Ukususela ekubuyiseleni ukuPhukisa, UkuBazalwana abazalwana abaKhulu
Ingaba ukhetha ukuzicingela "ungenamntwana" okanye "umntfwana ukhululekile," eli gama alikho enye inokuthabatha. Uninzi lwabantwana abangenabantwana abafuna abantwana ebomini babo, nokuba ngaba bengabazali ngokwabo. Ukufumana iindlela zokuba yinxalenye yobomi bomntwana akusoloko kubonakala. Ngokukodwa ukuba iminyaka emininzi idlulileyo ijolise ekulwa nokungabikho kokusweleka, ungase ulahleke amathuba okuphambi kwakho.
Yaye ukuba ukhangele ngaphaya kwemigangatho yakho yangoku, unokufumana amathuba amaninzi ukuba ube yingxenye yobomi bomntwana.
Ngokuxhomekeke kumsebenzi wakho wosuku, indlela yokuphila, kunye nendawo, unokuba uninzi okanye uninzi kakhulu kwezi zikhetho ezivulekile kuwe. Amanye ala mathuba athabatha iiyure ezimbalwa ngenyanga, abanye bangabenza imisebenzi yemihla ngemihla okanye epheleleyo imihla. Uninzi luguqula ubomi. Ukuba akukho naluphi ukhetho olu luhlu olufanelekileyo, jonga oku njengendawo yokuqala, kunye nendlela yokukunceda ukuba ufumane iingcinga zakho zokusebenzisana nezingane.
Qaphela ukuba ezininzi zeeprogram ziza kufuna ukuhlolwa kweemvelaphi, izikhokelo kunye nolunye uqeqesho loqeqesho. Oku kuya kufuneka nokuba unabantwana bakho, kwaye kubalulekile ukugcina abantwana bekhuselekile. Zama ukungayithathi.
Indlela # 1: Yiba ngumzali ongumzali
Ndiyazi into ocinga ngayo-ukuba umntwana okhulayo ungumzali. Ewe, kunjalo, kodwa ndiyakutshilo kuba nangona ukubekwa ngumntwana kwakungekho kuwe, ukukhulisa umntwana kungabakho into onokuyenza.
Njengoko unokucinga, ukukhuthaza ukuzimisela, ukuzinikezela ixesha elipheleleyo, kodwa yindlela yokwenza umehluko omkhulu ebomini bomntwana.
Indlela # 2: Yiba yiNkundla egunyazisiweyo i-Advocate Special
Inkundla egqitywe ngummeli okhethekileyo (CASA) yindlela yokunceda abantwana kwinkqubo yokunyamekela abantwana ngaphandle kokuba ngumzali okhulayo.
Abantwana abancinci banokubanjelwa kumgcini kumgcini, kwaye okuninzi kunokulahleka kwinkqubo.
Njengoko inkundla imisele ummeli okhethekileyo, yinto enye ekufuneka ihlale ihambelana nomntwana kulo lonke inkqubo. Uya kunceda ukuncedisa umntwana ngokuthetha nabantu abaninzi abasebenza naye, kunye nokuzisa yonke loo ngcaciso. Funda kabanzi kwiwebsite yeCASA:
- CASA kubantwana
Indlela # 3: Yamukela Inxaxheba Yakho Njenge-Anti (okanye uMalume)
Cinga ngaphaya kwezihlobo zegazi. Akukho sizathu sokuba awukwazi ukubandakanya u-Anti okanye uMalume ebomini bakho bomngane bakho, becinga ukuba bavulelekile ukubandakanyeka kwakho. Ungabandakanyeka njani? Ukuya kumaqela omhla wokuzalwa, ukuza ukuthabatha abantwana ukuya epakini okanye kwiifilimu, ukubonakalisa kwimidlalo yabo okanye imidlalo yokuzonwabisa (kwaye mhlawumbi nikela ukwenza i-carpool, enokuthi ibe luncedo olukhulu kubazali babo! ), kunye nokunye okuninzi.
Indlela # 4: Yiba nguMenzi, Mzalwana Omkhulu, okanye Udade Omkhulu
Konke oku kuthatha iiyure ezimbalwa iinyanga ezimbalwa ngenyanga ukuguqula ubomi bomntwana. Njengomcebisi, unokuchitha ixesha kunye nomdlali wakho odlala umdlalo, uvakatye kumyuziyam, okanye uxoxe ngesidlo sasemini. Uqeqesho olwenzayo luquka ukufundiswa, okanye lugxininise kwimisebenzi yokonwaba.
Ulwalamano oluthile lwabalandeli luhlala ixesha lokuphila.
- Abazalwana Bakhulu Abazalwana Bakhulu: Ivolontiya yokuQala into
- Yiba nguMenzi
Indlela # 5: Cinga ngeNkqubo yokuSebenza okanye iNxalenye eyongezelelweyo IsiXhobo
Ingaba umsebenzi wakho unomsebenzi ongaphantsi ochaphazelekayo nabantwana kunokuba ungathanda ukuba ube ngowakho? Cinga ngenguqu yomsebenzi. Okanye unokucinga ukuba usebenze umsebenzi wesibini ojoliswe kumntwana kwicala, kuxhomekeke kwixesha elizifunayo.
