Nangona kunye nabantwana ungaphuma kwaye ujabule kunye neqabane lakho
Yona yinto eyona nto ibonakala ngayo. Kwabaninzi abazali kubabantwana abancinci, ubusuku busuku bunjengezinto zokunethezeka ezingenakukwazi ukucinga ngoku malunga nalo mzuzwana. Kodwa imini yobusuku kunye nexesha elilodwa yinto abazali bezingane ezincinci badinga ngaphezu kwexesha. Ikhefu - nje ngeeyure ezimbalwa - ngokuqinisekileyo ihamba indlela ende yokubuyisela nokukhuthaza umtshato kunye nolwalamano.
Kunokuba nzima, nangona kunjalo. Ngenxa yokuba unako ukukhawula ixesha phakathi komsebenzi wesikolo kunye nangemva kweeshedyuli zesikolo, usenokuba neentaba ezimbalwa ukunqoba: ukufumana umntwana kunye nokucinga oko kufuneka ukwenze. Xa ufumana umntwana (okanye unentlonelo ngokwaneleyo yokuba usapho okanye abahlobo abasondeleyo) ukugqiba isigqibo kunokuya kuba nzima, ngakumbi ukuba awufuni ukuchitha imali eninzi (ingakumbi inyaniso kulabo abachitha imali kumntwana okhulelweyo !).
Usuku lwangokuhlwa nomlingane wakho okanye umlingani kubalulekile. Ngoko nango-10 kumnandi, ukudala, kunye nezindlela ezingabizi ukucoca ngexesha elithile lomgangatho. Yenza umgudu, uya kuvuyisa!
- Hit the bookstore yendawo. Le mihla, ezininzi iincwadi zincwadi azizithengisi iincwadi, ziindawo zokuzonwabisa ezipheleleyo kunye neefestile kwaye zihlala nomculo. Thatha itafile, iziphuzo ezimbalwa kunye ne-snack kwaye uchithe ixesha lokuxoxa kunye nabantu bebukele. (Akukho zincwadi ezifunekayo, nangona kunjalo kunjalo!)
- Lontiya. Ngaba kukho isizathu sokuba unomdla onomdla? Okanye mhlawumbi omnye kuni kwaye ungathanda ukuzisa omnye kulo? Thatha ekuseni okanye emini ukuze uncede ngcono kuluntu. Ingabandakanyekanga kwintlangano ethile? Intloko kwipaki yendawo uze uhlambulule ngokwakho, okanye uthinte ikhuselo lezilwanyana uze ubone ukuba bafuna naluphi na uncedo ngosuku. Cinga ngendawo!
- Ukuqeqesha kunye. Okanye hamba ukuhamba. Ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho noluhlobo olusebenzayo, sebenzisa ixesha kunye kunye nokulungelelanisa! Hamba ukunyuka, ukuhamba ngebhayisikili, nokuba ushukume kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye kwindawo yoluntu.
- Ubusuku befilimu ekhaya. Ukuba awukwazi ukufumana umntwana (okanye nokuba unako!) Oku kulula kwaye akubizi. Umlilo uphulo lwenkonzo yakho oyithandayo, ulandele ukutya okanye wenze into ekhethekileyo, kwaye ubukele i-movie okanye iincwadana ezimbalwa zokubonisa kwakho. Ukuba akukho mntwana obengabonwa ngumntwana, ungalindelanga ukuba abantwana balele ngaphambi kokuba uqale.
- Yiya kwintengiso. Akunjalo ukuba uthengise, nangona oko kulungile! Hamba, ujikeleze ngevenkile, ungenalo injongo yangempela engqondweni, Ukuthengwa kunye nezingane kunokuxininisa kwaye kuqhutywe phambili. Thatha ixesha lokuba ukhulule kwaye ujabulele. Hamba inkundla yokutya i-snack kwaye mhlawumbi abanye bebukele abantu.
- Tyelela i-museum. Ngaba uke wabuyela kumyuziyam kunye nezingane zakho? Akunjalo ngamava afana nawo xa uhamba nomnye umntu omdala. Sebenzisa iiyure ezimbalwa ujikeleza ngemiboniso, ukhangele ngokukhawuleza oko ufuna ukukubona. Thetha malunga noko ukhangeleyo, kunye nento othanda ngayo kwaye ungayithandi. Xa usugqibile, phawula ukuya kwisitolo sesipho uze uthabathe ixesha elimnandi lakho! (Khangela i-website ye-museum ngaphambi kokuba uhambe, abaninzi banika izaphulelo kunye neentsuku zamahhala.)
- Ukutyelela indawo yakho. Kuzo zonke iidolophu (nakwanazincinci!) Kukho indawo zendawo "yezokhenketho" abantu abahlala apho abonakala bengalisebenzisi. Ngoko ukuba iqula lodada okanye i-museum ongenakuze ufike kuyo, thatha ixesha lokuyenza!
- Yiya kwi-drive. Yenza uluhlu lokudlala, khetha indawo ekuye kuyo, kwaye ukhuphe uhambe! Awunayo imfuneko yokuphuma emotweni xa ufika. Zichitha ixesha kunye nemoto, nibetha iingoma ezizithandayo, nithetha, nithanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye.
- Yenza umdlalo ebusuku. Ubusuku bemidlalo yentsapho bumnandi, kodwa kunjalo nabo baneqabane lakho! Emva kokuba abantwana belele bedlala umdlalo onokuyithandayo.
- Funda omnye nomnye. Lo ngu-o-okhethekileyo. Khetha incwadi oyithandayo kunye nokujika ngokufunda ngokuvakalayo. Emva kokugqiba isahluko, xubusha. Oku unokukwenza ekhaya okanye ngaphandle - ngokwenene nayiphina indawo ezolileyo ezokuvumela ukuba ugxininise.