I-Middle School School Kid

Isikhokelo sabazali

Isikolo esiphakathi lixesha elonwabisayo lomntwana kunye nabazali. Abafundi besikolo esiphakathi basendleleni yabo yokuzimela ezizimeleyo, ukuphuhlisa iimfuno zabo, nokulungiselela isikolo esiphakeme nangaphezulu. Nantsi into omele uyazi malunga nabantwana besikolo samabanga aphakathi, kunye noko ungalindela kule mizuzu yenguqu.

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I-Middle School Kids Ziyinkimbinkimbi
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I-Tween ibhekane nemingeni emininzi kwiminyaka yesikolo esiphakathi njengobushushu, ukuxhatshazwa, ukuthandana kunye neminye imiba. Akumangalisi ukuba amaninzi amaninzi ayalwa nexhala okanye abonisa iingxaki zokuziphatha. Ukuzithemba kungabandezeleka esikolweni esiphakathi , njengoko abafundi beqhathanisa nabo ontanga. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ibakala lakho lesibini esikolweni liza kuhla. Ngamanye amaxesha nabafundi abalungileyo baya kuvukela isikolo, umsebenzi wesikolo kunye namabakala. Ukwazi oko umntwana wakho aphikisana naye ngexesha lomhla wesikolo kukunceda ukuba uzilungiselele imingeni xa ungekho ukunceda.

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I-Middle School I-Kids Fight Against Pressure Pressure

Umntwana wakho ubhekene noxinzelelo olungakholwanga ukuba angenele, kwaye uxinzelelo lwabaontanga lububi kakhulu kule minyaka yezikolo eziphambili. Kunzima kubantwana ukuxhathisa uxinzelelo lwabaontanga, nokuba ngabazali benza konke okusemandleni abo ukunceda okanye ukulungiselela umntwana kwiingcinezelo ezivela kubahlobo nakwabafunda nabo. Yazi okwenzekayo kwindawo yakho, ngoko uyazi ezinye zeengcinezelo umntwana wakho ochasene nazo. Uxinzelelo lwabaontanga lungabandakanywa uxinzelelo losuku, ukusela, ukutshaya, ukukrazula isikolo, ukunyelisa abanye, nokuvukela igunya.

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Imifanekiso Yokuzimela Iphakame Ngama-Preteens

Unyaka wesikolo esiphakathi kunzima, akukho nto ihamba ngayo. Esinye sezizathu ezinokuba nzima kakhulu kubazali kukuba umntwana wakho onomnandi uye waba yi-monster egocentric - okanye ubuncinane indlela ebonakala ngayo. Nangona le miqobo kunzima ukuhlala kunye nayo, ikwaqhelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kwisihlwele seshumi elinesibini. Ngamanye amazwi, kuqhelekile ukuba umfundi wakho wesikolo esiphakathi ucinge ukuba nguyena ummandla wendalo yonke. Indlela osabela ngayo ekuziphatheni komntwana wakho kubalulekile. Kubaqalisi, mkhumbuze ngenyameko ukuba uyincwadana yentsapho kwaye amazwi akhe nezenzo zingabangela abanye ubuhlungu. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba ubonisa ukuba indlela yakhe yokuziphatha ayimkelekanga kwaye ayiyi kunyamezela. Yiba nesineke, mnike ithuba elincinci lokuzola xa efuna, kwaye ubeke izikhokelo ezicacileyo kwimithetho yendlu, ukuziphatha, njl.

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I-Middle School Kids Bayakhula inzala

I-Preteens yinkqubo yokufumanisa ukuba ngubani, yaye oko kufaka ukuba izinto zabo kunye nezinto ezithandwayo ziba njani. Abantwana bafuna uhlobo oluthile lokucebisa ngaphandle kwesikolo. I-18 yakho yeshumi kufuneka ikhululeke ukuphishekela iimfuno, nangona zingenalo iinjongo ezifanayo kwiziko leprayimari. Khuthaza inkunzi yakho yesikolo ukuba ijoyine iklabhu yesikolo, zama umdlalo, okanye iqela lezemidlalo yesikolo, okanye uhlanganyele kwenye into eyenziwa yesikhashana.

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Abafundi besikolo esiphakathi bangayinselela iMigaqo

Ungamangaliswa ukuba umntwana wakho oyingelosi ucelomngeni yakho imithetho ekhaya okanye imigaqo yesikolo esiphakathi. Yicacile ngemiphumo ekufuneka uyenzileyo phakathi kwakho, kwaye ungalindeli ukugqibelela lonke ixesha. Umntwana uzama ukuqonda oko akunako kwaye akakwazi ukuhamba naye, kwaye uyavavanya umda. Yiqonda, kodwa uqine kwaye uxoxe ngezinto ozilindeleyo ekhaya, esikolweni kwaye xa ephuma kunye nabahlobo bakhe.

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I-Tweens iyayika Ukwenywa kweNtlalo

Unyaka wesikolo esiphakathi unokuba nzima kakhulu kumntwana, ingakumbi xa bekunzima kunye nobudlelwane, ukuxhatshazwa okanye ukungamkelwa nguontanga. Ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kunokubonisa ingxaki esikolweni. Abantwana abaxhatshazwayo banokurhoxisa kwiontanga zabo, banokuxhalabisa okanye banenkxalabo yokugxila ekufundeni. Ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokwenza abahlobo, zama ukufumanisa ukuba kutheni, kwaye ufumane iindlela zokukhulisa isangqa somngane wakho wabantwana ngemisebenzi kunye neminye imibutho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, qhagamshelana nomcebisi wezecebiso wesikolo ukuze uqonde ulwalamano lomntwana wakho.

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