Ukuzonwabisa kwezingane kuthetha ukuqonda ezi zikhokelo zokudlala nokuhlonipha.
Ngokukhawuleza xa abantwana beqala ukudlala imidlalo yezemidlalo, baqala ukufunda izinto ezisiseko zezemidlalo zezingane. Enyanisweni, esi sizathu esihle kakhulu sokuba abantwana abatsha bathathe inxaxheba kwimidlalo yeqela.
Kuba iimbaleki ziqala nje, ukutshintshela phezulu iqela elichasileyo emva komdlalo kunokubonakala ngathi yinkcazelo encinci, kungekhona into ebalulekileyo. Kodwa amaxesha afana nalawa abeka umgangatho weqela leqonga le nyaniso.
Xoxa nabadlali bakho abancinci malunga nale migaqo ebalulekileyo yezemidlalo ukususela kwiminyaka emi-5 okanye yesi-6, kwaye uqhubeke nencoko njengoko bekhula kwaye imidlalo ifumana ukhuphiswano.
1. Dlala ngemithetho.
Balapho ukuze baqinisekise ukuba umdlalo ulungile kwaye uyonwabile, kwaye uncede ukugcina abadlali (kunye namagosa) ekhuselekileyo. Ngoko ukuwaphula kungaba yingozi, ngaphezu kokungathembekanga. Ngaphezu koko, ukunqoba okufunyanwa ngokukopela akuve kufuneke kulunge njengento ezukileyo.
2. Yiba ngumdlali weqela.
Ukuba yinxalenye yeqela kuthetha ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle kwaye ungalokothi ucinge ukuba iqela lilawula nemigaqo-nkqubo ayisebenzisi kuwe. Kwakhona kuthetha ukuthatha i-spotlight, ngoko ungayigodli ibhola okanye uzuko. Umqeqeshi omhle kufuneka ahlale eveza ithuba lokuba abadlali basebenze kunye kunye neqela elifanelekileyo.
3. Yiba ngumhlobo omhle.
Ukuba iqabane lenzakala, lenze iphutha, okanye lusizi , linika amagama athuthazayo. Ungalokothi usolwe okanye ugxeke ilungu leqela lokulahlekelwa umdlalo, ukuyeka amanqaku, okanye ukwenza impazamo.
Uphumelela njengeqela kwaye ulahlekelwa njengeqela.
4. Yenza iimpazamo zakho.
Ukuba nguwe olahla ibhola, yamkela uxanduva kunokuba uzame ukwenza izizathu okanye ukugxeka abanye. Umdlali omhle ufunda kwiimpazamo (kwaye umqeqeshi omhle wenza iiphoso ezininzi, ziphendule zibe zifundo ezifundisekayo).
5. Gwema inkulumo yentengiso.
Ukuthetha ukuthini izinto kunye nabachasi bakho (nangona bengenakukuphulaphula) ababahloneli kubo, umdlalo owuthandayo, kunye nakwabalingane bakho. Kubenza babonakale bebubi. Ngoko gcina izimvo zihloniphe okanye uzigcinele wena.
6. Yithi "siyabonga."
Umqeqeshi wakho ufanelwe ukubonga kwakho ngalo lonke ixesha anikezela kwiqela lakho. Kwakhona ezinye iivolontiya , kubandakanywa nabancedisi bee-coaching, abacebisi abancedisayo, abapempe kunye namanye amagosa.
7. Cela abalandeli ukuba babe nemidlalo emihle.
Xa abazali , abazalwana kunye noodade, ezinye izalamane nabahlobo beza kukubukela ukudlala, kufuneka babe ngababukeli abahle. Njalo ukhumbuze ukuba zigcine izimvo (malunga nabadlali abavela kumaqela amabini, abaqeqeshi, namagosa) ezilungileyo kunye neentlonipho.
8. Gubungula izandla emva komdlalo.
Okanye uthengise i-high-fives kwaye uxele iqela elichasileyo "umdlalo omhle." Oku kubonisa abanye abadlali ukuba uyabahlonela kwaye uyawaxabisa. Emva koko, kuthatha amaqela amabini ukudlala-imidlalo ayinakuzonwabisa ngaphandle kwabamelene.
9. Hlonipha xa uphumelela.
Musa ukuziqhayisa kunye neqela xa iqela elilahlekileyo lijikeleze, okanye lihlekise ngabo ngokulahlekelwa. Kukulungele ukufumana ukunqoba. Uzuze! Musa nje ukubeka elinye iqela phantsi xa ugubha.
10. Yiba nomusa xa ulahlekelwa.
Akukho mdlalo uza kuhamba.
Thatha iimbopheleleko ngenxa yelahleko zakho endaweni yokubagxeka kwelinye iqela, imozulu, okanye amagosa.
Enye indlela yokukhuthaza imidlalo yabantwana kukufunda iincwadi ngezihloko. Ezi ncwadi zezingane ezincinci ze-school and kids and teen and adolescents zingaba neengxoxo ezinzulu malunga nokuwina, ukulahlekelwa, nokudlala kakuhle. Ukuzonwabisa okuhle kwezemidlalo akuzenzeki ngokuzenzekelayo okanye kulula kumntwana ngamnye. Ukufundisa nokuthatha imodeli yakho kubaluleke kakhulu ekuncedeni umntwana wakho ukuba afunde olu buchule lobomi bokubaluleka.