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Ukuzala abazali phakathi kwehlabathi namhlanje kubangela iingxaki ezinomdla. AmaTween afuna ukuba njengabantwana abaselula kodwa abavuthiwe ngokwaneleyo ukujongana noxanduva lobomi bentsha.
Iingxaki zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo zingabandakanya ukuphikisana, ukulila, ukunyaniseka , nokuxoka . Kule minyaka, abahlobo baba luleke ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili kwaye abantwana bafuna ukungena.
Uqeqesho olufanelekileyo lwexesha elide luyakuthintela umntwana wakho ukuba enze iimpazamo ezingathí sina, ngelixa ekufundiseni izifundo ezibalulekileyo zokuphila.
1. Misela iMigaqo ecacileyo
Abantwana babo bonke ubudala badinga imithetho yasekhaya kunye neminyaka ephakathi kungabakho ixesha elihle lokuhlaziya loo mithetho. Kucacisa ngokucacileyo uhlobo lokuziphatha okulindeleyo ngokwemisebenzi, umsebenzi wesikolo, ikhowudi yokugqoka kunye namanye amalungelo.
Kwakhona, xubusha okulindelekileyo kumntwana wakho xa engaphandle kwekhaya. I-Tween ngokuqhelekileyo ifuna ukuqala ukuchitha ixesha elongezelelweyo ekubandakanyekeni kwimisebenzi yentlalontle kwaye kufuneka ikwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni xa iindawo zemidlalo okanye kwindlu yomhlobo.
2. Qulunqa iikontrakthi zokuziphatha
I-Tweens ifuna amalungelo amaninzi, njengokuba ne-smartphone okanye ixesha lokuchitha kunye nabahlobo abangagqithwanga. Kodwa, amaninzi amaninzi ayilungele ukujongana noxanduva oluhamba kunye namalungelo.
Yenza isivumelwano sokuziphatha ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba akubonise xa ekwazi ukujongana nokufumana amalungelo amasha. Misela izikhokelo eziza kufuneka umntwana wakho alandele ixesha elithile ngaphambi kokuba athole ilungelo elithile.
Umzekelo, umntwana wakho unokufuna ukubonisa ukuba unokugqiba imisebenzi yakhe yonke imihla kwiiveki ezimbini ngaphandle kokucelwa ukuba abonise ukuba unembopheleleko ngokwaneleyo ukuba aqale ukuhlala ekhaya yedwa kwiyure. Okanye, unokufuna ukubonisa ukuba unokunamathela kwimithetho kwi-tablet phambi kokuba uhlole ukuthenga i-smartphone.
3. Sebenzisa Ukuba ... Emva koko Iingcebiso
Sebenzisa ukuba ... izilumkiso ezicaca ngokucacileyo iziphumo zokuziphatha kwazo. Le yindlela enhle yokuqala ukufundisa ukuziphatha , oko kuya kubaluleka ngexesha leminyaka eliselula. Qinisekisa ukuba ulungele ngokupheleleyo ukulandela nangayiphi na imiphumo oyingozi.
4. Sebenzisa iMigqaliselo yoLuleko
Yenza izilumkiso zibe zikhuthazo ngokusebenzisa ulawulo lomkhulu kaTata . Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Awukwazi ukuphuma ngaphandle kokuba imisebenzi yakho yenziwe," uthi, "Unako ukuphuma ngaphandle kwangoko yonke imisebenzi yakho yenziwe." Yindlela elula yokunceda umntwana wakho abe noxanduva lokuziphatha kwakhe.
5. Ukubonelela ngemiphumo emihle
Iziphumo kuba-tween kufuneka ziqikelele. Ukuba uthabatha ibhayisikile ngenxa yokuba akazange aphume ebhedini ngethuba, akanako ukwenza uxhumano kwaye afunde kwihambo yakhe. Ukubonelela ngesiphumo esinengqiqo esidibanisa isijeziso kwisenzo esingalunganga.
6. Vumela iziphumo zendalo
Xa ukhuselekile ukwenza njalo, vumela uhlangothi lwakho ukuba ubhekane nemiphumo yemvelo yokuziphatha kwakhe. Umzekelo, ukuba unomsebenzi we-basketball oqaqambileyo nakusasa ngoMgqibelo ekuseni kodwa ufuna ukuhlala ngokukhawuleza ngoLwesihlanu ebusuku, cinga ukumvumela ukuba ahlale emva. Ukuba uphelile xa evuka ekuseni, unokucinga ngokuphindaphindiweyo ngokuhlala ngokukhawuleza ngexesha elizayo.
Imiphumo yemvelo ifanele isetyenziswe xa ikhuselekile ukwenza njalo. Ungamvumeli ukuba umntwana wakho enze nantoni na eyenza ukuba aphumele. Futhi sebenzisa kuphela imiphumo yemvelo xa ucinga ukuba baya kufundisa umntwana wakho isifundo sobomi esibalulekileyo.
7. Thatha iAway Privileges
Thatha amalungelo aphakathi xa kufuneka. Yenze ixesha elibukhali-iiyure ezingama-24 zanele. Thatha i-elektroniki, ixesha kunye nabahlobo, okanye nayiphi na ilungelo elongezelelweyo elingenza ukuba phakathi kwakho ucinge kabini ngokuphula imithetho kwakhona.
8. Yenza iiNkqubo zoNcedo
Inkqubo yokufumana umvuzo okanye inkqubo yoqoqosho lweedonkco inokunciphisa iingxaki zokuziphatha ngokukhawuleza. Ukudibanisa ukuziphatha okuhle kwizinto ezikhuthaza ukuba phakathi kwakho kufune ukufumana kwaye uya kuba noxanduva olukhulu.
9. Hlonipha Ubumnene Bokuziphatha
Ngamanye amaxesha, ulungele ukuyeka ukuziphatha kakubi nokuziphatha okubi. Ingaba uyakhenkceza , ukukhalazela okanye ukugxininisa imigaqo yakho ayilungile, uphenduke uze wenze sengathi awuyiva. Ukuba u-pakati wakho akakwazi ukubandakanya wena kwingxabano, okanye ubona ukuba unomdla wokuthintana, uya kugqiba.
10. Uhlobo olulungileyo lokuziphatha
I-Tweens iya kufunda ngakumbi kwizinto ozenzayo kunokuba uthini. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba ubeke imodeli yokuziphatha ngokufanelekileyo ngexesha lonke. I-kati yakho iya kufunda indlela yokujongana neemeko ezahlukeneyo zobomi ngokubona indlela ophendula ngayo nantoni na evela kubantu abahlambulukileyo ukuya kwiziganeko ezinzima.
Indlela osebenzisana ngayo phakathi kwakho iya kunika umzekelo wakho phakathi. Ukuba ukhwaza umntwana wakho, lindele ukuba umntwana wakho abuyele. Okanye ukuba uthe ufungile xa uphelelwa ngumsindo, umntwana wakho uya kufungela.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics: Isiyalo.
> HealthyChildren.org: Ukuyala umntwana wakho.