Sonke sibone iindaba zeendaba. Umama oziqhenkcezayo uyamkhwelisa umntwana osanda kuzalwa , kodwa ekhangelekile - engazange azikhulelwe aze asebenze. Kwabo bakhulelwe ngaphambili, oku kubonakala kungenakwenzeka. Emva koko, ungaziphosa njani yonke impawu kunye neempawu zokukhulelwa ? Abaninzi abasetyhini baxhoma kwi-bit ukuba bathathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa ngomzuzu wabo ixesha elide.
Izizathu Ezibangelwa Ngokufihlakeleyo okanye Ukukhulelwa
Enyanisweni, kukho izizathu ezibini ukuba kutheni umfazi engayi kuqaphela ukukhulelwa kwakhe; Zibini zibonisa ukuba kukho iingxaki ezibalulekileyo zengqondo emsebenzini. Ukukhulelwa okufihlakeleyo kukukhulelwa okufihliweyo ngamabomu: umama uyazi ukuba ukhulelwe kodwa akayi kuvuma. Ukukhishwa, okanye ukungahoxiswa, ukukhulelwa kwenzeka xa unina engazikhetheli ukuba akhuphe iimpawu ezibonakalayo zokukhulelwa .
Kutheni umama ukhetha ukungawunaki ukukhulelwa okanye ukuphika ukuba ukhulelwe? Kukho izizathu ezininzi; ezinye ziqondakala kwaye ziqiqa:
- Unina uphelele kwaye ngoko akaqondi ukuba ubunzima obongezelelweyo okanye uxinzelelo angase aziva ngayo;
- Umama uthathe uvavanyo lokukhulelwa olunika iziphumo ezingalunganga;
- Unina unomjikelezo wokuya esikhathini, kwaye ngaloo ndlela akaphosoli ixesha lakhe kude kube neveki eziliqela okanye ezinyangeni ezikhulelweyo;
- Umama ungumdlali oqeqesha ngokukhawuleza ukuba ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili akubonakali kakuhle;
- Iimpawu zokukhulelwa, ezifana nokugula kwasekuseni , azibonakali - okanye zivele ngeendlela ezingalindelekanga (ukugula kwasekuseni ebusuku, umzekelo)
- Ukukhulelwa kungumphumo ongafunekiyo wokudlwengula okanye ukungathandana, kwaye umama ukhetha ukuba angathethi ukuba ukhulelwe ukwenzela ukuphepha iimiphumo ezibi
Nangona ukukhulelwa okufihliweyo kubonakala kunengqiqo, nangona kunjalo, ezininzi ziphumo zengqondo. Unina kufuneka azifihle ngokwenene isimo sakhe somzimba ukususela ade umntwana azalwe.
Ukukhulelwa kokukhulelwa
Ngokomphando, urhulumente okhulelwe ukukhulelwa akaqhelekanga. Enyanisweni, engazi ukuba ukhulelwe uze ube namaviki angama-20 ukhulelwe kwenzeka ngo-1 ngo-475 ukukhulelwa. Bongeza ukuba ukukhanyela ukukhulelwa kwiiveki ezingama-20 okanye emva koko (enye ye-475 yokukhulelwa) ivela rhoqo ngaphezu kwesifo se-Rh kunye nezinye izinto esizicingayo ngokungenakwenzeka.
Ukukhishwa Kwemisebenzi
Ngelixa elincinci kakhulu ukuba ungazazi uze usebenze, malunga nokuzalwa kwama-2,455. Nangona xa ubeka oko kuqonda, ufumanisa ukuba ngokwenene ulungele ukuzala ngaphandle kokwazi ukuba ukhulelwe kunokuba uza kuzalisa ezintathu! (1 ngo-7.225 ukukhulelwa) Enyanisweni, xa abaphandi baqhubelela idatha kwilizwe elinjengeJamani, bafumanisa ukuba oomama abangaba ngu-300 ngonyaka abazange bazi ukuba bakhulelwe baze baqale ukusebenza.
Abaphandi bacebisa ukuba uluhlu oluthile lokuhlelwa kwezonyango luyongezwa phantsi kokungabikho kokuzala ukukhulelwa okungekho nto. Oku kuya kuquka ukukhulelwa okanye ukukhulelwa okufihliweyo.
Ingabandakanya nokukhulelwa kwamanga (pseudocyesis), umnqweno omkhulu wokuba nabantwana kunye nezinye iindlela zokuziphatha komama kumntwana wakhe.
Le nto ayiyinkathazo kuphela yecandelo elithile labesetyhini, lwenzeka kuyo yonke iqela lezentlalo, ubuhlanga, inkolo, njl. Naluphi na indlela, umgca wukuthi ungazi ukuba ukhulelwe, kwangeveki ezingama-20 zokukhulelwa, ezinokubeka umngcipheko kwimpilo kamama nosana.
Umthombo
Ukulahlwa kunye nokukhulelwa okufihliweyo. I-Journal ye-Psychosomatic Research 2006; 61: 723-30.
Ukuzalwa okumangalisayo akuqhelekanga. IBritish Medical Journal 2002; 324: 458.