Ukunyaniseka kweSingqinisiso Isifundo soBomi kwimpumelelo
Akukho mzali othanda ukumbona umntwana wakhe ehluleka. Ezinye zezona zihlandlo ezinamanzi ezigulisa ngokubeletha zivela ekungakhange zibukele umntwana ekuphambukeni kwegama ngelixesha leenyosi zesipelingi, elahleka ukusikwa kukhetho lebhola, okanye akakhethiweyo ngenxaxheba ethandwayo kwintsebenzo. "Isizathu sokungaphumeleli" sinokuthi senzeke nakumncinci kakhulu, ngombono wokungathathi umhlobo ukuba uhlale ndawonye ngesidlo sasemini, kungekhona ukuba ube yinkokeli yomgca, okanye nje "akufanelekanga."
Ukungaphumeleli, nangona kunjalo, kunokuguqulwa kuba ngamava okufunda okuphucula ubuchule bomntwana wakho ukuphumelela kwikamva.
Njengoko uHenry Ford wambi wathi, "Ukungaphumeleli kukuphela kwithuba lokuqalisa kwakhona ngokucokisekileyo."
Nangona inxalenye yendalo yokuphila, ukuhluleka kunokuvelisa iimvakalelo ezibuhlungu ezinjengomsindo, ukudabuka, ukukhungatheka okanye ukuzingca phantsi komntwana okanye umntu omdala. Indlela umntwana wakho abava ngayo le mivakalelo inokusekelwe kwiminyaka yakhe kunye nokukhula; Kodwa ke, unokufundiswa ukuqonda nokujongana nale mivo ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Abantwana bethu babone indlela esamkelayo ngayo okanye ukujongana nokungaphumeleli kunye neempembelelo zabo. Ukuba sithukuthela ngokugqithiseleyo xa sidluliselwa ukukhushulwa esikufunayo okanye siyakucasula kumfundisi womntwana okanye umfundisi ngenxa yesenzo (okanye ukungasebenzi), banokumisela ukuziphatha xa bejongene nokuhluleka kwabo.
Yintoni Inokuthi Umntwana Wakho Afunde Ngokwehluleka?
Xa loo mathuba ambalwa okuqala avuzwa ngamazwi omama wakhe ovuyo kunye nokumbumba, umzekelo, umntwana ufunda ukubeka injongo-ukuphinda loo nto eyenza unina ujabule kangangokuthi uya kufumana impendulo efanayo.
Ukukhuthazwa kunye nokudumisa zixhobo zokusebenza ezinamandla kwaye zisebenza kuzo zonke iimeko.
Abantwana banokufunda ngakumbi malunga nokulungisa iingxaki ngokuhluleka. Abazali bafanele bawancede bahlole okokungahambi kakuhle kwaye bangayithintela njani ukuba ivele kwakhona. Ukuba umntwana udala ngokwaneleyo, mbuze isizathu sokuba ucinge ukuba awuphumelelanga uvavanyo okanye akazange abambe ibhola.
Ingqiqo yakhe kwingxaki ingamangalisa.
Ngokuzama kunye nokuhluleka, ukuzama kwakhona nokuphumelela, abantwana bethu bafunde ngomonde, ukunyamezela kunye nevakalelo lokuziqhenya kwimpumelelo yabo.
Shintsha ukusilela komntwana wakho kwisifundo kwimpumelelo
- Ncedisa umntwana wakho ukuba achaze iimvakalelo azivelayo aze azivakalise ngendlela efanelekileyo. Xa umntwana wakho engaphumelelanga, ingaba eklasini okanye kwintsimi yebhola, abazali (okanye nawuphi na umkhathaleli omdala ngaleyo nto) kufuneka abekhona ukubanceda basebenze iimvakalelo.
- Mnike ithuba lokuthetha isizathu sokuba acinge ukuba izinto azizange zihambe ngendlela ayezifunayo okanye zikulindele ukuba zihambe. Nangona abatsha banokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo, kwaye enye yezinto ezilungileyo umzali angakwenza ukuphulaphula. Umntwana wakho unokubonelela ngento eyenzekayo engazange uyayiqonda.
- Ukubonelela ngemisebenzi efanelekileyo yeminyaka ehambelana nomdla kunye nezakhono zomntwana wakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abazali balahlekelwa indlela yabo ekulindeni umntwana omncinci omncinane. Eyona nto imele ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukwenza i-toe-touch kwibanga lokuqala okanye akakwazi ukushaya ibhola kwi-tee eneminyaka engama-4.
- Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba ukuphumelela akuyona nto ebaluleke kakhulu. Nika udumo oluninzi ngomzamo wakhe nangesimo sakhe sengqondo njengoko wenzayo kwisiphumo esiphumelelayo.
- Thetha nomntwanakho malunga namandla akhe-izinto ozenzayo njengeziphumo zakhe ezintle. Ingxoxo enjengale nto inokukunceda ukuzithembela nakumntwana omncinane kakhulu.
- Gcina ulindele umntwana wakho onengqiqo kwaye uyinyani. Ungalindeli ukuba uneminyaka engamashumi asibhozo ubudala ukuba ufunde i-piano piece by Beethoven kwiintsuku ezimbini, ngenxa yokuba udadewabo unako.
- Khumbula ukuba umntwana wakho ubukele indlela ophendula ngayo ukungaphumeleli ebomini bakho. Kukulungele ukwabelana ngokudumala kwakho kwaye kubalulekile ukubonisa indlela ofunda ngayo kumava.
- Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba uyamthanda, uzuze okanye ulahleke. I-hug enkulu yebhere kunye negama lokukhuthaza inganciphisa intlungu xa ehluleka ukuvavanya okanye ewa phantsi xa efunda ukukhwela ibhayisiki lakhe.
Khumbula, sonke siyahluleka ngexesha elinye. Abantwana banokufundiswa ukujonga ukungaphumeleli njengethuba ukuba sibonise indlela yokufunda kwiimpazamo zabo kwaye ungesabi ukuzama kwakhona.