Ukukhangela Izibalo Zokukhulelwa Kwabantwana kunye Neendlela Zokuzikhusela
Nangona izinga lokukhulelwa kwentsha liye linciphisa kwiminyaka yamuva nje, kusekho ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba abazali bentutsha kufuneka baqaphele ukuba kwenzeke kwaye basebenze ngokukhusela kwabo.
Ziyintoni Eziqhelekileyo Ukukhulelwa Kweminyaka?
Ngokwezibalo ezishicilelwe ngamaziko okuLawula nokuLawula (i-CDC) ngoku kutshanje ngo-Matshi 2016:
- Ngo-2014, abantwana abangama-249,078 bazalwa ngamabhinqa aneminyaka eli-15 ukuya kweye-19, ngenxa yezinga lokuzalwa lalingama-24.2 kwabafazi abayi-1 000 kweli nqanaba elidala.
- Ngo-2010, ukukhulelwa kwentsha kunye nokubeletha kwabakho ubuncinane i-$ 9.4 yezigidigidi kwiindleko kubahlawuli berhafu be-US ukwenzela ukunakekelwa kwezempilo kunye nokunyamekelwa kwabantwana, ukunyuka kwamanani entolongweni phakathi kwabantwana babazali abaselula, kunye nokulahlekelwa kwengeniso yerhafu ngenxa yokufumana imfundo ephantsi kunye neengeniso phakathi koomama abaselula.
- Ngama-50 engama-50 ekhulwini oomama abatsha bafumana idiploma yesikolo esiphakeme ngeminyaka engama-22 ubudala, ngokumalunga nama-90 ekhulwini kwabasetyhini abangazange bazalwe xa beselula.
- Oonyana boomama abakwishumi elivisayo banako ukuphumelela kwesikolo esiphantsi kunye nokuyeka isikolo esiphakamileyo, baneengxaki ezininzi zempilo, bavalelwe ngethuba elithile xa beselula, babele xa beselula, kwaye bajongene nokungasebenzi njengomntu osemdala.
Nangona ezi manani zokukhulelwa kwentsha zibonisa ukuphucula ekukhuselweni kokukhulelwa kwentsha kwiminyaka yamuva nje, izinga le-US lokukhulelwa kwentsha liphezulu kakhulu kunamanye amazwe aseNtshona.
Kutheni Ufanele Unakekele Ngokukhulelwa Kwabantwana
Ukuba awuyena umzali osemva okanye awuselula, unokuzibuza ukuba umcimbi wokukhulelwa kwentsha unokukuchaphazela njani. NgokweSebe Lempilo Neenkonzo Zoluntu, iZiko leSizwe leeNkcukacha zezeMpilo:
- Ukukhulelwa kwentsha kubhatala abahlawuli berhafu 9.1 bhiliyoni ngamnye ngonyaka.
- Ngaphezu kweyesibini kubathathu kubo bonke abatsha abanomntwana abayi kuphumelela esikolweni esiphakeme.
- Iibhiliyoni zeedola zichithelwa ngononophelo oomama kunye nabantwana babo, kwaye banokuthi bangabikho kwezobuhlwempu.
- I-1.5 ekhulwini yabamama abatsha banesidanga sekholeji abaneminyaka engama-30.
- Oonyana bamantombazana abancinci banesisindo esiphantsi sokuzalwa, banokuthi baqhube kakubi esikolweni, kwaye basengozini enkulu yokusetyenziswa kakubi kunye nokunyanzelwa.
- Amanina omama osetsheni anama-13 ekhulwini amathuba okuphelisa entolongweni.
- Amantombazana omama abeshumi abatsha anama-22 ekhulwini amathuba okuba ngumama osetsheni.
- Phantse ama-80 ekhulwini omama abangatshatanga abatsha abangapheliyo baphela ekuhlaleni.
Yintoni Abazali Ababalulekileyo Kunabo Bonke Abanokuyenza Ukukhusela Ukukhulelwa Kwebantwana?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu abazali abangayenza ukukhusela ukukhulelwa kwentsha kukubandakanya ebomini babo bentsha. Xa ubandakanyeka ebomini bakho bentsholongwane, ngakumbi uya kuba nokukwazi ukugcina imigca yonxibelelwano evulekile xa kufikelele kwiimeko ezinzima ezifana nobulili nokukhulelwa kwentsha.
Kwaye unxibelelwano luyintloko. Ukubandakanyeka kuthetha ukukulungela ukuphendula imibuzo yomntwana wakho ngokuvuleka nangokunyaniseka, kwaye ngaphandle kokugweba. Ukuba ubonisa ukungafuni ukwabelana ngolwazi olubalulekileyo nentombazana yakho, bayayeka ukuxelela ubomi babo kunye kwaye baya kufumana ulwazi abayidingayo kwenye indawo.
Ezinye zezinye iindawo zokufumana ulwazi zingabandakanya zabo ontanga, iiwebhusayithi ezingathembekiyo, okanye kunye ne-pornography. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ulwazi abayifumeneyo aluvumelekanga.
Yingakho imfundo yecansi ekhaya iyimfuneko. Izikhelo zolwazi zingakhokelela kwiintlobo zeziphumo ozoyikwesaba kakhulu kunomntwana wakho, kubandakanya ukukhulelwa okungenakulungiswa.
Ndithetha Njani Ngomntwana Wethu Ngezocansi?
Ngoko unayo njani Incoko ? Nantsi imfihlo: akukho nto enjalo. Okanye akukho mntu "Thetha." Kunoko, imfundo yecala lokuhlalisana ekhaya kufuneka ibe yintetho eqhubekayo eqalayo ekuzalweni, xa abantwana kunye nabantwana abaselula beqala ukufunda amagama afanelekileyo kumalungu omzimba wabo.
Kuqhubeka kuphela ukusuka apho, ngolwazi luba lunzulu ngakumbi njengoko umntwana ekhula.
Kuyaqondakala ukuba ingcamango yale nto yenza ube nexhala okanye ungakhathazeki. Emva kwakho konke, akuyi kuba nolwazi oluninzi kuphela olwenza umntwana wakho akwazi ukuzama izinto angakulungele?
Okumangalisa kukuba, impendulo kuloo ayikho. Uphando lubonisa ukuba ukufumana le ngcaciso kubazali ngaphambi kokuba bahlanganyele ngesondo kunokunceda intsha ikhusele izigqibo ezimbi, ikhulise ukuzithemba, kwaye iyanceda ukukhusela kwizilwanyana zesini.
Yenza imizamo yokuba yinxalenye yobomi bakho bentsha. Yiba ngumntu abaya kuwo xa befuna ulwazi okanye iingcebiso. Ngale ndlela, baya kulungelelanisa nantoni na ephosa ngayo.
Imithombo
Amaziko okuLawula kunye nokukhusela (CDC): malunga nokukhulelwa kwentsha