Xa abaninzi abantu bacinga ngeeholide, bacinga ngabantwana. Kodwa akukho sizathu sokuba kufuneka ube neentsana zokuzonwabisa kwieholide zasebusika okanye naziphi na iiholide. Imibhangqwana inokudala izithethe zeKrisimesi. Akunabantwana abafunekayo.
Kwalabo abangakwazi ukufumana abantwana, iieholide zingabakho ixesha elinzima. Oku kuyinyaniso kulabo abanesifo sokungabikho kwempilo kunye nokungabikho kwempilo .
Oku kunokuba nzima nakwabo abo bakhetha ukungabi nabantwana okanye ukulibaziseka .
Iintengiso zeKrisimesi ziquka umama kunye nabantwana babelana ngezipho kunye nabantwana, kwaye unokuziva u-nostalgic malunga neenkwenkwezi zakho zeeholide ezincinane.
USanta akavakashele abantu abadala. Ulapho kubantwana. Ngaba sikhona isizathu sokushiya ikhukhi kunye nobisi ukuba nguwe kunye neqabane lakho?
Ngaloo nto, kuthekani ngoMnumzane uSantas owonkcoko, owenziwe udumo yi-Rockettes? Kwakungenokwenzeka ukuba ayengacetywanga kubantwana.
Kukho iindlela ezininzi abangenabantwana abanokuzonwabisa kwiKrisimesi. Ungavumeli ukuba ukungabikho kwabantwana okanye ukungabi nabantwana kukugcina ekudaleni izithethe zentsapho zakho ngeeholide.
Nazi ezinye iimbono zokuqwalasela.
Iimfesane zeKhisimusi zeNtwana
Amaqela eKrisimesi ayifanele abe yintsapho kuphela. Ukuba awufumani nayiphi na isimemo kwisiganeko esingenamntwana, uze ubambe iqela lakho.
Xa wenza uluhlu lwakho, cinga abantu obaziyo abanabantwana abancinci ekhaya.
Oku kungaquka:
- Abahlobo abangatshatanga
- Amaqabane angabantwana abakhethayo
- Ukunyanzelisa ubunzima abantu abatshatileyo
- Izilwanyana ezingenanto
Ngaba uyingxenye yeqela lokuxhasa abantwana abangenasifo ? Cinga ukubeka iplanga kumalungu akho. Inokuba yinto elula okanye enhle njengoko ukucinga kwakho kuvumela.
Phuma kwiholide
Kukho ukulindela ukuba kude kubekho isibini esinezingane, ziya kuhamba ngeeholide.
Kodwa ungayiphula loo "mlawuli" kwaye wenze into yakho. Enyanisweni, ku nokuba ngcono kwiiholide zakho zoxinzelelo.
Endaweni yokuhlala kunye nentsapho yakho (kwaye mhlawumbi ininzi yabantwana abakhulelweyo okanye abancinci), isigqibo sokuba uye eholidini yedwa kunye neqabane lakho lingenza isiko lakho leeholide. Khetha indawo yothando, mhlawumbi owodwa ongenakwenzeka ukuba ube yintsapho-kunye nabantwana be-magnet.
Okanye, thatha ithuba lokuzonwabisa kakhulu kwiindawo zeentsapho ezikhethiweyo njengeziqabane. Umzekelo, iDisney World. Thatha ixesha lokuba ngumntwana.
Amavolontiya kwiHholide Ukuthenga Abahlobo Bakho Abakhulu
Ukuthenga iholide kungabangela uxinzelelo olukhulu kulabo abanezingane ezincinci. Ivolontiya ukuthenga izitabane okanye izalamane ezithwele abantwana.
Uza kuthenga ngaphandle kokuchitha imali yakho, ujonge umdlalo weeholide, uze uncede umhlobo!
Yiba ngumama oqhayiya okanye uMalume
Ngokukhanya okufanayo, ngubani otsho ukuba unokonakalisa kuphela abantwana bakho abanezipho zeKhisimesi? Akukho sizathu ongeke uthathe indima yoManinci oziqhenkce okanye uMalume uze uhlambele abantwana bakho okanye abazalwana bakho kunye neentsapho zeeholide.
Oku akusoloko kuthatha indima elula ukuzalisa ekuqaleni kwexesha lakho lokungabikho. Nangona kunjalo, ngexesha, ininzi yokuzala inselele abantu baya kumkela eli thuba.
