Ukunqoba okanye ukulahlekelwa, ukukhulisa ukuzithemba komntwana wakho ngeengcebiso ezixhasayo.
Akukho mxinzelelo, umama noTata, kodwa ingxoxo yomdlalo emva kokudlala ingenza okanye iphule amava olwazi lolutsha lolutsha. Emva komdlalo, uhlanga, okanye ukhuphiswano olulodwa, ingxoxo yakho idinga ukufeza imisebenzi eninzi. Ungayisebenzisa ukuze:
- Yenza abantwana bakho bathemba
- Qinisekisa umdlalo wezemidlalo
- Bonisa uthando nothando olungenammiselo
- Nceda abantwana bakho babeke ulindelo ngekamva
- Funda ngeengxaki zakho abantwana abajongene nazo
Ezi ntetho ziphathwa kakuhle, ziya kwenza ukuba inxaxheba kwezemidlalo ibe nefuthe kunabantwana bakho. Yaye njengebhonasi, baya kuqinisa ubuhlobo bakho nabo.
Kukho umahluko phakathi kwexesha elifutshane (kukuthi, kwintetho yekhaya imoto) incoko kunye nento eyenzeka emva kweeyure ezimbalwa okanye ngosuku olulandelayo. Ekuhambeni kokuqala kokhuphiswano, umntwana wakho unokufuna ixesha lokuba adibanise, kwaye angenakufuna ukuthetha ngomcimbi nhlobo. Hlonipha iimvakalelo zakhe, kwaye ufunde oko kusebenza ngokusemandleni akhe. Yonke intsana iyahluke.
Injongo yokuPhumela kweMidlalo: Ukuzithemba
Ukukhuthaza ukuzithemba komntwana kunye nokuzithemba emva komdlalo, unikezele indumiso ecacileyo kwaye inyanisekileyo-kwaye ingaboshwa kwisiphumo sokugqibela. Ufuna ukuqaphela umzamo wakhe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba iqela liphumelele okanye lahleka. Yithi: "Ndiqaphele ukuba uzame kakhulu ukukhomba iinzwane zakho ezifana nomqeqeshi wakho uphakamise" okanye "Kwakuyimpumelelo enhle kuTyard kwixesha lesi-2." Ungathi: "Umsebenzi omkhulu!" (Uziva uxoka kwaye awufumani .)
Injongo yokuPhumela kweMidlalo: Ukuzonwabisa
Ukuba ngumdlalo omhle kuthetha ukubonisa inceba ekunqobeni, kodwa nakunokutshatyalaliswa. Ngoko ugweme ukukhwela abachasene namagosa ukuba umntwana wakho ulahlekelwa ngumdlalo okanye enze kakuhle. Obeka umzekelo ombi! Ukuba iqela lomntwana lakho liphumelele, qaqhayisa ngokuziqhayisa kakhulu. Yithi: "Iqela lakho lisebenzisana kakuhle namhlanje" okanye "elinye elinye iqela lalinomdlalo omkhulu." Ungathi: "Loo nto yayimbi kakhulu.
Iqela lakho kufuneka liphumelele! "
Injongo yokuPhumela kweMidlalo: Inkxaso
Umntwana wakho kufuneka azi ukuba awunomsindo okanye uhlazekile xa elahlekelwa okanye enze kakuhle. Kwakhona kufuneka aqonde ukuba uthando lwakho aluxhomekeke kwimpumelelo yakhe kwimidlalo. Oku kuvakalelwa ngokukhawuleza, kodwa kwenzeka, kwaye kunokukhawuleza kukukhokelela ekukhathazeni okanye ekutshiseni . Yithi: "Ndiyaziqhenya kakhulu kuwe," "Ndiyathandeka kakhulu ukuba usebenze nzima kangakanani," okanye "Ndiyakuthanda ukubukela uhamba." Musa ukuthi: "Ndididekile" okanye "Uze ungenzanga njani ukuba ubambe?"
Injongo yokuPhumela kweMidlalo: Impumelelo yexesha elizayo
Sebenzisa ukuxoxwa kwemidlalo emva kokukhuthaza umntwana wakho kunye nokumkhokela imizamo ezayo. Kodwa musa ukwenza uhlalutyo lokudlalwa ngokudlala, ngokukhawuleza ngokulandela umdlalo; ugcine loo mqeqeshi. Yithi: "Umkhuba wakho ubonakala uhlawula!" okanye "Ndiyazi ukuba udabukile ukuba ulahlekile. Ngaba kukho into endifuna ukuba ndincede uyenze ngaphambi komdlalo olandelayo?" Ungathi: "Awuqhelanga ngokwaneleyo!"
Injongo yokuPhumela kweMidlalo: Ukuchonga iingxaki
Ukuba umntwana wakho unzima kwimidlalo yakhe , ngamanye amaxesha unokukhwaza ingxaki ngexesha lakho lengxoxo. Qhubeka uqaphele, njengoko iimvakalelo zakhe zisebenza ngokuphakamileyo ngeli xesha. Ungadinga ukuvumela ixesha lokupholisa, uze ulandele. Unokwazi ukuqonda ukuba yimiphi imiba ephakanyiswayo ngemibuzo ebuhlungu.
Yithi: "Ngaba udidekile?", "Ngaba ufunde into entsha?", Okanye "Ngaba kukho umntu othe wathetha into ehlekisayo kwigumbi lokuprinta?" Ungathi: " Ufika njani ungayithandi iqela lakho kwakhona?" okanye "Ngaba umqeqeshi wakhalaza kuwo wonke umntu, okanye nje wena?"