Akunakwenzeka ukuba ukhulelwe ukuba ixesha lakho lafika emva kokuba unesondo esingakhuselekanga. Nangona akusikho ngokupheleleyo ngaphandle kwendawo. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa ukuba ube nexesha lakho emva kokuba ulala ngesondo.
Kubalulekile ukuba ufumane ukuba ngaba unesithuba sakho okanye ukuba uhlala ulapha igazi. Ukuphuma kwamanzi kungabi yithuba lakho kodwa kunokunye okufana nokunyuka kwamanzi , okuza kubonisa ukukhulelwa.
Kufuneka uqikelele uvavanyo lokukhulelwa xa ixesha lakho libonakala lucala okanye nayiphi na indlela eyahlukileyo. Oku kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo.
"Ndandixhalabisa ngokukhulelwa. Sasiqhelile ikhondom, kwaye ngelixa ndandingenakuqiniseka ukuba bekude kakhulu kumjikelezo wam ukuba andiyi kuba nexhalaba kakhulu, ndandisayixhalabele kude ndiqalise ixesha lam. Ndonwabile ukubona, "ukhumbula uSharon. "Nangona kunjalo, emva kokuba kuqalile umntu othile undixelele ukuba ayibe yinto kwaye ndiyakwazi ukukhulelwa. Kwakungokwemvelo ngokwaneleyo, ngoko ndandicinezelekile de ndiqalise ixesha elizayo, kodwa ngaphantsi kuncinci kangangokuba ndizange ndive ndikhulelwe . "
Ezinye iindlela zokulawula ukuzalwa ziza kusebenzisa iintsuku ezikhuselekileyo kunye neentsuku ezingaphephile njengendlela yokubonisa iintsuku ezingafuneki ukusebenzisa iindlela zokulondoloza zokuzalwa, njengekhondom. Nangona iintsuku nje ngaphambi kokuba ixesha lakho lingabonwa njengentsuku ekhuselekileyo engafuneki ukulawula ukuzalwa, oku kuya kwaziwa kuphela emva kwemijikelezo emininzi yokufunda ubude bomjikelezo wakho.
Oku kwenza ukuba kuthembeke kubasetyhini abangenzi nto njengendlela yokulawula ukuzalwa.
U-Angela uthi: "Ndaye ndabala iintsuku kumjikelezo wam ngaphambi, kodwa kungekudala kule nyanga." "Ndihlala ngokuqhelekileyo, kodwa ndandiphazamisa ngemini. Ndandiqiniseke ukuba kwakuza kuqala emva kwaloo mini, xa ndingazange ndiyikhuphe kude kube yinto."
Uvavanyo lokukhulelwa luya kukuxelela ukuba ukhulelwe okanye hayi. Ukuba unemiphumo yokuvavanya yokukhulelwa engalindelekanga , njengolu vavanyo olubi xa uqinisekile ukuba ukhulelwe, linda iintsuku ezimbalwa ukubuyela emva. Oku kuya kukunceda uqinisekise ukuba ufumana impendulo echanekileyo kuvavanyo lwakho lokukhulelwa. Kuya kuqinisekisa kwakhona ukuba umzimba wakho unelungelo elaneleyo lokuvelisa i-hCG ukwenzela ukuba uvavanye kakuhle kuvavanyo lokukhulelwa, njengoko i-hCG iphantse iphindwe kabini iintsuku ezimbini xa ukhulelwa.
Ukuba uzama ukuphepha ukukhulelwa, kufuneka usebenzise ubuncinane indlela eyodwa yokulawula ukuzalwa rhoqo xa ulala ngesondo. Iindlela ezahlukeneyo zolawulo lokuzalwa zonke zinempawu ezahlukileyo. Nguwe kuphela onokugqiba ukuba yiyiphi into ehambelana nendlela yokuphila kunye neemfuno zakho. Xa kusetshenziswe ngokufanelekileyo ukulawula ukuzalwa kuyindlela echanekileyo yokukhusela ukukhulelwa. Unokufumana ulawulo lokubeletha ukusuka kumboneleli wakho oyintloko, unobume bezempilo kwendawo, okanye uhlobo lwee-Planned Parenthood lweeofisi.
> Imithombo:
> I-Obstetrics: Iziqhelo eziqhelekileyo kunye neengxaki. Gabbe, S, Niebyl, J, Simpson, JL. I sixhenxe.
> Ikhalenda yokuvuna. Matshi weDimes.