YibaSebenze kwimisebenzi yeCawa yeKrisimesi
Mhlawumbi lixesha lokujoyina i-choy okanye udibanise iqela lokukhanda. Amasonto amaninzi ayamkela amaqela kwaye angasebenzisa amavolontiya ukulungiselela ukucwangcisa, ukuseta okanye ukuhlambulula imibutho yeeholide kunye neziganeko.
Kweminye, amalungu ecawa asebenzayo anokuba yintsapho eyongezelelekileyo.
Yiya kwiintlanga zeKrisimesi Ukubona
Unokufuna ukuqala isiko lonyaka lokuhamba ngokujikeleza kunye neqabane lakho ukuhlola iiholide. Mhlawumbi uya kuphulaphula iintetho zakho zeKhisimusi ozithandayo njengoko uqhuba. Uphando olukhawulezayo lwe-intanethi luza kukuxelela ukuba zeziphi iindawo ezihlala kuyo zinegama lokuba zihlotswe kakuhle.
Kwakhona, ezininzi izixeko zineziganeko ezahlukeneyo zokukhanya kwiholide zasebusika. Ezinye zezi ziganeko zijoliswe ikakhulu kubantu abadala.
Mema Abangane Ngaphandle kweKrisimesi yokuKhenketha iPhathi
Ngubani othi abantwana bodwa banokuyithokozisa umthi?
Mema abanye abahlobo ukuba bahobise ieholide ndawonye. Unokumema kuphela abahlobo abadala, okanye ungamema intsapho kunye nabantwana ukuba bancede. Ukuba ungumhlobo onobuqhetseba, unako ukusekela ezinye iiprojekthi zabahlobo ukuba zenze uze uthathe ekhaya.
Nangona bambalwa banenkalipho ngokwaneleyo yokusingatha isiganeko esinjalo, abaninzi abantu abadala nabangenabantwana bayakuthanda ukujoyina iqela lokukhangela iKrisimesi.
Ukutyelela iNtsapho Eyifuna Uninzi
Akunqabile ukufumana iintsapho zihlala zonke ngaphakathi kwinqwelo ekhululekile ukusuka komnye nomnye. Oko kuthetha ukuba amanye amalungu omndeni aya kushiywa ngaphandle okanye athile ngeeholide.
La maxesha amaninzi amahlobo asebekhulile kumakhaya asebekhulile okanye kwiindawo zokuhlala ezixhasayo.
Ukwenza umgudu wokutyelela abo bafuna inkampani banokufudumala kunye nentliziyo yabo.
Amavolontiya kwiKrisimesi kwizibhedlele
Iholide ayilonwabo kakhulu abo babanjwe esibhedlele, kungekhona kubantwana okanye abadala. Izibhedlele ezininzi zinamavavolonti agqoke njengoSanta okanye uElves, oza kutyelela izigulane.
Thetha esibhedlele sasekuhlaleni ubone ukuba unako ukuthatha inxaxheba kwinkqubo enje.
Ivolontiya kwiSpop Kitchen
Abo bangenawo ukutya ekhaya (okanye ngaphandle kwekhaya nantoni) bangasebenzisa uncedo kwieholide.
Mhlawumbi unokuqala isithethe sokuzithandela kwikhitshi yakho yendawo yokutya kwi-Christmas Eve. Okanye, unokukunceda ukuqokelela ukutya kweeholide zokutya.
IKrismesi yamaRoma
Musa ukulibala ukuba unokwenza iKrismesi yothando kunye neyothando ezimbini, nawuphi na unyaka owuthandayo. I-candle iidle dinner, umculo omnandi weeholide, kunye nokutshintshwa kwesipho kunokuguqula iholide enokuthi ibe yedwa.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Iholide ingaba ixesha elizama ukuvakalelwa kwabo bafuna abantwana kodwa bazama ukukhulelwa. Khumbula ukuba unokuchitha iholide njengoko ufuna. Yakha izithethe zakho, kwaye uhlele isimnandi kunye nokuzonwabisa. Qaphela ukuba ungagxininiswa kwi "pattern pattern" apho uqhubeka uxelela wena uza kuza neeholide zithethe "xa usenentsapho yokwenene." Unentsapho yokwenene ngoku.
Njengamaxesha onke, jonga ukufumana inkxaso. Xelela bakho abahlobo kunye nosapho indlela abanokukuxhasa ngayo , kwaye uqwalasela iingcebiso xa ungeke ukwazi ukugubha i-blues.
Umthombo:
Dawn Zuckerman, MSW. Udliwano lwe-imeyile oqhuba ngoNovemba 29, 2011.