Imisebenzi ebandakanya abantwana iquka:
- yengqondo yengqondo kunye nemisebenzi ethile yentlalo yomsebenzi
- esebenzayo ekunakekeleni abantwana (nokuba usebenza kwisebe lomntwana okanye ukunakekelwa kwelanga, ukuvula ngokwakho, okanye ube ngumntwana)
- ukuba ngumlawuli wekampu okanye uqale inkampu yakho
- kwiintsholongwane zempilo
- unyango lomzimba
- unyango lwabantwana
- zesebe zolutsha
- imfundo (ukususela ekuqaleni ukuya esikolweni esiphakamileyo, ukusuka kwimfundo ukuya kwimfundo ekhethekileyo)
- ukufundiswa (nokuba i-freelance okanye ngekampani yokufundisa)
- umsebenzi wokuzonwabisa kunye nokuzonwabisa kubantwana
- ukuqeqesha okanye ukufundisa imfundo yemvelo
- esebenzisana nabantwana abasanda kuzalwa okanye oomama abasebenza (ukusuka kwi-doulas ukuya kubabelekazi)
- unyango lwabazali okanye abantwana
Indlela # 6: Ukuzithandela kwi-YMCA yasekhaya, i-JCC, okanye ezinye iziko loLuntu
Cinga ukufundisa iklasi okanye ukuqeqesha umdlalo kwiziko lakho loluntu. Amaziko amaninzi asekuhlaleni anika amaqela olutsha kwaye, ehlobo, iikampu zemihla, apho zifuna iimvolontiya.
- Amavolontiya kwiY
Indlela yesi-7: Yiba yintombazana yeSkout okanye iNtshontsho yeSoka
Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokuvolontiya kunye ne-Girl Scouts okanye i-Boy Scouts, kwaye akudingeki ukuba ube nomntwana kwi-scouts ukuba athathe inxaxheba. Ukusuka ngolunye usuku ukuzithandela okunamandla ukuqhuba iikhosi, ukusuka kwimisebenzi yenkonzo yoluntu ukuya kwinkampu, ukuba unandipha umdlalo njengengane yakho, mhlawumbi uyathanda ukuzithandela njengomntu omdala.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwinto ofuna ukuyenza, unokufuna ukujoyina kuqala njengomntu omdala okanye ufunde ukuqeqeshwa okukhethekileyo.
- Iindlela zokuzivolontiya kunye ne-Girl Scouts
- Ukuba yiNkokeli yeSkout ne-Boy Scouts yaseMelika
Indlela # 8: Ukuzithandela ixesha lakho kwiCawa okanye kwindawo yokunqula
Amathuba okusebenza nabantwana endaweni yakho yonqulo ingaquka ukufundisa kwiSikolo seCawa, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yolutsha nolutsha, okanye ukuncedisa abantwana abancinci ngelixa abazali beya kwiinkonzo. Musa ukushiya ukuzonwabisa kumntwana; akukho mgaqo othi ungakwazi ukubandakanyeka, naye.
Ngokuxhomekeka kwindlela ebandla ngayo ibandla lakho, unokukwazi ukuqala iprojekthi yakho okanye inkqubo yokusebenza kunye nezingane. Uthando lwekampu? Mhlawumbi ungaqala uhambo lokuhamba ngekampu ngonyaka. Uthando lokusebenzisa? Mhlawumbi unokuqala iqela lokuzilolonga lezingane.
Ungalibali ukujonga ngaphaya kwebandla lakho langoku. Kungenzeka ukuba enye indawo iya kuba namathuba amaninzi okuvolontiya, okanye iinkqubo ezingaphezulu zesikhungo sabantwana.
Indlela # 9: Amavolontiya kwiThala leencwadi
Uthando lweencwadi? Iibrarire, ngakumbi ezikhulu, zihlala zifumana iiprogram zezingane. Amathuba okuzithandela angaquka ukufunda ngokuvakalayo kubantwana beminyaka yobudala, ukuqala okanye ukusebenza kwiinkqubo zokufundisa, ukukhokela iklabhu yeencwadi kubantwana, ukuncedisa kwiiklabhu zokufunda zasehlotyeni, okanye ukuqala ukubhala okubhaliweyo okanye iklasi yokukhangela ibhokisi kubantwana.
Thetha kulayibrari ukufumana iindlela onokuzibandakanya ngazo.
