Ukhuseleko lweNtlalo luya kwenzeka kwiindlela ezininzi kunye nezizathu ezininzi.
Ngokuphathelele ubudlelwane nokuziphatha komntu, ukukhutshwa kweentlalo kubhekisele kwisenzo sokwenqaba umntu ekusebenzisaneni kwabantu. Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle kungenakho okanye kungabi nakonakalisa ngengozi . Kwezinye iimeko, imbono yengane yokukhutshwa kwentlalo ingaba yiphumo, kungekhona kwintshukumo yontanga, kodwa ukungaqondani.
Ukungazibandakanyi kweNtlalo:
Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ezingenakwenzeka kwenzeka phantsi kweemeko ezininzi; umzekelo:
- xa umntwana ebonakala engathandekiyo ekusebenzisaneni kwamacandelo kwaye ngoko ke ushiywe ngaphandle kwentsebenziswano yentlalontle kuba kubonakala ngathi yinto ekhethwa ngumntwana;
- xa uhlanga, ubutyebi, okanye ezinye iintlukwano zentlalo zenza izibambano ezingabonakaliyo phakathi kwamaqela abantwana (ngokuqhelekileyo ezi zithintelo izibuko zabo zabazali)
- xa abantwana abakhubazekileyo bevinjwa ngabanye abantwana ngenxa yexhala, ukungazi, okanye ukungaqiniseki malunga nendlela yokuziphatha ngayo
- xa abantwana bejolise kwiimfuno zabo, iidrama, okanye amaqela kwaye abazi ngokwenene iimfuno okanye nethemba kwabanye
Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ezingenanto kungacwangciswanga ngokukhawuleza ngezakhono zentlalo kunye neenkqubo zemfundo ezinceda abantwana ukuba baqonde ngakumbi iziphumo zezenzo zabo okanye izenzo. Kwezinye iimeko, kunokuba kuyimfuneko ukubonelela ngezifundo ezithile malunga nokukhubazeka okuthe ngqo; umzekelo, kunokuba luncedo ukubonelela ngokuqhelekileyo abantwana abathuthukayo ngolwazi malunga nendlela engcono yokusebenzisana nomfundi oyimfama okanye oyisithulu.
Ukukhutshwa kweNtlalo
Xa kunenjongo, ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle kuthathwa njengoluhlobo lobudlova okanye ubudlova. Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ngokweenzame kunokuba ngaphezulu, njengokungathethi kumntu, okanye kungabonakali, njengokusasaza iindlebe malunga nomntu ukwenzela ukuba kancane kancane anqatshwe.
Ukuxhatshazwa ngenye indlela yokukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ezinokuthi zenzeke kakubi. Ukuxhatshazwa kungathatha iindidi ezininzi, ukusuka kwintshukumo yokusongela kwizinto ezizifihlakeleyo ezingabonakali kubabukeli bangaphandle. Ukuxhatshazwa kunokuqhutyelwa emva kweeyure zesikolo, ekhaya okanye kuluntu.
Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyberbullying yindlela enobungozi yokukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ezinokubangela ukuthotywa okukhulu kwaye, kwezinye iimeko ezinzima, ukuzibulala . Ukuxhatshazwa kwe-Cyber kuqukwa ngamazwi e-intanethi ekusasazeni, ukuxhatshazwa nokuxhatshazwa. Ngenxa yokuba abantu abadala abakwazi ukusebenza kwiindawo ezifanayo zentlalo yezobuntu njengabantwana babo, basenokungazi ukuba i-cyber-bullying iyadlula.
Ukugxothwa kwezenhlalakahle kudlalwa ngamantombazana, ngokukodwa xa besongelwa ukuba bazinqatshelwe. Abafana, nangona kunjalo, banokubandakanyeka ekuthinjweni kwentlalo.
UkuCwangcisa ukuSebenziselwa ukuThatheliswa kweNtlalo
Kwiimeko apho umntwana wakho akhankanywe ngamabomu, kubalulekile ukuqokelela iinkcukacha phambi kokuthatha isenzo. Ukudibana nomfundisi wengane yakho kunye / okanye abanye abasebenzi beziko lesinye isinyathelo esibalulekileyo; unokufisa ukugcina umntwana wakho esikolweni (ukuba uzimisele ukuyivumela). Uya kufuneka uqikelele:
- nokuba ngaba ukuziphatha kwakho komntwana kungabangela isizathu sokukhutshwa (kwimeko apho umntwana wakho unokufumana inzuzo ekuqeqesheni izakhono zentlalo)
- nokuba ngaba oontanga abathile "ngumcebisi," ukunyanzelisa abanye oontanga ukuba bangabandakanyi umntanakho (kwimeko apho ukungenelela okubandakanya umcebisi kunye nabazali bakhe banokuba luncedo)
- ingaba umntwana wakho ukhutshwa ngaphandle ngenxa yecala lomzimba okanye ukukhubazeka (kwimeko apho imfundo, iiprogram zoontanga kunye neenkqubo zentlalo zinokuthi zincede)
- ingaba ukuxhatshazwa kwe-cyber inxalenye yengxaki (kwimeko apho uya kufuna ukubeka intsebenziswano kwintsebenziswano yakho ye-intanethi okanye, mhlawumbi, iphele)
Ukongezelela ukuthatha inyathelo kwi-front front, abazali banokubanceda abantwana babo ukuba babhekane nokukhutshwa kwentlalo ngoku:
- ukubonelela ngokungekho gweba, ukuxhasa indawo yokuhlala
- ukukhuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yoluntu enxulumene nezikolo
- ukunika iingcebiso kumntwana wakho kunye nezixhobo zokuzimela
Imibandela ehambelanayo: ulwalamano lobuhlobo , intombazana enentsingiselo , ukunyeliswa ngamagama
Imithombo:
Umculi, uJohn noCoyne, uSara. Ukuhlaziywa okuhlangeneyo kolwaphulo olungqalileyo, loluntu kunye nolwalamano. 2005. Ukuhlaziywa koBuntu kunye nokuHlola kweNtlalo. 9, 3: 212-230.
Benenson, Joyce F., Markovits, uHenry, Thompson, uMelissa Emery, kunye noWrangham, uRichard W. Ngengozi yokukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle, amabhinqa awabandakanyi ngaphezu kwamadoda. 2011. iNzululwazi yesayensi.