Izinto ezili-10 ze-NICU Abahlengikazi banqwenela ukuba Uyazi

Iseluleko kubazali abatsha abakuqala

Abazali abaqala ukungena kwi-NICU banokuziva bexhalabile, besaba, besaba, kodwa benqwenela ukuba babe kufuphi nomntwana wabo. Ukuphendula ngokuqhelekileyo-yinto enye abazali abanayo xa beqala ukungena kwihlabathi leNICU.

Unokuqala uzive ngathi ungazi ukuba ungayisingatha njani imeko, kodwa ngexesha elitsha abazali baqala ukukhula bathembela ekuqondeni kwabo okwenzekayo noko kukulindela. Ngoko ke ukuba uziva ulahlekile ngoku, zinika ezi zi-10 iingcebiso ezingezantsi uzame. Baza kukufumana ukuya kwisiqalo esihle.

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Yenza Uphando Lwakho-Kodwa Ungazixhamli

Xa ufuna ukuhamba kwi-intanethi ukujonga imibuzo ehlobene ne-preemie, thabatha isikhashana uze uzibuze, "Ngaba ndiyayifuna le nkcazelo ngoku?"

Ukuba kuhamba nje kukufumana uxhalabile xa ukhubeka kwiibali ze-preemie ezineziphumo ezimbi, yeqa. Ukuba uxinezelekile kwaye ukhawuleze ubusuku bonke ukuba ufunda malunga neemeko ezimbi kakhulu, yiba.

Yintoni enokuyenza endaweni yoko? Buza imibuzo yakho oogqirha kunye nabahlengikazi, kwaye ubuze abanye abazali be-NICU odibana nabo.

Ukuba kufuneka uhambe kwi-intanethi ukwenza uphando ngenxa yokuba ungazifumani iimpendulo ozifunayo, khumbula ukuba izinto eziyikrakra kunye nokungabikho komntwana akuyena umntwana wakho kwaye akuqinisekanga ukuba ngamnye umntwana. Hlalani nigxininise kwii positi.

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Yenza Indawo Yakho

I-NICU ayiyona indawo evakalelwa njengekhaya. Umatshini ogqithiseleyo, iiplastiki, iindwangu zokugada , kunye nesipilisi esibhedlele kwenza kube nzima ukuziva ukhululekile. Kuncinci kakhulu okuvakalelwa kukuba "ekhaya," ukuthetha okungenani. Ngokuqinisekileyo akuyikho abazali abatsha abaphuphayo xa bephupha abantwana babo bokuqala.

Unokutshintsha loo nto-ukuba nje ngento encinci-ngokuzisa izinto ezikunceda uzive ekhaya. Hlola nge-NICU yakho, kodwa ngaba abazali banokuthi bathathe izinto ezifana ne:

• iingubo zebhantshi (ngokukhwabanisa, okanye ukusetyenzisela ukulala)
• iimpahla zentsana (xa umntwana wakho ekulungele ukugqoka iimpahla)
• I-NICU Art ukuhlobisa isikhalazo
• imifanekiso kaMama, uTata, abantakwabo, izifuyo, intsapho, njl
• izilwanyana ezixutywe (ukubeka kufuphi nombhede, kungabi embhedeni nomntwana)
• izinto ezibalulekileyo ngokomoya, njengamakhadi omthandazo okanye ubuhle be-rosary (kwakhona, ukubeka kufuphi nomgca wokulala, kungekhona embhedeni nomntwana)
• imizobo evela kubantakwabo, amanqaku evela kubazali, njl.

Kutheni uzikhathaze? Kungenxa yokuba xa uziva ukhululekile kakhulu kwindawo oyijikelezile, inceda ekunciphiseni uxhalaba lwakho kwaye lenze ixesha lidibanise ngakumbi. Eyona nto ibalulekile.

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Yazisa Iimvakalelo Zakho-Ziqhelekile!

Ngaba uzive ukhathazekile ngenxa yokuba umntwana wakho useNICU? Ewe, oko kunengqiqo. Akukho mntu uyamangalisa loo mvakalelo kwiNICU. Ndiziva ndibuhlungu? Kwakhona, akumangalisi.

Kodwa ngaba uziva unomhawu, unomhawu? Ukunyamekela ngabahlobo bakho abasakhulelwe, umntwana olala embhedeni osecaleni lakho oza ekhaya ngomso, kuwo wonke umama ongatshatanga ukuhamba ngeNICU? AWUKHO wedwa. Kungokwemvelo ukuvakalelwa ngale ndlela.

Kwaye emva koko, unesiva esinzima ngenxa yokuba ungeke ukwazi ukuthwala umntwana wakho kwixesha elizeleyo, ngokuba unomntwana ongagulayo njengomntwana kwisitya esilandelayo, ukuba uzive ngathi unzima lwakho usana olunezifo eziphathekayo? AWUKHO wedwa. Kungokwemvelo ukuvakalelwa ngale ndlela, naye.

