Oko Kukuthi, Ngubani Okufanele Abekho, Kutheni Kuthetha
Unyaka ngamnye eWashington, DC, amakhulu abantu abahlangene bahlangene ukuze balwe namalungelo abo bangenasifo. Usuku loLwakaliso ngumsitho oluhlelwe nguSombululo: UMbutho weSizwe ongenakuncedo.
Ngosuku olupheleleyo, bonke abo banenkathalo malunga nokungabikho kwabantwana kunye nabo bachaphazelekayo banokuhlangana nabameli babo bebandla, babelane ngamabali abo, kwaye baxhasa abo bazama ukuzakhela iintsapho zabo.
Qulunqa iishedyuli iintlanganiso kunye nabahlali bakho kunye nabameli bendlu, unikeza uqeqesho kunye nenkxaso, kwaye uqinisekisa ukuba bonke abathathi-nxaxheba balungele ukwenza ilizwi labo live.
Amadoda nabasetyhini abavela kulo lonke elaseUnited States baya eWashington, DC kwiSuku lokuBala.
Bangobani aba bantu nababhinqa?
Ewe, bantwini njengawe. Mhlawumbi kuya kuba nawe.
Inini lonto? Kutheni Ubonisa?
Usuku loKhuselo lunye ngonyaka ngonyaka kaMeyi. Ngo-2017, Usuku loLwentando luyenzeka ngoMeyi 18, kunye neNgeniso yokuBamkela i-Welcome Welcome to evening of May 17th.
Iindleko zokuhamba kunye neendawo zokulala azixhaswa ngemali, ngoko kuya kufuneka uhlawule indlela yakho apho. Kodwa imisebenzi yemini ngokwawo ikhululekile, kwaye ezinye zeendleko zakho zihlawulwa irhafu. Qinisekisa ukuba uthetha nomgcini-akhawunti.
Ukuba ufika kwiSuku lokuBala, uza kuba nethuba lokulwa nelungelo lokuncedisa inkxaso engcono yemali kunye nezempilo kulabo bazama ukuzakhela iintsapho zabo.
Ngokuza kudibana nabameli bakho, ubonisa i-congress ukuba le micimbi ibaluleke kubavoti babo.
Inyaniso yokuba uhambe kwaye uthatha ixesha lokudibana nabo yenza impembelelo enkulu.
Ubeka ubuso obunene kunye nebali emva kwemiba. Akuyi kuphinda kubekho iindleko zesekhaya zokwakha iimbono. Baya kuba ngabantu bokwenene abanamabali okwenene .
Lona lixhobisa.
Ngubani omele eze kwiSuku lokuBala?
Ngubani "ummeli wokungakhulelwa?" Unokuba njalo.
Nabani na onako.
Kufuneka ufike ngokukhawuleza ukuza kwiSuku loLukuzisa ukuba ...
Unobunzima bokungabikho.
Mhlawumbi uhlala kumagangatho okuvavanya okanye unzulu kwinqanaba lokunyanga . Mhlawumbi uzama nje i-Clomid okanye uzimisele ukuqala umjikelezo wesithathu we-IVF .
Ufanele ufike kwiSuku lokuBala.
Nangona kuyi nyaniso ukuba ukuvavanya ukuzala kunye nokunyanga kuyabiza - kwaye ngoko uhambo oluya kwiSuku lokuBala luyakubonakala lubuqili - yinto enesizathu esihle kakhulu sokuya.
Abantu abanjengawe nabo kufuneka bavelise baze bafune inkxaso.
Ngubani owaziyo ... mhlawumbi ubukho bakho kwi-Day of Advocacy Day buza kubangela ukhenketho lweziganeko eziza kubakho unyango oluthatyathwa yi-inshurensi kwixesha elizayo.
Okona kuncinci, baya kuba nethemba ekukhokelweni kwabanye ukuba bafumane oko bakufunayo-kwaye abayi kudingeka ukuba bafumane ezinye zexinzelelo oye wazenza.
Ukungazinzi kwakho kusisombululo.
Isixazululo sinokuphazanyiswa ngeendlela ezininzi-kunokuthetha ukuba ekugqibeleni unabantwana ngonyango. Kusenokuthetha ukuba uye wamkela. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba uhambe ngeendlela ezingenamntwana.
Naluphi na ukulungiswa kuthetha ntoni kuwe, kufuneka ube khona kukho konke.
Okokuqala, awuzami ukucwangcisa ubomi bakho phakathi kovavanyo kunye nonyango. Kukho kwixesha elidlulileyo.
Kulula ukuba ufike kunaphambili.
