Ukhumbule ingoma, Uqhubekile phakathi nawe? Yilapho wena kunye neyakho phakathi kweeminyaka embalwa ezayo, unamathele kwiminyaka elishumi elinesibhozo - phakathi kweminyaka yokuqala kunye neminyaka yeshumi elivisayo. Ukuqonda iingxaki zentlalo, ezemfundo kunye neengxaki kunye nemingeni ejongene nazo, kunye nezinye zeengozi, kunokukunceda ukuba uzilungiselele kunye ne-tweens yakho kwinqanaba eliphuhlisayo lophuhliso.
Ukuba ucinga ukuba awukwazi umntanakho kunye nexesha elidlulileyo, nantsi iimbali ezimbalwa ezonwabileyo malunga ne-tweenagers yethu eguqukayo.
15 Amazwi NgamaTween namhlanje
- Ixesha lokuqala lentombazana liqala kumyinge ophakathi kwe-12 1/2.
- Amashumi amabini anesibhozo ekhulwini kwi-tweens bathi bathathwe .
- Amashumi amabini anesibini ama-tweens avuma ukuxhatshazwa ngamanye amaxesha.
- Iipesenti ezingamashumi amabini ezi-8 ze-graders zivuma ukusela okanye esinye ixesha.
- Phantse omnye kwabafundi abathathu bathi baye bebudlelwane bomfana / intombi. Ngokudabukisayo, ngaphezu kwesinye kwisine kwalaba bantu beshumi bathi ukulala ngesondo kuyingxenye yobudlelwane bokuthandana.
- Amashumi amabini anesibini e-tweens sele esele iifowuni, kwaye unokubheka iintsimbi eziseleyo ziza kuzuza enye.
- Kunconywa ukuba ulungele ukufumana ubuncinane iiyure ezili-9 zokulala ebusuku.
- Izingozi zezithuthi ziyimbangela ebangela ukufa kwabantwana kwiqela elidala elilishumi elinesibini. Into ebalulekileyo yengozi kula bantwana ivela kulowo uhleli kwisihlalo somqhubi. Ngokwezifundo zandul 'utsha, abantu abathwala abaqhubi abaselula abasemngciphekweni, balandelwa ngabantu abahamba emotweni kunye nomqhubi onxilisayo.
- Abathengi bafuna imali yakho. Kuqikelelwa ukuba amandla okuthenga ama-tweens namhlanje anama-40 billion.
- Amaphesenti angama-90 e-tween asebenzisa intanethi.
- Kuqikelelwa ukuba abaninzi abantu bafumana isahlulo se-calcium.
- Tweens unakekele oko abantu abadala bacinga ngabo kwaye baxelise iimpawu zabo.
- Iintsholongwane ezinokungcebeleka kwezokugembula zivame ukuqala ukugembula kumalunga nama-10.
- Uphando lukazwelonke olungaphezu kwama-2 000 amantombazana aneminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kwe-17 athoba uninzi unxhala malunga nokugxeka ngaphezu kweentlekele zemvelo okanye ukuhlaselwa kwamaphekula.
- Isiqingatha samantombazana aneminyaka eyi-8 ukuya kweyesi-10 abonwabanga ngobukhulu bawo, ngelixa ama-40 ekhulwini abagcini be-graders sele besetyenziselwa ukutya ngaphambi nangaphezulu kwesiqingatha samantombazana aneminyaka engama-9 ukuya kwe-15 baye basebenzisa ukulahlekelwa isisindo.
Zimbalwa kakhulu Iinkcukacha
- Isikolo esiphakathi sibe sisihlandlo esinzima sabantwana. Bazama ukulingana kodwa abahlali bazi ukuba bangayenza njani. Nangona kanye abantu abanokuzithemba abanokuzithemba kwaye bangaqinisekanga ngokwabo phakathi kwesikolo esikolweni esiphakathi kweminyaka. Khuthaza phakathi kwakho ukukhulisa isingqa sentlalo ngaphakathi nangaphandle kwesikolo. Imisebenzi yeekharityhulam ezongezelelweyo inokunceda umntwana wakho athole abahlobo, afunde ukuzithemba kwaye ahlakulele iimfuno. Ncedisa iimfuno zakho phakathi kunye nokuchitha ixesha ukuzama ukugcina izithethe zentsapho zihamba - i-middleager yakho iya kukhula, kodwa kuya kuba namaxesha abuyele ekusebenzeni okufana nomntwana.
- I-Tweens ingatshintsha ukusuka kwenye inzala ukuya kwenye ngaphandle kokungabaza. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyigarta ngesonto elilodwa kunye nebhola elandelayo, musa ukumangaliswa. Uphakathi kwakho uzama ukufumana okungakumbi ngaye. Yiba nesigulane njengoko umntwana wakho ethatha amathuba kwaye akhuthaze phakathi kwakho ukuzama nokufuna amava amatsha.
- I-kati yakho ikhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuba imise ngaphakathi kwendlu . Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba kufuneka abe negalelo kwimisebenzi yentsapho kunye noxanduva kunye nokuba kufuneka aqoke emva kwakhe.
- Yazi abahlobo bakho baphakathi. Abahlobo bomntwana wakho baya kukuxelela ngokubanzi malunga nawe xa engekho kuwe, kwaye unokufunda malunga neengozi ezinokubakho okanye iingcinezelo zontanga ezijongene nomntwana wakho.