Ukuba nePen pal iyakhuthaza uPhuhliso oluPheleleyo
Nangona uqhagamshelwano lwezobuchwepheshe luye "ludla" lethu ihlabathi, ootitshala abaninzi basenza icebo lokubambisana kwamanye amazwe kubafundi babo, kunye nesizathu esihle. Ukuba i-kati yakho inethuba lokufumana ipeni yamazwe ngamazwe, kusenokuba yinto enokuthi uyiqwalasele. Ipen pal ingenza okungaphezulu kunceda umntwana wakho afunde ngehlabathi elikujikelezile.
Ngezantsi kuneenzuzo ezimbalwa zeepen pals zinikeza.
Amanqaku okufunda nokubhala izakhono
Mhlawumbi ngokucacileyo, ukubhala nokufumana ipenki yesandla ebhalwe ngesandla kubonisa ukufunda nokubhala izakhono. Xa besetyenziswe i-imeyile kunye nokuthumela imiyalezo, bathambekele ekuthembeleni kakhulu kwi-short ( njengeLOL , 2moro, THX), abahluleki ukuhlaziya nokubhala ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye babhale kwiibinzana endaweni yezivakalisi ezipheleleyo. Nangona idilesi isadingeka kwesi sihloko, ukubhala ixesha elide kungakhuthaza ukusetyenziswa kangcono kwezakhono zograma kunokuthetha ngekhompyutha. Kwaye, ngokusobala, kunonwabo ngakumbi ukubhala ukubhala xa ubhalela oontanga kunokubhala isicatshulwa sootitshala! Ukongezelela, amaninzi epenali yamazwe ngamazwe abhala ngolwimi lwesibini, ebeka umntwana wakho kwinxaxheba yesiNgesi "utitshala" okanye umzekelo. Le nxaxheba inokuthi ikhuthaze ngokwemvelo ukuba ibeke izakhono zabo zeNgesi ezibalaseleyo.
Ikhuthaza ukuPhatha-Ukuthatha
Njengoko ubushushu buhamba, ukhula luba lukhulu.
Ukuva amabali ezandla lokuqala kwi-pen pal pal iyakhuthaza abantu ukuba bathathe umboniso womntu kwaye bacinge ngaphandle kwabo. Oku kunokuba yinyaniso xa ipen pal isehlala kwisizwe esingaqinisekiyo okanye sezomnotho, okanye xa ipeni ihlala kwiimeko ezifani kakhulu.
Ukufunda malunga neengxaki zobomi bemihla ngemihla kunokunikela ngombono othile kwi "imiba" ebusweni bombuso ophakathi kweMelika, kwaye unike umntwana wakho imbono encinane malunga noko kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ukhuthaza ukunyamezela
Njengoko behamba phambili besuka ebuntwaneni, bahlakulela ngokukhawuleza amandla abo okulibazisa ukuxhaswa okanye ukulinda umvuzo ofanelekileyo. Ekubeni ukulibazisa ukuxhaswa kuhambelana neziphumo ezininzi ezintle, kuquka ukuphumelela kwesikolo , ukukhuthaza lo buchule kubalulekile. Ukuthumela imiyalezo kunye ne-IMs isebenze ngokuchasene nokukwazi ukulibazisa ukuthotywa - akukho nto ikulindele impendulo. Ngokwahlukileyo, iileta okanye iiphakheji ezivela kwipenki yamazwe ngamazwe zingabalwa ngeeveki okanye kwinyanga. Ngokuthatha ipen pal, i-tweens inokufumana uvuyo lokulindela kunye nomvuzo onokuthoba ngakumbi wokufumana into emva kokulinda.
Ikhuthaza Inzala Kwizifundo Zentlalo
Ukuba neepen pal kungakhuthaza u-pakati ukuba uthathe inxaxheba enkulu kwizifundo zentlalo kunye nembali. Ndiyabulela inxalenye yentshukumo ye- teenager , i-twee ijwayele ukunyamekela kakhulu ngezihloko ezinokubaluleka kwazo. Ukuba neepeni kwisizwe esikude sinikela ukuba uxhumano lomntu, ukwenza isifundo sejografi, ezopolitiki zehlabathi kunye neembali zehlabathi ziziva zingekho kwamanye amazwe, zinenjongo kwaye zifanelekile ukunakwa.
Ukuxhasa ukuPhuhliso lwezakhono zeNtlalo
Ekugqibeleni, izakhono zentlalo ziphuhliswa ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lonyaka. Ukuba neepen pal kukukhuthaza izakhono ezininzi eziphambili, kubandakanywa ukuphindaphinda (incwadi eyazaliswa ngayo yonke "mna" kwaye akukho mbuzo ayiyenzelanga ipeni elihle!), Uvelwano kunye nenkxalabo efanayo. Kwakhona kukhuthaza amandla okukhangela kunye nokufumana izibophelelwano eziqhelekileyo, into ebalulekileyo yobunene bokwenene . I-Introverted tweens inokungenelwa ngokukhethekileyo kwintlalo ekubeni neepen pal. Ipen pal izinika ixesha kunye nendawo yokufumana amagama afanelekileyo (bahlala beqhwaba ukuba kufuneka bathethe ngaphambi kokuba bacinge) kwaye ngokwemvelo kukhuthaza ubudlelwane obunzulu, obungaphantsi kobuqabane obunqwenelayo.
Konke kuzo zonke, ukufumana ipenki yamazwe ngamazwe kunokunceda ukuphuhlisa nokukhula ngokweenkcubeko ngeendlela ezininzi. Ukuba unikwe ithuba lokuqalisa ukutshintshisana, ncomele uthisha wakho we-tween kwaye ujabulele ekuqwalaseleni ukuba indlela yakho ikhula ngayo kumava.
> Imithombo:
> Burk, Jill. Iipen Pals: Ubambiswano obuncedo. 1989. Iphepha elinikezelwe kwiNgqungquthela yonyaka yeNkomfa kaZwelonke yokuFunda.