I-Biology ingabangela ukuxhatshazwa
Ukuba unentombi, unokubheka ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ezenzeka phakathi kwamantombazana esikolweni sakhe. Unokufumanisa ukuba, nangona ufundisa naye ngenye indlela, uyaqhubeka nokukhetha abanye abantu. Kutheni amantombazana enza inxaxheba kule "ntombazana"?
Ukukhutshwa kweNtlalo njengoluhlobo loxhatshazo
Ukunxaxelwa kwezenhlalakahlobo yindlela enye yobudlova, ubudlelwane obunqamlekileyo nolunxamnye nokuxhaphaza obudla ngokusetyenziswa kwamantombazana kunye namanye amantombazana.
Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle ngumsebenzi wokwenqabela umntu ekusebenzisaneni kwabantu. Ixhoba lingashiywa ngaphandle kweememo ukuya kumaqela, ingavunyelwe ukuba idle isidlo sasemini kunye neqela lamantombazana, okanye likhutshwe ngokupheleleyo.
Ukukhutshwa kwezentlalo kunokwenzeka xa kwenzeka amahlebezi angamnandi malunga nexhoba, enokuthi yenziwe nge-cyberbullying kunye nobomi boqobo. Njengoko iinkolelo zijikeleza, ixhoba lilahlekelwa ngabahlobo abaninzi, kwaye abanye bayamphepha. Ixhoba lingaba ngumhlobo kunye namantombazana awamshiya ngaphandle kokusebenzisana kwabo, okanye unokungabandakanywa ekuqaleni.
Ngaba i-Social Exclusion Innate?
Ngokomnye uphando olwenziwa ngophando, intombi yakho kunye nabahlobo bakhe banokuthi benze ngokuqhelekileyo xa behlala kunye nabanye abantu. Uphando, olupapashwe kwiSayensi yeSayensi , lubonise ukuba xa abesifazane besongelwa ukungabikho kwentlalo, bazama ukukhuphela omnye umntu ngaphambi kokuba kwaza ngaphandle.
Ngesinye icala, abesilisa abazange bathambekele ukwenza oku. Uphando lwenziwe ngabafundi bekholeji, kodwa ekubeni ulwalamano olusondeleyo ludla ngethuba leminyaka emibini, iziphumo ziza kuba zomelele ngakumbi xa zihlolwe ngolu hlobo. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba lo luhlolisiso olulodwa, kwaye lungaba lukhuni ukuthetha luchaza ukuba ukungabikho kwentlalo kungenangqiqo kunokuba yinkcubeko okanye ifunde.
Amantombazana asekuhlaleni angabandakanyi ngaphezu kwamantombazana
Kutheni amantombazana akhetha ukukhutshwa kwintlalo xa esongelwa xa abafana bengenalo? Kusenokwenzeka ukuba kuthethwa umahluko phakathi kweentlobo zentlalo kunye noluntu, abaphandi bathi. Amadoda athambekele ekubeni namaqela abahlobo ngelixa amabhinqa athambekele ekukhuliseni ubuhlobo bomntu omnye . Xa indoda ingabandakanywa, ulunabanye abahlobo kwiqela lakhe ukuba bathembele kuye. Intombazana, ngakolunye uhlangothi, inokulahlekelwa ngumnye ummelwane wakhe xa engabandakanywa nentlalo. Izifundo zibonisa ukuba amantombazana enomona omkhulu xa abahlobo babo bobulili obufanayo benza izihlobo ezintsha kubafana.
Ubunzima beNtlalontle
Ukulahlekelwa ngumhlobo wakho osondeleyo akubuhlungu nje kuphela, kunokusongela ukungcola kokushiywa kungakhuselekanga kwaye kusengozini. Esikhundleni sokungabandakanywa, ngoko, amantombazana aphelelwa ngaphandle kwaye angabandakanyeli abanye ngokufanelekileyo. Ngenxa yoko, akumangalisi ukuba ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle inxalenye yecandelo lesigxina sesimo senhlalakahle yesikolo esisetyhini. Kuthetha ukuba amantombazana azalwe, angenziwanga.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Ukukhutshwa kwezenhlalakahle kungabhubhisa intombazana. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa iimpawu ezingabandakanywa, funda oko unokukwenza oko kunokumnceda. Qhubeka ufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba le ndlela yokuxhatshazwa kwaye ayimkelekanga kuluntu.
> Umthombo:
> Benenson JF, uMarkovits H, Thompson ME, Wrangham RW. Ngaphantsi kweTyikitya lokuKhutshwa kweNtlalontle, abafazi abathinteli ngakumbi kunabesilisa. Iingcali zeNzululwazi . 2011; 22 (4): 538-544. i-doi: 10.1177 / 0956797611402511.