Indlela # 10: Amavolontiya kwisibhedlele
Izibhedlele zihlala zifuna uncedo. Amathuba anokubandakanya ukukhangela izigulane zokulinda kwi-ER, ukutyelela abantwana abanegulane nokuzifunda ibali okanye ukudlala umdlalo, ukudlala nabantwana emagumbini okudlala, abasebenza kwilabhulali yesibhedlele okanye kwigumbi lokuzonwabisa, egqoke njengeSanta okanye elf kwiKrisimesi, ukudlala isixhobo somculo, okanye ukuncedisa kwiiklasi zobugcisa kunye neeprojekthi zobugcisa.
Ezinye iimveliso kunye neeNICU zifuna izisebenzi zokuzithandela ukuba zibambe iintsana ezincinci xa oongikazi bexakekile kwaye abazali bafuna ukuphuka. Uthintelo lufunyenwe ukuphucula kakhulu impilo yempilo yabantwana. Umsebenzi wakho unokunceda ugcine ubomi.
Unxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo kunye nezibhedlele zezingane ukuze ufumane into onokuyenza ukuze wenze usuku lomntwana olugulayo lukhanye. Ukuba abanayo nayiphi na inkqubo ekhoyo, bacele ukuba ngaba baya kuvuleka kwiingcamango zakho.
Indlela # 11: Amavolontiya kwiSikolo saseKhaya, esikolweni, okanye kwiNtloko yokuQala
Ungacingi ukuba ngabazali kuphela abangabandakanyeka kwiinkqubo zesikolo. Amaxesha amaninzi, izikolo zizabalazela ukufumana abazali abakhuthele. Amaziko emfundo anokuba neenkqubo ezinokukunceda ukubandakanya izikolo zikarhulumente, izikolo ezizimeleyo, iinkqubo zokuQala iNtloko, iinkqubo zasesikolweni, kunye nezikolo zabantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa.
Indlela # 12: Yisebenzise Iholide Yakho Yesihlobo Ukusebenza okanye Ukuzithandela kwi-Camp Children
Esikhundleni sokuya kwisiqithi esikude kwieholide zakho zasehlobo, kutheni ungacingi ukuba uye kwenkampu endaweni yoko? Njengomcebisi, kungekhona i-camper, kunjalo. Enyanisweni, uya kusebenza kwiholide yakho, kodwa uya kuba nolwazi olungalibalekiyo. Musa ukulibala ukujonga iinkampu ekhaya nakwamanye amazwe.
Indlela # 13: Ukuzithandela Ukusebenza Nabantwana Kwamanye amazwe
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuzinikela ekuncedeni abantwana abahlelelekileyo kwiholide zenu zasehlobo. Kukho iintlobo zeenkqubo ezinceda abantwana abasweleyo, kokubili ekhaya nakwamanye amazwe. Qinisekisa ukuba nayiphi na inkqubo oyibhalisela yona iyilungelo, njengoko kukho iingxelo "zemibutho yokuzithandela" ukuxhaphaza abantwana nabasemakhaya abahluphekile ukwenzela ukuba benze imali yokuvakhenketha.
Nazi ezinye iindawo zokufumana amavolontiya asemthethweni:
- Iinkqubo zokuzithandela zamaZizwe eziManyeneyo
- Planet United
- Amavolontiya aseMzaneni
Indlela # 14: Yabelana ngamalenta akho okanye ulwazi
Shayela isikolo sakho sasekuhlaleni okanye iqela lolutsha uze unikezele ukuza ngomsebenzi wakho kubantwana. Imihla yomsebenzi ingonwabile kwaye imfundo yabantwana, kwaye abafuni nje kuphela ukuva kumapolisa kunye nabomlilo. (Nangona ukuba ungomnye wale misebenzi, uya kuba yindleko ephezulu!)
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyazivolontiya okanye ukuhlawula, nikela iiklasi kubantwana kwindawo yakho yobuchule, mhlawumbi ephuma kwikhaya lakho okanye kwigumbi eliqashiweyo kwilayibrari okanye kwindawo yoluntu. Injini? Cinga ngokunikela ngeKlasi yokwenza iBakala. Umpilo? Ukunikezela ukuthetha kwiiklasi zempilo ezikolweni malunga nesihloko esiseduze kunye nentanda yakho entliziyweni.
Cinga ngomsebenzi wakho wosuku, izinto ozilibazisayo, kunye neemfuno zakho zakudala xa ubamba ubuncinci ubomi bakho ngamathuba.
Indlela # 15: Amavolontiya kwi-Boys Boys kunye neKlabhu yaseMantla yaseMelika
Amakhwenkwe namantombazana aseMelika aseMelika anikezela ngemisebenzi emva kwezeschool kunye nehlobo. Bahlala bekhangela amavolontiya. Qhagamshelana nesahluko sendawo ukuze ubone indlela onokuzibandakanya ngayo.
- Fumana iClubs Boys kunye neClubs Girls
Akukho eUnited States? Funa imibutho kwilizwe lakho elisebenza nabantwana. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba ungase-UK, unokuqwalasela iBarardo okanye i-Children's Society.
- Ka Barnardo
- Umbutho Wezingane