Ukuya esikhathini kunokufika ngokungalindelekanga, yintoni okumele ukwenze
Amantombazana amaninzi akhathazeke kukuba baya kuphuma esikolweni, kwinkampu, okanye xa unina engazange ancede. Nangona ungekho ulawulo xa ixesha lakho le ntombi liza kuqala, unokuyilungiselela ngokungalindelekanga. Nakhu okumele ukwazi.
Abaninzi bamantombazana banenkxalabo malunga nexesha labo eliza kuqala. Ngaba kuya kubakho xa besesikolweni, inkampu, okanye nokuba ngumhlobo womngane?
Okungaziwayo kunokwesaba phakathi kweyabo abangazange bajongane nokuya esikhathini. Kodwa unokukunceda ukulungiselela intombi yakho ngokungalindelekanga, kwaye unciphise ixhala.
Ukuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nentombi yakho malunga noko ukulindele xa ixesha lakhe liqala. Cacisa ezinye iinguqu eziqhelekileyo intombazana enokuyenza phambi kokuba ixesha layo liqale njengengqungquthela, intloko, ukungabikho kwamandla, intloko yesifo, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, kunye nesimo sokumanya kwizitho zaso, njl. Njalo, thabatha ixesha lokumbonisa indlela ukusebenzisa kakuhle ipasti, ukuze ukuba awukho, uyazi ukuba wenzeni.
Cacisa umntwana wakho ukuba xa ecinga ukuba ixesha lakhe lifikile, kufuneka acele imvume yokuya kwindawo yokugezela yamantombazana ukuba ahlole. (Ingumzekelo omuhle kuwo onke amantombazana ukugcina ipakethi kwiebhasikhwe okanye kwiinksimbi zesikolweni, mhlawumbi xa kunjalo. I-pad encinane inokungena ngokukhawuleza kwingxowa yenguqu okanye esikhwameni esincinci.) Ukuba intombi yakho ayinayo ipedi , umyalele ukuba ahambe kumhlengikazi wesikolo kwangoko.
Umongikazi uya kukwazi ukumnika enye. Ezinye izikolo zinomatshini we-napkin ococekileyo kumagumbi okuphumla kodwa ungazithembi. Asoloko asebenza, kwaye angenakugcinwa. Abahlobo banokukwazi ukubonelela ngeendawo ezifunekayo, kodwa kulunge ukuba i-middle yakho isebenzise nje njengeyokugqibela.
Isicwangciso sexesha: Cinga phambili
Ukuba intombi yakho phakathi iqhutyelwe ekampini okanye kwenye indawo ixesha elide, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngaphambili. Phakamisa iipasiti ezimbalwa kwisitulo sakhe, kunye neleta yokunika umcebisi wakhe kufuneka athole ixesha lokuqala xa ehamba. Ileta kufuneka icacise imeko, kunye nolunye ulwazi olucebisa umcebisi wakhe. Qinisekisa ukuba intombi yakho iyaqonda ukuba iya kunika umcebisi kumcebisi wakhe kuphela ukuba ixesha layo lokuqala liza. Kwakhona, cacisa intombi yakho ukuba ukuba ixesha lakhe lokuqala lifika ngelixa ehleli ententeni, kunokufuna ukuba ahlale ebhukuda ade aphele.
Qinisekisa ukuba intombi yakho ikwaziswa kakuhle malunga nokuya esikhathini kunye neenguqu eziqhelekileyo zobushushu. Kukho ezininzi iimithombo ezintle ezikhoyo namhlanje ezibanceda ngokwenene amantombazana ngokusebenzisa olu tshintsho ngeendlela ezilungileyo. Ukongezelela, ukuba unceda intombi yakho ifunde ukulandelela ixesha layo xa iqalile ukuya esikhathini, kuya kunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo lwakhe kunye nokuxhalaba.
Indlela engcono yokuncincikisa intombazana yokuxhalabisa ngokuya esikhathini kukumxelela ukuba xa utshintsho luza, lukulungele kwaye luqinisekile. Ukufumana ixesha lakhe kunokubangela uxinzelelo kwishumi elineshumi, kodwa ngolwazi oluncinci kunye noncedo oluvela kuwe, uya kuhlangabezana neenguqu ngokuzithemba.
Xa uthatha intombazana yakho, uyazi ukuba akukho sizathu sokukhathazeka malunga nokuba ixesha lakhe liza kuqala kuba xa liqala, uya kulungela.