Izingane ezinqwenela ngamandla zininzi nje kunenkani.
Nangona zonke iifana zinokuthi zomelele ngamandla , umntwana onqwenela ngokwenene ubonisa iimpawu ezithile ngokufanayo. Kwakhona kuthiwa "ngabantwana abavuthayo," iimpembelelo ezinamandla ezinqwenela abantwana zivame ukubonakala kwimizuzu abazalwa ngayo.
Ukuba unamandla onqwenelekayo akufani nokuba "yinyana embi." Izingane ezinamandla zizimisele ngokukwenza izinto ngokwemiqathango yazo.
Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo, oku kubangela iingxaki kubantu abadala abasondezayo.
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukucinga ukuba ukungahloneli komntwana wakho kuya kumenza ube yinto ebangelwa uluntu, gcinani engqondweni ukuba isimo sakhe sengqondo sinokuba yimpumelelo kwiindawo ezithile ebomini bakhe. Enyanisweni, uphando oluyiminyaka engama-40 olupapashwe kwi- Psychology Developmental lufumanisa ukuba abantwana abaphula imithetho bayabakho abaphezulu abafumana imali njengabantu abadala.
Nazi iziganeko eziqhelekileyo ezi-10 kunye nokuziphatha kwabantwana abanamandla abanamandla:
1. Bakhombisa ukugquma okukhulu
Nangona zonke iikratshi zidibana nomsindo , abantwana abanamandla abanqwenela ukubonisa umsindo ongenakucima ixesha elide. Banoxinzelelo oluphantsi lokunyamezela kwaye bayalwela ukuvakalisa umsindo wabo ngendlela efanelekileyo yoluntu. Ngoko unako ukufumana umntwana onamandla onqwenela ukugubungela iinyawo zakhe, ukuphosa emhlabathini, okanye ukubonisa indlela enokumemeza ngayo.
2. Bafuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni
Enye yezona zinto ezimbi kunokuba umntwana onqwenela ukuva, "Ngenxa yokuba ndathi." Bafuna ukwazi isizathu sokuba bangenakwenza into okanye isizathu sokuba ubeke imida ethile.
Baya kubuza imibuzo baze bafune imithetho yakho ayilungile.
3. Bangakwazi ukuphikisana ngonaphakade
Izingane ezinqwenelekayo aziyeki xa zingavumelani. Bathanda ukubandakanyeka kwimigudu yamandla kwaye ukunyamezela kwabo kunzima ukubenza kubo njengoko bethatha abanye abantu ngaphandle. Bayabaxhamli bezona zinto zilungele ukufumana iingqungquthela kunye nokungafani.
4. Baye baxhamla
Abantwana abanezinqweno abanomdla abanengqondo engqondweni yabo malunga nendlela izinto kufuneka zize ngayo kwaye ziya kubakhokelela iindlela zokuguqula loo mbono ibe yinyaniso. Abanalo ingxaki kubaxelela oontanga babo apho bafanele ukuma okanye indlela yokuziphatha ngayo kwaye abanamahloni ngokuxelela abantu abadala ukuba benzani.
5. Abafuni ukwenza izinto abafuni ukuzenza
Musa ukutshabalalisa amandla akho ezama ukukholisa umntwana onqwenela ukwenza into ayifunayo ukwenza. Ukuzibandakanya, ukucela, kunye nokulinganisa akunakukufumana naphi na. Amantombazana anqwenelayo aya kubamba kwizithende zabo aze afune ukukhwela.
6. Abaphelelwa ngumonde
Izingane ezinamandla zifuna ukwenza yonke into ngokwemathematika yazo. Bathiyile ukulinda kumgca kwivenkile, abafuni ukulinda ixesha labo xa bedlala umdlalo, kwaye abanomdla wokuhlala kwigumbi lokulinda kwiofisi yegqirha. Abafuni ukuchitha inxalenye yesibini elinde omnye umntu.
7. Benza Imithetho Yabo
Izingane ezinamandla ezinqwenelekayo abanomdla wokuva uluvo lwakho malunga nexesha lokulala. Kunoko, banokuthi bahlale belele xa bekhathele. Bakhetha ukwenza iipolisi zabo kwaye bazibeke izikhokelo zabo kunokuba balandele imithetho yesigunyaziso somntu.
8. Bafuna ukufumana oko bacinga ukuba bafanelwe
Umzabalazo onamandla onqwenela abantwana ukuqonda umahluko phakathi 'kwesidingo' kunye 'nokufunwa.' Enoba bafuna ukudlala ngaphandle kwemvula okanye badle inja eshisayo ekudleni kwasekuseni, baya kuthi bafuna ukwenza. Kwaye nangona bafumana uninzi kakhulu, baya kufaka ukuba abafumani isabelo sabo esihle.
9. Bayihoxisa izilumkiso abafuni ukuzenza
Tshela umntwana onqwenela ukuba 'uqaphele,' okanye 'sebenzisa iinyawo zokuhamba,' kwaye ukuba akanalo umdla, uya kukunyelisa. Izingane ezinamandla zikulungele ukusebenzisa ukuphulaphula okukhethiweyo kwaye zilula ngokukhawuleza nayiphi na into engahambisani neemfuno zabo.
10. Bahamba Ngethuba Labo
Tshela umntwana onamandla onamandla angaya epakini kwaye mhlawumbi unokuhamba njengenkomo kwivenkile yase-china ngomzamo wokuphuma emnyango. Mxelele ukuba alungele ukuya kwindawo yokutya kwaye angase ahambe ngeyure . Izingane ezinamandla zihlala zidla ngokukhawuleza kwaye zithetha ngokukhawuleza kodwa zihamba kwinqanaba lomkhonto xa wenza into abangenayo inxaxheba ekwenzeni.
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