Iintsholongwane zicinga ukuba abanye bebukele kwaye bagweba
"Abaphulaphuli abacamngcayo" yileyibhile yentsholongwane yabaselula kunye nabadala be-tweens ukuba kukho iqela labalandeli abahlala bebukela baze bahlulele ukuhamba kwabo. Inkolelo ivela kwingcamango enkulu ye- teenage egocentrism , abafana bacinga ukuba ihlabathi libajikeleze kwaye bonke abantu baqwalasela indlela ababukeka ngayo noko bakwenzayo. Esi sisigaba esiqhelekileyo sokuphuhlisa intlalo kulutsha.
Abaphulaphuli abaBonayo baBukayo noGweba
Umntu oqhelekileyo osemncinci ukholelwa ukuba apho ahamba khona, wonke umntu onomdla naye unomdla kuye njengoko ephakathi kwakhe. Kwakhona ukholelwa ukuba abaphulaphuli bakhe baqhubeka bethetha ngezenzo zakhe nokubonakala kwakhe. Kufana nokuba ngumdumo-ngaphandle kokuba akukho mntu ukhangele. Oku kungathi ngathi i-paranoia, kodwa yinto eqhelekileyo yokukhula kunye nokufunda ukuqhuba uluntu.
Iimoya zabaphulaphuli ziyahluka ngemoya wolutsha. Xa umva okanye umfana eziva ehlaseleyo, ucinga ukuba abanye baya kubagweba kakhulu ukuziphatha nokubonakala kwayo. Xa ehlala e-self-adoring mood, ucinga ukuba abanye baya kufakwa ngokulinganayo ngobuhle bakhe, ububele kunye nomntu omangalisayo.
Inkolelo ye-adolesolescent in the audience of imagination ichaza ezinye zeemeko zabo. Namaxesha abucala abuva uluntu kubo. Yingakho i-adolescents kunye ne-tween ekhulile ihlazeka ngokubakho ngeentlobo ezincinane.
Ngokomzekelo, ukuba utata wenza ihlazo elithambileyo kwivenkile yokutyela, akunandaba nomntwana osemva ukuba akukho mntu ujikeleze kubo ubonakala ephulaphule, wonke umntu uya kuba (ngandlela-thile) uyazi.
Abaphulaphuli abaBonayo yiNgxenye eqhelekileyo yokuKhula
I-egocentrism yeselula iyinto eqhelekileyo yokuphuhliswa, kungekhona uphawu lokuba umntwana wakho uya kuba yindiskissist okanye u-paranoia njengomdala.
Abaphandi baxhomekeke kwindlela ubuchopho buyekezwa ngayo phakathi kwexesha eliphakathi kunye nentsha ukuba ibe ngumntu omdala okhulile. Ukuvakalelwa kwimiba yoluntu inxalenye yolu hlobo lobuchopho kunye nophuhliso lomntu.
Kungadangalisa umzali ukuba abone umfana wakhe utshintshe ihembe lakhe kathathu ngaphambi kokuya esikolweni, kwaye uninzi lwezigqibo ezibonakala zifana ngokufanayo. Kodwa oku kuqhelekileyo ukuziphatha kwentsha.
Iingcamango malunga neZindlebe zabaPhakathi
Ixesha elibonakalayo labaphulaphuli linikezwa nguDavid Elkind kwiphepha ngo-1967. Wakha i-Imagination Audience Scale. Ingqiqo ingeniswe ngokusetyenziswa ngokubanzi ngabafundi beengqondo. Amanqaku ahambelana nokuxhalaba kweentlalo, ukuqonda ngokwabo kunye nobuntu kodwa kungekhona ngokuqiqa. Nangona isazi sezengqondo saseSwitzerland uJean Piaget sicinga ukuba abaphulaphuli ngabanye babengumdla wobomi, ezi zifundo zathi ziqhubeka zisekholeji.
Iingcamango malunga ne-teenager egocentrism ziyaqhubeka nokuphuhlisa. Ngexesha lemidlalo yoluntu, abantwana abaselula bayabonakala kwimiphumo yabantu kunye neentlalo zento abazenzayo kunye nendlela ababukeka ngayo. Abaphulaphuli bangaphakathi banokuqiniswa ngabaphulaphuli bokwenene abaye banokufikelela kubo.
Imithombo:
U-Elkind D. I-Egocentrism kwi-Adolescence. Uphuhliso lwabantwana. 1967. 38: 1025-1034.
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