(Ewe, ukuba unomntwana omncinci, oku kunokuba nzima ukuhamba ... kodwa unokuhamba xa umntwana ekhulile.)
Okwesibini, cinga ukuba umyalezo uthumela ntoni xa abasindayo bokuba bengabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangabantwana abangama-3, anesihlanu, kwiminyaka engama-20 emva kohambo lwabo lokungahambi.
Kuthetha oku kubalulekile. Esi sisifo sokuguqula ubomi. Esi sisifo esibambela umntu ukuba axhomeke iminyaka neminyaka.
Wena ungumhlobo oxhasayo okanye ilungu losapho.
Usuku loKhuselo alugcini kuphela kwabo bafumana ukungabikho kwengqondo - kuba ngabahlobo babo kunye namalungu entsapho .
Unokuya nabo, okanye uhambe kunye nendawo yabo.
Kuya kuthetha ihlabathi kubo.
Uyingcali yokuzala.
Ngubani ongcono ukufundisa iCongress kwiimpembelelo zonyango kunye nezezimali ekungabikho kwabantu abangabodwa kuphela kodwa uluntu lukhulu?
Ukuba uvavanyo lokungabikho kolwaphulo kunye nonyango lufakwe ngomshuwalense, uya kuba ngcono ukunyanga izigulane.
Esinye isizathu esikhulu sokuya: umgaqo-mthetho usoloko usongela ukuvala okanye ukukhawuleza ukufikelela ekunakekeleni unyango.
Umsebenzi wakho kunye nezoshishino kuxhomekeke kwinkxaso yomthetho.
Ungummeli womntwana.
Usuku loKwazisa lithetha ngokuxhasa abo bazama ukwakha iintsapho zabo ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Oku kuquka ukutholwa komntwana.
Unenkathalo ngempilo yoluntu.
Ukungabi nantoni kwenzeka xa into ethile ehamba ngokugqithiseleyo ngempilo yokuzala.
Ingxaki yonyango. Ngoxa ukhetha ukuba okanye ungabi nabantwana kunokuthiwa yindlela yokuphila, ungazikwazi ukukhetha - kuba into ephosakeleyo ngomzimba wakho - ayikho indlela yokuphila. Kuyisifo.
Ukukhulelwa kunye nokuncelisa akulona nje "izinto ezintle" izinto zokuba uzive. Ngokuqinisekileyo banikezela izibonelelo zezempilo. Abasetyhini abakhulelweyo okanye abanamabele abancinci banomngcipheko ophantsi wokufumana ubuninzi beengxaki zempilo.
Ukukhulelwa kunye nokuba nomntwana kunokwenene kukukhusela impilo yabasetyhini.
Ukuba ngumntu onempilo kukuba ube nenkqubo yokuzala inempilo. Ukhula alukho amandla. Okanye lilungelo. Okanye "intsikelelo."
Ingundoqo ebomini kule planethi. Kodwa ke ... ezininzi iinkampani ze-inshorensi zempilo aziboneleli ngenkonzo yokungabikho komntwana.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba ukungabikho kobuntwa kufuneka uphathwe njengawephi na esinye isifo somzimba, kufuneka ufike kwiSuku lokuBala.
Kodwa Kuthiwani Ukuba Awuyazi Indlela Yokukhuthaza KwiCapitol Hill?
Akukho nkxalabo malunga noko! Esi siganeko sidalwa ngabantu abanjengawe-abo abanomdla, abafuna ukwenza umehluko.
Kwaye ... yiyo yonke into oyifunayo. Ukunyuka.
Ukuxazulula uqinisekisa ukuba uqeqeshiwe kwaye ulungiselelwe usuku. Kukho uqeqesho oluqhelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba ufike eKapitol Hill, kwaye emva koko uqeqesho lomntu xa ufika.
Kukho kwakhona iqela le-Facebook elixhasayo uza kufakwa xa usayina, apho ungabuza imibuzo ngabo bebekho ngaphambili, kwaye uqhagamshelane nalabo abaza okokuqala.
Ukuxazulula ulungiselela zonke iintlanganiso zakho, kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iimeko. Ulungele ukuba wenze ilizwi lakho live.
Abayi kukuphosa ngosuku olungalungiselelanga.
Fumana ulwazi oluthe xaxa okanye ubhalise kwiwebhusayithi ye-RESOLVE Day Advocacy:
- Iwebhusayithi yoSuku loLwazi lokuBala
Fumana iingcebiso kunye nokuphefumlelwa kulabo baye baye kwiSuku lokuBala:
- Usuku Lokukhuthaza Ukuphefumlelwa: Kulabo Baye Bakho