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Ukujongana ne-Ups ne-Downs

Ngelo xesha umntwana eqala isikolo esiphakathi , ubuhlobo buza kuthatha isigaba esithile. Njengoko abantwana bebaleka kubazali babo, babeka ngakumbi ukubaluleka kwezobudlelwane babo kunye neontanga zabo. Kodwa ubuhlobo besikolo esiphakathi kunokuba nzima kunamhlanje ngoku. Nantsi indlela yokunceda iingxaki zakho ziphakathi kobuhlobo obunzima, kwaye wenze ulwalamano oluninzi lwabahlobo.

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Ncedisa ukwenza kwakho kunye nokugcina ubungani

Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokwenza abahlobo, unokunceda. Nangona ungeke ukwazi ukwenza umhlobo wabantwana bakho, ungamfundisa indlela yokuthetha nabanye abantwana, kwaye ubeke unyawo lwakhe olungcono. Ncedisa phakathi kwakho ukuhlakulela inkwenkwezi yokuqalisa incoko, kwaye ukhuthaze umntwana wakho ukuba athethe abantwana abatsha esikolweni okanye kwindawo.

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Ukuqonda Ubungane kunye noXinzelelo lwabaontanga

Uxinzelelo lwabaontanga luya kukhula ngexesha leminyaka ephakathi njengoko abantwana bezama ukulingana kunye nokudibana nabafundi babo besikolo. Ingcinezelo yoontanga ayiyiyo yonke into embi, kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukuba uphakanyiswa njani ukuba umntwana wakho azive ecinezelekile ukuba atshise, asele, okanye aphule imithetho yasekhaya. Thetha ngeengxaki ezinokuthi umntwana uya kuhlangabezana nabangani bakhe kwaye aphuhlise izicwangciso zokujongana nazo. Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba unokuhlala efika kuwe ukuze anike iingcebiso malunga nokunyanzeliswa koontanga.

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Khangela ukuxhatshazwa

Ukuziphatha ngokuxhaphaza kuninzi kuninzi phakathi kwesikolo esiphakathi kweminyaka, kwaye abafundi abaninzi abaxhatshazwayo banamahloni kangangokuba bayenqaba ukuxelela umntu omdala. Kubalulekile ukwazi iziganeko zokuxhatshazwa ukuze uncede umntwana wakho anqobe aze asasaze imeko. Ukuba i-chip yakho ibhekene nokuxhatshazwa esikolweni okanye kwibhasi, kufuneka ikwazise ukuze ukwazi ukujongana nale meko. Kusenokwenzeka ukuba udibanise nesikolo somntwana wakho ukuze uncede.

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Yenza Intombi Ethethayo

Isikolo esiphakathi sinokuba nzima ngakumbi kumantombazana, ingakumbi ukuba aphumelele kwiklasi ithetha intombazana. Ukwazi indlela yokujonga iintombazana ezithethayo kunye nabanye abaxhaphazayo kuyisinyathelo sokuqala sokuziphepha. Buza phakathi kwakho ukuba uyazi indlela yokusingatha "abahlobo" abaxhaphazayo okanye abaphithizayo kunye noko ayenokuyenza xa omnye wabahlobo bakhe ephikisana naye ngokukhawuleza.

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Uphumelelo lwezemfundo kunye nobudlelwane Bontanga

Ngaba uyazi ukuba ubuhlobo bomntwana wakho buyakuchukumisa impumelelo yakhe? Enyanisweni, kukho udibaniso phakathi kokuphumelela kwemfundo kunye nokwamkelwa koontanga. Kodwa umntwana wakho akafanele abe yinkwenkwe eyaziwayo kakhulu esikolweni ukuba abe ngumfundi olungileyo. Nantsi indlela ubuhlobo bomntwana bakho buchaphazela ngayo ukusebenza kwesikolo.

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