Wonke umzali uthemba ukuba umntwana uya kuphumelela esikolweni, kodwa impumelelo ayifumanekanga nje. Ukuba ukhangele ukuphucula impumelelo yakho yesikolo esikolweni , unokufuna ukucinga malunga nokukhuthaza ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ukuzimelela akugcini nje ngokumalunga ngokuthe ngqo kumabakala esikolweni kodwa nakwizinto eziphathekayo eziphathekayo ezikolweni kunye nokuphepha kweendlela eziphathekayo ezifana nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi.
Izinto zokuziLawula
Ukuzithiba kudla ngokuxoxwa kodwa uyazi ntoni ngoku? Xa sithetha 'ngokuziphatha,' sithetha ngenani lezinto ezahlukeneyo zobuntu. Elinye iqela lokuzimela lisoloko luchukumiseka. Umntwana onomdla ophantsi uyakwazi ukulinda ithuba, ukuphepha ukuphazamisa iingxoxo zabanye kwaye uhlale ehleli noxolo xa kufanelekile. Ukuzithiba kuquka nokukwazi ukulawula iingcinga, iimvakalelo nezenzo zakho. Ekugqibeleni, amandla omntwana wokulibazisa ukunyaniseka yinto ebalulekileyo yokuzimela. Umntwana onokulibaziseka ngokukhawuleza kwezakhono zokugcoba anganqabela umncinci, umvuzo ngokukhawuleza ngomvuzo omkhulu.
UkuziHlonipha nokuVikela
Uphando olutshanje olwenziwa ngabafundi bezengqondo baye babonisa ukuba ukuzithiba kubalulekile ekuphumeleleni kwimfundo. Ngokomzekelo, ukufundwa kwabafundi abasi-8 bafumanisa ukuba ukuzithiba kwakunxulumene kakhulu nexesha lokumakisha kunye neeGPA zokugqibela, amanqaku okuvavanya ukuphumelela kwabafundi kunye nokukhethwa esikolweni esiphakamileyo.
Abantwana abanokuzimelela kakhulu baziphatha ngokungafaniyo ngokumalunga nesikolo. Ngokukodwa, babengabikho kangangoko, bengenzi iiyure ezongezelelweyo zomsebenzi wesikolo, bachithe ixesha elide bebukela umabonwakude kwaye baqalisa umsebenzi wabo wesikolo ekuqaleni komhla xa kuthelekiswa nabantwana abanokuzithoba. Mhlawumbi unolonwabo kakhulu kubo bonke, aba nzu lulwazi bafumanisa ukuba ukuzimela kubaluleke ngaphezu kwe-IQ ekuqikeleleni zonke iziphumo.
Ukuzithoba kunye neengxaki zokuncedisa
Ukuzimela akubonakali nje kuhambelana nokuphumelela kwezemfundo, kodwa kwandisa umntwana ukuba abe neengxaki zokuziphatha ezingaphazamisa ukusebenza kwesikolo. Iqela leengqondo zengqondo livavanya ukulibazisa kwabafundi besikolo esiphakathi kokunciphisa ngokuzibuza ukuba ngaba bafuna ukufumana i-$ 5 ngokukhawuleza okanye i-$ 7 ngeveki kamva. Abo babelindele umvuzo we-$ 7 abazuzanga kuphela ukufumana amabanga aphakamileyo kuneentanga zabo zama-$ 5, nabo babengenako ukufumana iingxaki zokuziphatha esikolweni kwaye babe nexabiso elisezantsi lokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi. Ngokukodwa, abantwana abanokubambezeleka ngokukrakra kokugcoba basebenzisa i-marijuana, utywala kunye noogwayi rhoqo rhoqo kunabantwana ababonise ukulibaziseka kokungabi naso. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba abaphandi bafumanisa ukuba ukukwazi ukulinda umvuzo kwahlanganiswa nokuzithoba. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuzithiba kubonakala kuhambelana neendlela ezininzi eziphambili ekuphumeleleni kwesikolo.
Ukubaluleka kokuzilungela ngaphaya kweMinyaka emibini
Nangona apha siye sigxininisa kwiiphando ezenziwa nge-tweens, ukuzimela kuyaqhubeka kubalulekile ekufundeni nasekuphumeleleni kwimpumelelo ngaphaya kweminyaka emibini. Ngokomzekelo, iziphumo malunga nokuziphatha kweengxaki kunye namabakala ziphindaphindiwe nabafundi bezikolo eziphakamileyo.
Ukongezelela, abafundi beekholeji abanokuzimelela ngokuphezulu baye bafunyanwa ukuba banokunyanzeliswa kwiqela elihloniphekileyo le-Phi Beta Kappa kunabalingane abanokuzithoba, nangona bafumana isakhono ngokulinganayo. Konke kuzo zonke, ukukhuthaza ukuzondla kumntwana wakho ngoku unokufumana inzuzo enkulu ngoku kunye naphantsi kwendlela.
Imithombo:
UDuckworth, Angela, noSeligman, uMartin. "Ukuzikhupha ngaphandle kwe-IQ ekuqikeleleni ukusebenza kwabafundi abaselula." Iingcali zeNzululwazi. 2005, 16: 939-944.
Wulfert, Edelgard, Block, Jennifer, Santa Ana, Elizabeth, Rodriguez, Monica, noColsman, uMelissa. "Ukukhawuleza ukwaneliseka: ukhetho olungenangqiqo kunye nezigqibo zengxaki ekuqaleni kwentsholongwane." Umbhalo woBuntu. 2002, 70: 534-551.