Ezi ziqhelekileyo. Yonke imvakalelo enokucinga ingathi iqhubele iintliziyo kunye nengqondo kaomama nobawo phambi kwakho. Uloyiko. Intukuthelo. Rage. Ukuxinezeleka. Ukuxhalabisa. Ukungabi nethemba. Ukuzisola. Usizi. Ukudideka. Abanye abaninzi. Ngoko nceda musa ukutshitshiswa okanye ukuphela ngenxa yabo. Ziqhelekile, kwaye ziya kuphelelwa ngexesha.

Kodwa zifuna ukuba uziqwalasele kwaye ufumane uncedo xa zixakeka kuwe.

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Zizinakekele kakuhle

Kuyamangalisa, kodwa oomama noo-NICU abachitha iiyure kunye neentsuku kunye neenyanga kwi-NICU bahlala befuna uncedo ngokwabo, kodwa akukho mntu ubonakalayo. Abanye balala-balala baze baxhalabele nge-24/7, abanye bahamba nokudakumba kwengcinezelo, emva kokuba abanye bafumana inkathazo yoxinzelelo emva kokudandatheka.

Kubonakala ihlazo, kuba abo oomama nooyise banqatywe oogqirha kunye nabongikazi emini nasemini ngelixa be-NICU. Kodwa abasebenzi be-NICU bagxininise ngokupheleleyo kwiintsana kangangokuthi kaninzi kuhamba.

I-NICU ihamba ngcono malunga nokuya kubazali abanomthwalo onzima, kodwa ngelishwa abazali abaninzi baxela ukuba abanakho inkxaso.

Ngoko uxanduva lwakho lusekho ukufikelela. Buza abasebenzi be-NICU ukuba abasebenzi bezentlalo banokukunceda. Buza ukuba kukho iqela lokuxhasa abazali be-NICU (kuba banceda ngokwenene). Funa umgqirha. Okanye ujonge i-NICU Ukuphulukisa, isisombululo esinqabileyo sokujongana neemvakalelo eziza nayo yonke into malunga neNICU.

Mhlawumbi ungaziva ungakwazi okanye ugxile kwimpilo yakho yemvakalelo xa umntwana wakho ehlupheka. Kodwa ngokugxininisa ekuzigcinekeni uphilile, unenkathalo ebalulekileyo kubantwana bakho.

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Lungiselela indlela amava okuchaphazela ngayo ubudlelwane

I-NICU ayicinezelekanga ngokungathandabuzekiyo ubudlelwane. Umlingani ngamnye unendlela eyahlukileyo yokusingatha uxinzelelo olunzulu lwengqondo, kwaye lo mahluko uvame ukudala ukungqubuzana.

Yenza okusemandleni akho ukunyamekela ubuhlobo bakho-umntwana wakho uya kuzuza kuyo. Thatha uhamba rhoqo rhoqo ngexeshana, uthetha ngokunyanisekileyo malunga neemvakalelo zakho, kwaye ube nesigulane ngakumbi. Zama okusemandleni akho ukuze uhloniphe indlela ofuneka ngayo iqabane lakho, kwaye ngelo xesha uhloniphe indlela omele uyenze ngayo.

I-NICU ixhamla ubudlelwane nabanye abantwana kwintsapho. Unokuziva ngathi ungeke ukwazi ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabantu bonke. Unokwenza okusemandleni akho, ukhumbule ukuba wonke umntu osentsapho uvakalelwa.

Ukuba ulwalamano lwakho lwaluxhomekeke ekuqalekeni, okanye ukuba uvakalelwa kukungakhululeki, ngoku ixesha lokufumana uncedo. Umtshato ofanelekileyo kunye nosapho unokwenene unokunceda.

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Musa ukugweba i-NICU Ukuzala

Andikwazi ukukuxelela ukuba ndivame kangakanani ukuva abazali bexhalaba malunga nokuba ba tyelele kakhulu, kungekho ngokukhawuleza, nokuba bacela imibuzo emininzi, okanye bengabandakanyeki ngokwaneleyo. Baxhalabile ukuba "akwenzi okulungileyo."

Akukho nto okanye ayilunganga. Ngoko ungazami ukwenza oku "kulungile" ukuba akuyiyo into evakalelwa "ngokufanelekileyo" kuwe. Zama nje ukwenza into evelayo kuwe. Ukuba ufuna ukutyelela umntwana wakho rhoqo, mkhulu. Ukuba ufuna okanye ufuna ixesha kude neNICU, kunjalo, kunjalo. Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ngokukhawuleza amabali kumntwana wakho okanye uhlabe iillabies , yiya. Ukuba ufuna ukufakwa kwiinkathalo zengane yakho, thetha uphinde unika onesi.

Ukuba uhlangabezana nokumelana nabasebenzi, zama ukusebenzisana kunye nabo, kodwa cacisa malunga neenjongo zakho zokuba ngumzali.

