Ingaba iphakathi kwam isondo?
Ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo, xa kusetyenziswa ngokubhekiselele kubantwana kunye nabantwana, ngokubhekiselele kubhekiselele kwinkqubo yokugxininisa ubulili bomntu ngamnye. Ukwabelana ngesondo akuyona indlela ephilileyo yokuziphatha ngokwesini .
Ngokombutho we-American Psychological Association (APA), ukuxhatshazwa ngesondo kunokubonisa ngeendlela ezine:
- Xa umntu ecinga ukuba ufanelekile ukuba avele kuphela ngenxa yobundlobongela bakhe.
- Xa umntwana kulindelwe okanye akhuthazwe ukuba enze okanye agqoke ngesondo.
- Xa umntu ephathwa njengento yesondo kunokuba ngumntu wonke.
- Xa iimpawu zomzimba zithathwa njengowona kuphela uphawu lwezocansi.
Bobabini abasetyhini kunye nabesilisa bangaba ngamaxhoba okubelana ngesondo.
Igama elithi "ukuziphatha ngokwesini" lisetyenziselwa ukubhekisela kwindlela yokuzivikela kwengqondo apho abantu basebenzisa ukuziphatha ngokwesondo njengendlela yokulawula uxhalabo lwabo.
Kwinkcubeko yethu, kwaye ngokukodwa ngenxa yenkcubeko ye-pop kunye nezinye iindidi zeendaba, kunokubonakala kungenakwenzeka ukuphepha ukuthatha ingqondo apho ulinganisa ubulili nokuzixabisa. Ukupapashwa kusebenza phantsi kwegama elithi "ukuthengisa ngesondo." Amaphephancwadi anika iingcebiso zezocansi ezifana ne-lollipops, kunye neentloko ziphinda zikhuthaze amanqaku athembisa ukuba uzakubonakala uboncebile, i-curvier, i-sexier. Amashishini onke ebhanki ngokungaqiniseki ukuba abathengi abajoliswe kuwo baya kufumana bafuna ukulungiswa.
Yaye yonke le miyalezo iqhutyelwa kumabonwakude nakwiimabhayisikobho.
Kubonakala ngathi akunakwenzeka ukuba ugweme ukufumana le ngcamango , nangaphandle kokungazi.
Ndingayikhusela njani i-Tween yam kwi-Sexualization?
Unokuphepha ukuthenga kwisini-sexu ngokukodwa ngokuphepha zonke i-hype media.
Ungaphinde ugweme ukuxhatshazwa kwesondo phakathi kwakho ngokubanceda bafunde ngohlobo lwezesondo olusempilweni xa bebancinci, kwaye ngokubafundisa ukuba baninzi kunokuba babonakale, kwaye baninzi kunokuba baninzi kangakanani umsebenzi wesondo okanye t usebenza.
Enyanisweni, ekuqaleni uqala ukufundisa umntwana wakho malunga nokuziphatha okubi ngokwesini , ukulungelelanisa ukuzimela kwabo, kwaye ukuphakamisa ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kuya kuba. Baya kuba baninzi amathuba okwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo ngesondo, okanye ngesondo xa ixesha lifika. Baya kuba banokuzikhusela kangcono ukuzikhusela kubasetyhini.
Singabantu besini naxa sizalwa. Qala ukufundisa umntwana wakho kunye nawe namhlanje ukuze benze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kusasa.
Umthombo:
Umbutho wezeMpilo waseMelika. Ukuxhatshazwa kweTyhini: UkuShwankathela iSigqeba. http://www.apa.org/pi/women/programs/girls/report.aspx?item=2