Ncedisa Umntwana Othe Wazibodwa
Ukukhula kugcwele imingeni kodwa iminyaka engama-50 ingaba nzima ngakumbi kubantwana. Ngethuba leminyaka emibini, abantwana bahlala bevavanya isimo sabo kunye noontanga, kwaye oko kukhokelela ekuziphatheni okubi njengoko kuhlaselwa kwiindawo eziphezulu zentlalo, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ukunyanzelisa, ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukushiya abanye , nokuba ngabahlobo bangaphambili.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana ihlombe elibandayo esikolweni kubahlobo, abahlobo okanye abafunda nabo, bangenza ixesha elinzima ekhaya.
Kwaye ukwenza izinto zibe zibi nakakhulu, umntwana wakho sele ekhulile ngoku, kwaye ukulungisa iingxaki zakhe akulula nje ngokuba bekunjalo. Masijongane nayo, icookie kunye nokumomotheka kunokukufumana nje ngoku kule mihla. Ngaloo nto ingqondweni, iingcebiso ezingezantsi kufuneka zikuncede ukuphazamisa umntwana ovakalelwa yintsapho.
Mamela
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukhononda ngokushiywa ngaphandle, zama ukungahambi ngokukhawuleza. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali baqhuma ngokukhawuleza ukuba bazame ukugcina usuku. Kungenzeka ukuba uhlangothi lwakho luhamba nomngeni wesikhashana onokusetyenziswa ngaphandle koluncedo lwakho. Mamela oko umntwana wakho athethayo, kwaye unike inkxaso nenkxaso. Gcina iithebhu kwiimeko kwaye uzama ukuqokelela ulwazi oluvela kwezinye izinto, njengabanye abazali okanye abantwana bomntakwabo. Ukuba ukuziphatha kuyaqhubeka, kusenokuba ixesha lokuqwalasela ezinye iindlela. Ukuba iingxaki zakho zentlalo ziqhubeka ziyakuchukumisa ukuzithemba komntwana wakho.
Iziphakamiso Zomnikelo
Abantwana abavuthwanga ngokwezicwangciso eziqinileyo, ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abaye baqala ukukhula bazive bephelelwe yilabo bahambayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho uwela kulolu hlobo, akumangalisi ukuba uziva esishiywe ngabahlobo abaguqula kwaye bahlakulela ezinye izinto ezinomdla. Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afumane abahlobo abacingayo, abanomdla kwizinto ezizenzekelayo okanye izinto ezifanayo.
Fumana imisebenzi yezenhlalakahle ngaphandle kwesikolo ukunceda umntwana wakho akhulise isangqa sakhe sesentlalo. Ukongezelela, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ubuhlobo buza kwaye buhamba ngexesha leminyaka eliphakathi. Umhlobo wakho omncinci womntwana omnye unyaka ungase ube khona kuye. Kodwa musa ukumangaliswa ukuba ngabahlobo abadala bavusa kwiminyaka embalwa.
Ukuvumela Ukuzimela
Bonke abantu baziva bekhethwe ngenye ixesha, konke kuyingxenye yokukhula. Nangona ukwamkelwa koontanga kubalulekile ukuba kubonakale, kubalulekile ukuba bafumane icala labo elizimeleyo. Khangela abalinganiswa beencwadi okanye iifrimu ezihamba ngendlela yazo kwaye ungakhathazeki malunga nokuba ziyaziwayo okanye ziyinxalenye yesihlwele. Unokukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba acinge ngezinto ezithandwayo okanye izinto azenzayo yedwa, njengomculo, imidlalo engapheliyo okanye enye imisebenzi.
Sebenzisa iziphazamiso
Ukuba umntwana wakho uzive ukhululekile kwaye uyedwa, kufuneka ungenelele. Nceda umntwana wakho athole imisebenzi kunye neminqweno apho angakwazi ukuhlangabezana nabanye abantwana abanjengaye. Ukumnceda awandise isangqa sakhe sabahlobo uya kunika intuthuzelo ngaloo mihla xa evakalelwa yintswelo okanye ekhohlo kwabanye. Yenza kube lula kumntwana wakho ukumema abahlobo abatsha ngaphezu kwekhaya lakho, mhlawumbi kwi-sleepover okanye ngeeyure ezimbalwa ngeveki.
Vula Ikhaya Lakho
Qinisekisa ukuba uvulela ikhaya lakho kubahlobo bomntwana wakho ukuze ukwazi ukubazi kwaye wazi ukuba umntwana wakho usebenzisana njani nabo. Nika abantwana indawo yokuxhoma, bukela iifilimu okanye udlale imidlalo kunye ne-chill.
Yenza ixesha ndawonye
Umntwana wakho ufuna abahlobo bakhe, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukho nto. Qinisekisa ukuba uchitha ixesha elilodwa kunye lakho kunye nokwenza ixesha lokuzonwabisa kunye. Ngamanye amaxesha intsapho encinane ingonwaba ingqondo yomntwana wakho kwiingxaki zakhe, ubuncinane okwethutyana.