Ngaba umntwana wam usemncinci ukuba angene ekunakekelwa kwamasuku?
Yiyiphi iminyaka yokubeka umntwana wakho kwinqanaba lokunyamekela uluntu isigqibo somntu kwaye sinokuxhomekeka kwiimeko ezininzi. Ezi zinto ziquka ubude bekhefu lokubeleka; ikhono lomlingani wakho lokuthatha ixesha emsebenzini; lwakho uxanduva lwemali; kunye nokuba unamanye amanyathelo okunakekela abantwana, njengezihlobo. Umzali omdala unako ukulinda emva kokuzalwa komntwana ekubekwe kwinkonzo yamasilane kukulungele ixesha ukuseka isinamathiselo ekhuselekileyo, ukuba intambo yomzimba uphilise ngokuzeleyo, ukufumanisa indlela yokutya nokulala kunye nolunye utsha olutsha olusandul 'ukuzalwa. umzali nomntwana ukuba bayeke.
Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni oomama abaninzi abasebenzayo banalo ikhefu lokubeletha kweeveki ezintandathu kuphela kwaye iintsapho zabo zithembele kwingeniso yabo, ukulinda de ukuba umntwana sele akhulile. Uninzi lwama-daycares aluyi kuthatha iintsana ezingaphantsi kweeveki eziyi-6 ubudala. Amaziko amaninzi eziko azinakunyulwa ukujongana neemfuno ezizodwa kwiintsana ezizalwe kusenesikhathi okanye ngezidingo zempilo ezizodwa kule minyaka.
Ngifanele Ndiqalise Ukufuna Ababoneleli Bamasango?
Oku kunokuza kumangaliswa, kodwa abazali bafanele baqale ukukhangela ababoneleli benkonzo ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ukuba uyazi ukuba kuya kufuneka ubuyele emsebenzini ngexesha elithile lithile uze uqale ukukhangela i-daycares ekuqaleni. Ngale ndlela unako ukujongana naluphi na iingxaki zokunakekela abantwana ngaphambi kokuba unakekele umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa, uhlaziywe ekuzalweni kwaye ujongane neemvakalelo zokubuyela emsebenzini .
Ziziphi izinto endizifunayo kuMboneleli weMini?
Xa kuqwalaselwa i-daycares, kubalulekile ukubuza ukuba unokubuza imibuzo eninzi malunga nokuba isikhungo senkonzo yesondlo sinelayisenisi, zeziphi iziqinisekiso zabasebenzi, yintoni umlinganiselo wabantwana abanikezelayo kunye naluphi uhlobo losuku .
Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bahlale bekhululekile kwaye benethemba lokunyamekela kwabo abantwana abaselula xa bebasebenza.
Iintsana ziyachuma kwiimeko apho banengqalelo eninzi ngomnye kumncedi omnye, ngoko ukunakekelwa kwekhaya kulukhulu ngeli nqanaba kuba kunenani elincinci leintsana ngamnye ngumnakekeli, kwaye unonophelo angasabela kwiintsana kufuneka ngokukhawuleza.
Umlinganiselo ophakanyiswe nguMbutho kaZwelonke weMfundo yabantwana abaselula ngumntu omdala ukuya kubantwana abathathu, ukuzalwa kwiinyanga ezili-12, kwiqela lesithandathu. Ukuseka isinamathiselo kunye nokuthembela kubanyamekeli kubaluleke kakhulu kwiintsana ezingama-18 ukuya kwezi-18. Ukuqhubeka kokunyamekela kubaluleke kakhulu kule nqanaba. Iintsana zidinga ixesha lokuphuhlisa isinamathiselo kunye nokuthembela kumnakekeli wabo. Iintsana nazo zifuna indawo ecocekileyo nekhuselekileyo njengoko iqala ukuhlola ihlabathi elibajikelezile.
Ucwaningo oluqhubekayo olwenziwa yiZiko leSizwe lezeMpilo kunye noPhuhliso lwaBantwana luchaze ukuba ukunakekelwa kwabantwana akusongeli ubophelelo phakathi kweentsana kunye noomama, nje kuphela ukuba umntwana ufumana unyameko oluhle ekhaya. Iintsana ziyakwazi ukunyamekela ekunakekeleni abantwana kuba nje iimeko zibandakanya ukunakekelwa okuninzi, uthando, ukusebenzisana ngokudlala kunye nabanonophelo kunye namava olulwimi olutyebileyo. Umnakekeli wekhwalithi uya kuba neengxaki kwiintswelo zentsana, uzive ukhululekile ukubonisa uthando kubantwana kwaye uqonde amazinga okuphuhlisa abantwana.
Ukuqwalasela iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokunakekela abantwana
Abazali bafanele baqwalasele ezinye iindlela zokunakekela abantwana, ezifana nokuqasha umnakekeli okanye umnyamekeli okanye uthabathe umntwana wakho, ubuncinci de ade umntwana wakho akhulile.
Khangela iinkonzo kunye nokuxhamla kweendlela ezahlukeneyo zokunakekela abantwana , njengeendleko, ukuguquguquka, ukuqwalasela umntwana kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuba zibalulekile kuwe.
Iintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala kunye neveki emva kokubeka umntwana wakho kwezinye iingalo zomnikeli kunokuba nzima kakhulu. Unokuziva uxhalabile, ukwesaba okanye umona. Yonke le mvakalelo iyinto eqhelekileyo kwaye njengoko ukhululekile ngakumbi ngababoneleli ngabantwana kwaye ubone ukuba umntwana wakho uyakunyamekela, uya kuqala ukuziva ungcono malunga nesigqibo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba unesivakalelo esibi, zithemba wena. Awunatshatanga naluphi na imeko yokunakekela abantwana. Yenza okulungileyo kuwe nentsapho yakho.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba kukho ezininzi iinketho ezifumanekayo kubazali ukuba benze ukhetho olululo kwaye bazi ukuba umntwana wabo uya kufumana unyango oluphezulu .
> Imithombo:
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