yakhe yantambama ingaqala ukucela isoda.
Iimeko ezi zizenzeke ngokukhawuleza kwintlanzi azincinci ukuzenza kunye neengcamango zomntwana kunye nokunye ukukwenza ngokufuna ukulingana noontanga bakhe. Ukuncedisa ukuqinisekisa ukuba unokwaneleyo oneminyaka eyisi-7 kuya kwe-8 ubudala unondla kakuhle , nantsi ezinye izinto onokuzenza.
- Gcina izinto ezilungileyo kuphela ngeenxa zonke- kwaye wenze kube lula ukuba umntwana wakho abone kwaye afinyelele. Gcwalisa ifriji kunye neziqhamo eziqwengileyo kunye nezigulane, i-yogurt, ubisi kunye noshizi ngokutya okutyiwayo, kwaye ukhethe iichips, i-soda, neesekese njengento ekhethekileyo. Gcina apho umntwana wakho engaboni khona lula. Ekudleni, sebenzisa izicwangciso ezicetyiswa yi- Select My Plate izikhokelo kwaye ufake ubuncinane ukutya okunesondlo etafileni owaziyo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kuyidla. Oku kunokuba yiziqhezu zesibini sezonka zesinkwa kunye nebhotile yebhokisi ibhotela ekwenzeni isanti. Mphazamise ukuba azalise ubisi okanye ijusi phambi kokutya. Ukuba isisu sakhe sigcwele i-fluid akayi kuva ngathi ukutya ukutya okuqinileyo.
- Yenza ixesha lokudla livuyiswe ngokusemandleni. Ungazami ukwenza umntwana wakho adle xa engalambi, okanye umphoqe ukuba adle into ayithandayo. Ungalokothi usebenzise ukutya njengesifumbathiso okanye umvuzo xa ufuna ukuba wenze okuthile okanye umjezise ngokungadli. Yenza itafile ithetha ngezihloko ezintle; ndoloza ingxoxo malunga nelo livela kumfundisi wakhe emva kokutya.
- Mnike inkululeko. Nangona ecela i-sandwich efanayo kwi-bhokisi yakhe yesidlo sasemini imihla ngemihla okanye into eluhlaza kuphela eya kuhamba nayo yi-broccoli, nje ngokuba unamandla amaninzi kwaye ikhula ngokuqhelekileyo, akufanele ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga noko adlayo. Enyanisweni, ininzi abantwana abaneminyaka eli-7 okanye i-8 ubudala (kunye nangaphezulu) abadli ukutya okunokulinganisela imihla ngemihla, kodwa ngaphezu kwexesha leveki okanye kunjalo baya kulawula ukufumana iintlobo ezipheleleyo zezondlo. Ukuba ukhathazeke ngokwenene ngesondlo somntwanakho, ukutshekisha kwinqanaba lezingane kufuneka ubeke ingqondo yakho lula.
- Beka umzekelo omhle. Unokuba ngumntwana omkhulu, kodwa umntwana wakho ukhangele kuwe ukukhokela. Ngamanye amagama, yidla njengoko ufuna ukuba adle. Nangona engazange alandele ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha, uya kuchatshazelwa zigqibo zakho. Kuyafana nokusebenza. Ukuba usebenza, umntwana wakho uya kuba, naye. Yenza inzala yentsapho xa unako. Phakamisa ukuhamba ngebhayisikili okanye uhambo oluya e-bowling alley okanye epakini ukuhamba inja.
KwiNdlu
Xa uneminyaka engama-7 okanye i-8, abaninzi abantwana banomdla wokuthatha iimbopheleleko zabo. Nangona umntwana wakho sele ebeka ibhedi yakhe kwaye igcina igumbi lakhe licocekile, uya kulungelelanisa imisebenzi ethile efanelekileyo ekhulile "ekhulile," njengokuba yindawo enobuncitshisiweyo okanye umphathi wokubuyisela.
Ukuba unako, uza ngeendlela ezikhethiweyo zokukhetha kuyo. Uya kuba nako ukulandela ngokukwenza into ayithathileyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo akuyiyo ingcamango enkulu yokuhlawula umntwana ngokwenza imisebenzi yakhe. Kungcono ukuqwalasela umsebenzi wakhe wendlu umnikelo wakhe kwintsebenziswano yeentsapho. Esikhundleni saloku, yambethe ngeendumiso ngokugqiba imisebenzi yakhe.
Ukuqiniswa okulungileyo kuya kukhulisa ukuzithemba kwakhe kwaye kumkhuthaze ukuba anamathele nabo.
Nangona kunjalo, malunga ne-7 okanye-8 yithuba elihle lokuqala ukufundisa umntwana ngemali ngokumnika isibonelelo. Akubalulekanga ukuba kuninzi kangakanani, kodwa enye indlela efanelekileyo yokubala isitifiketi somntwana ngeveki kukumnika idola engama-dollar ngeminyaka yobudala-phakathi kwe-$ 3.50 kunye ne-7 ngeminyaka engama-7 ubudala. Ukulawula eso sixa esincinci kuya kunceda umntwana wakho afunde ixabiso lemali kunye nokubaluleka kokugcina.
Out and About
Isikolo sokuqala esikolweni lixesha elifanelekileyo lokunceda umntwana afunde ukukhusela ukhuseleko lwakhe. Akunako ukuchitha ixesha yedwa kwithuba elithile, kodwa akulimazi ukumlungiselela xa akwenza.
- Musa ukucima isihlalo sesixhasi. Ingane efuna ukuzimela kwayo ingacela ukuba uyeke ukusebenzisa enye. Ngaphandle kokuba inkulu yakho ibe yiminyaka yobudala, ke, unganikeli. Izingozi zeemoto ziyimbangela ebangela ukufa kwabantu, ngokutsho kwe-American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP). Indlela efanelekileyo yokugcina umntwana ukhuselekile kwimoto kukugcina kwisitulo se-booster de ibe ubuncinane ubunzima beenyawo ezili-4, ububanzi buka-9 intshi-ukuphakama ininzi yabantwana ayifinyeli kude ifike phakathi ko-8 no-12.
- Qinisekisa ukudlala okukhuselekileyo. Oku kuthetha ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho usebenzisa nayiphi na indlela yokukhusela eyimfuneko kumsebenzi akwenzayo. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba uhamba ngebhayisikili, kufuneka agqoke isigqoko esifanelekileyo. Ukuba akakwazi ukugiba okwangoku, qwaba izifundo.
- Fundisa izitalato. Khumbuza umntwana wakho ukuba abuke iindlela zombini ngaphezu kweyodwa ngaphambi kokuwela, umzekelo. Yiya kwizinto ayenze ukuba ayenze xa umfokazi esondela kuye. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukungena emotweni nomntu engaziyo, nokuba loo mntu uthe utsho ukuba kuya kulungile.
- Ukujongana nokusetyenziswa kwesikrini. Xa uneminyaka engama-7 okanye i-8, umntwana kufuneka akakwazi ukukhwaza i-intanethi ngaphandle kokulawula. Qala ukuvumela nayiphi na imidlalo yeekhompyutyana kunye neemafilimu umntwana wakho ofuna ukuyibuka, kwaye uyazi ukuba unokufikelela njani kumakhaya omhlobo wakhe.
- Hamba nomntwana wakho ukuba wenze ntoni kwimeko yongxamiseko- xa ucofa u-911, uthini na kwi-dispatcher.