Yazi xa i-preemie yakho ilindeleke ukuba ihlangabezane nemigqaliselo yophuhliso
Unokukhathazeka udla ngokukhathazeka malunga nokuba ngaba i-preemie yakho idibana neyona nto ihamba phambili, kodwa qiniseka; Iintsana ezininzi ezingaphambi kwexesha zihlangabezana neziganeko eziphambili zophuhliso kwiindawo eziqhelekileyo zeminyaka yazo echanekileyo. Umdala ochanekileyo ubalwa ngokukrazula inani leiveki ngaphambi kokuba azalwe ngokuzalwa komntwana wakho kwiiveki. Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho wazalwa ezinyangeni ezi-3 zingakabikho, uza kulindela kwiinyanga ezili-9 ubudala ukuba adibanise izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphuhliswa kweenyanga ezi-6 ezizalwe ngokupheleleyo. Funda xa umntwana wakho kufuneka ahlangabezane nemigqaliselo ekhethekileyo, yiyiphi intsana enokuhlangabezana neyona nto ihamba phambili ngaphezu kwabanye xa unokukhathazeka, kwaye unokwenza ntoni ukunceda umntwana wakho.
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Xa Iintshaba Zifuna Ukuhlala Kuphi?Yithi intsimbi yokugubha imithwalo ejikeleze umntwana wakho ukuwa. Ukufunda ukuhlala ngenye yezinto eziphambili zokuphuhliswa kwezitha. Uninzi lwezithaya ziya kufunda ukuhlala phakathi konyaka wokuqala, kodwa iintsana ezineengxaki ezininzi zempilo zokungcoliswa kwangaphambili zingahlala emva kweontanga zabo. Ukuqhaqha phezu kweyona nto ibalulekileyo ekufundeni indlela yokuhlala. Awunayo ukunyanzelisa, kodwa khumbula ngamathuba omntwana wakho ukuba azame ukuhamba kamva. Dlala imidlalo kunye naye ukuze ubenze ukuhamba ngaphezulu. Ekugqibeleni, baya kusebenzisa ezi zakhono ukuze bafunde ukuhlala.
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Xa Iintshaba Zifuna Ukuhamba?Fumana iikhamera zakho zilungele! Ngethuba lesibini sokuqala sonyaka wesibini wobomi, i-preemie yakho kufuneka ifunde ukuhamba. Abanye abazali bezithabelelo kufuneka balinde ixesha elide le-preemia developmental milestone, kwaye ezinye iinjongo zingadinga uncedo olungakumbi xa ufunda ukuhamba. Le nto ibaluleke kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwindlela umntwana ohlala rhoqo efumana ngayo ithuba lokuhamba ngokukhululekile. Ukuba intshukumo yomntwana wakho yayinqunyanyelwe ixesha elide, bahlangabezana nale nto ibalulekileyo emva kwezona zininzi. Khuthaza umdlalo wamahhala, kunye nexesha lokuxhamla ukubanceda bafunde ukulawula kwekhanda, kwaye baqinise i-torso yabo. Nangona ukukhwela kungena phakathi, ezi zimbini izakhiwo zokukhusela umhambi onempilo.
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Xa Iintshaba Zifuna Ukuthetha?Ukusuka ku "babababa" ukubiza uMama okanye uTata ngegama, kumnandi ukumamela njengoko iintsana zifunda ukuthetha. Le yinto enye ephambili yokukhusela iinqwelo ezinokuthi zihlangane ncinane phambi koonontanga babo bexesha elipheleleyo kuba sele bevezwe ngolwimi ixesha elide. Ezinye izitha zifuna uncedo oluncinane lokufunda ukuthetha kakuhle. Le ngenye yezo zinto zibalulekileyo eziza kuxhomekeka ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni unxibelelana kangakanani nomntwana wakho kwaye ubenze nabanye abantu abenza okufanayo. Ukufunda iincwadi imihla ngemihla, iingoma zokucula kunye nokudansa ziindlela zonke zokuxhasa ulwimi kwi-preemie yakho.