Kholwa okanye cha, ndifumana imibuzo emininzi kumadoda ebhokisini lam yeposi, abaninzi banomdla ukuba iqabane likhulelwe. Umxholo uvame ukuba umfazi wesaba ukuthatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa , nokuba uzama ukukhulelwa okanye uthandaza ukuba impendulo ayibi. Esi sinengqondo esivakalayo kwaye esoloko idlala kumagumbi okulala kunye neendawo zokuhlamba kuwo wonke umhlaba.
Ndivuyiswa gqitha ukubona ukuba amaqabane ajoyina kwaye abuza imibuzo, ngoko ndihlala ndivuyayo ukuphendula kule mibuzo.
Nantsi into endibaxelela yona:
Akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuba ngaba umfazi ukhulelwe ngaphandle kokuba athathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa. Oku kudla ngokuqhelekileyo ngokuhlolwa kokukhulelwa ekhaya okusebenzisa umchamo. Unokufumana uvavanyo lokukhulelwa phantse nayiphi na ivenkile yokutya, ivenkile yezilwanyana okanye ibhokisi lebhokisi enkulu. Unokuze ulandele iimvavanyo zokukhulelwa kwi-intanethi kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo.
Uvavanyo lujonge i-hormone ye- chorionic gonadotropin (hCG) kumchamo, oveliswayo xa ukhulelwa. Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ekhaya luphantse lufana nelo lusetyenziswa kwiofisi yomgqirha okanye umbelekazi kwaye iziphumo kufuneka zithembeke.
Ukuqinisekisa ukuba uvavanyo luchaneke kakhulu, uya kufuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulandela yonke imiyalelo ebhaliweyo ekuhlolweni kokukhulelwa. Igama lokulumkisa malunga neemvavanyo zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili ezithi zingasetyenziselwa ngaphambi kwexesha eliphosakeleyo - zichanekileyo njengoko iHCG iyatholakala.
Oku kuthetha ukuba kunokwenzeka, kodwa umonakalo unokuhlala ulungile kwiintsuku ezizayo. Ukuthintela oku kukukhathazeka kuwe, qiniseka ukuba uphelelwe ixesha lakhe. Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa kwegazi luyalelwe kwakhona ngugqirha okanye umbelethisi kwezinye iimeko. Olu hlobo lovavanyo lokukhulelwa lukhangela kwakhona iHCG.
Ngaba kufuneka athathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa?
Kufuneka uqikelele uvavanyo lokukhulelwa xa uphelelwe ixesha. Oku kuyinyaniso nokuba ingaba unayo impawu, kungekhona ukuba wonke umntu unempawu zokukhulelwa ngoko nangoko, kwaye ahlala eqala ngokukhawuleza ekukhulelweni. Ezinye iimpawu zokukhulelwa zingabandakanya:
- Amabele
- Isihlunu kunye nokuhlanza (ukugula kwasekuseni)
- Ukukhathala
- Ukuhamba kweemvakalelo
- Kwabanye abaninzi.
Ngelixa ungeke umnyanzele ukuba athathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, mhlawumbi uthethe naye malunga nokoyikayo unokukunceda ukuba ahlole. Ukumqinisekisa ukuba ukhona kuyo, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni umphumo. Mhlawumbi ukuthenga uvavanyo kuye kwaye uvavanyo lwakhe kunye naye lunokumnceda.
Amaxesha amaninzi iintlungu zixhalabele ngeziphumo. Ukuba uzame ukuphepha ukukhulelwa, kusobala ukuba ukhathazekile ngokukhulelwa okungenakulungiswa. Ukuba uzama ukukhulelwa, unokukhathazeka ukuba awukhulelwe okwamanje. Ngandlela-thile, ngokukhawuleza uthabatha uvavanyo lokukhulelwa, kungekudala uza kukwazi ukuba ukhulelwe okanye ukuba ufuna ukunyangwa ngonyango ngesinye isizathu.
Ukuba wena kunye nomfazi okhutshelweyo akusekho kunye kwaye unemibuzo malunga nokukhulelwa okukrokrelayo okanye ekuxelele ukuba ukhulelwe kwaye ukuba umntwana uyakho, unesixa esinzima kakhulu.
Unokuba ufuna ukuzama ukufumanisa xa ekhulelwe ukuba abone ukuba oko kusebenza ngobulumko bemihla ngexesha lakho kunye. Ukubuza malunga nokuya kwetyelelo lokubeletha kunokunceda. Uya kufuneka ufune ukuba yeyiphi imithetho yemibutho ebusweni bakho. Uzakufuna ukufumanisa ukuba amalungelo akho kunye neemfanelo zakho zihamba phambili. Oku kungabandakanya ukuthetha malunga nokuhlolwa kobunikazi kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo kulwalamano. Into efanelekileyo enokuyenza kukuba umsekele aze amncede endleleni.