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Hlala Ukwaziswa & Khuluma

Buza imibuzo eninzi-ukususela ekuqaleni nasekuhambeni kwakho konke. Oogqirha kunye nabongikazi basebenzela wena. Umsebenzi wabo awugcini nje ukunyamekela umntwana wakho kodwa kukukunceda uqonde oko kwenzekayo nokuba kutheni.

Ukuba udidekile okanye ukhathazekile okanye ungakhathazeki kwaye ungathethi, abasebenzi abayi kuze bazi. Baya kucinga ukuba uyaqonda yonke into eyenzekayo .

Ngoko cela. Ndithembele kum, siyivile yonke into, kwaye akukho zimpendulo.

Ukuba ucinga ngako, iintlobo ezininzi zeentsapho zivela kwiNICU. Abasebenzi abasenayo indlela yokuqikelela oko umntu afuna. Musa ukulinda oongikazi okanye oogqirha ukuba bacele. Ukuba kukho into oyifunayo, nceda uthetha.

Kwaye ukuba wambona into eyenza ukhathazeke ngumntwana wakho, okanye ukuba ukholelwa ukuba iimpazamo zenziwe, ngokuqinisekileyo unganqikazi ukuthetha. Umntwana wakho ubala kuwe ukuxhasa.

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Nxininisa kwiCangaroo Care Konke okunokwenzeka

Yonke i-NICU yenza into eyahlukileyo, kodwa isikhumba sokubamba isikhumba singenakunceda, kubantwana kunye nabazali. Kukulungele ukufumana ubunzima bomntwana wakho, ukuzinza kweqondo lokushisa, i-oxygenation kunye nokunye. Kunenzuzo kubazali, ngokunjalo, ngokuphucula ukudibanisa nokunika ingqiqo yokuba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo kwaye ebalulekileyo yobomi bentsana yakho.

Ngamanye amaxesha abahlengikazi baxakeke kakhulu, kwaye ukuba abazali abaceli ngokukodwa ukuba benze i-skin-to-skin hold holding, bayawudabula. Ngamanye amaxesha iintsana zikhula, ziya kugqoka iimpahla, ngoko zikhohliwe. Kodwa kunenzuzo kwaye kufuneka ucele kuyo yonke i-NICU yakho.

Ukuba uhlangabezana nokumelana, zikhululeke ukucaphula eli nqaku okanye lophando. Ukuba uhlala udibana nokuxhatshazwa, thetha kumnesi ophethe okanye ugqirha wengane yakho.

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Cela abahlengikazi obaziyo

Ukuba uyamthanda omnye umongikazi ngokukhethekileyo, unokubuza malunga nokuba nomhlengikazi abe ngumhlengikazi wakho oyintloko. Ezinye izibhedlele azenzi ubuhlengikazi obuphambili, kodwa akusizi kubuhlungu ukubuza. Ngamanye amaxesha baya kukwenza nangona bengenjalo.

Kwiphepha le-flip, ukuba awuyithandi umongikazi othile, unokucela ukuba ungabi naloo mongikazi obelwe umntwana wakho. Kuyamkeleka ngokupheleleyo, kwaye kwenzeka njalo. Abahlengikazi abanakucatshulwa, bangamangaliswa. Yaye kungakhathaliseki ukuba, lo ngumntwana wakho, ngoko kufuneka uziva ukhululekile kunye nabantu abamkhathalelayo. Uhambo lwe-NICU lunokude lube lude kakhulu, ngoko ke luncedo kakhulu ngokucela ukuba abanonophelo abathanda.

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Khangela Izinto

Kungathatha umzamo, kodwa zama. Khangela into ebalulekileyo kuyo yonke le nto.

Usenokuthi, "Yintoni enokuyenza into enhle malunga nosana lwam nzima ukuhlala?"

Nangona kunjalo, kukho ixesha elincinci elincinci kwiintsuku ezininzi-usuku lwebradycardia ezimbalwa, okanye mhlawumbi inzuzo encinane encinci? Kukulungele ukwenza utshintsho lwe-diaper okokuqala, nangona uziva ukwantya. Kukho okulungileyo kubungane obutsha owenzayo nabanye abazali be-NICU. Kukho okokuqala umntwana wakho unxiba iimpahla, okanye uthatha ukutya okupheleleyo. Uvakalelwa ngesandla sakhe esincinci sakho. Kukho amandla ozuzayo ngokuvuka ngosuku nosuku kwaye ukhona khona umntwana wakho.

Kuya kuwe ukugqiba. Ngaba uya kugxininisa i-100 ekhulwini yengqalelo yakho ubunzima obukujikelezile, okanye unokwenza umbane omncinane ukhangele okulungileyo? Ukuba unako, uya kuziva ungcono kakhulu. Zinike imvume yokuxabisa le mihlali. Zinike imvume yokufumana izizathu zokumomotheka nokuhleka nokubhiyozela. Ndiyathemba ukuba uya kuzama.