Ngaluphi Umdala Umntwana Wethu Xa Aqala Ukudlala Ezemidlalo?
Ngaba ungumntwana mncinane kakhulu ukuba udlale kwiligi lezemidlalo? Le ngxaki ibhekene nezigidi zabantu baseMerika kulo lonke ilizwe. Yiyiphi iminyaka efanelekileyo yokufumana abantwana bakho baqale kwimidlalo?
Iimidlalo zezingane ziyinto edlalwa kwizigidi zamakhaya kuwo onke amazwe onke ngeveki. Umama, uTata, kunye neentombi okanye umkhulukazi okanye unina okanye umalume okanye amabini, yonke inqwaba kwi-minivani kunye nentloko phezulu kwimimandla yezemidlalo yasemaphandleni ukuze ujonge umdlalo webhola lebhola , i- baseball okanye omnye umdlalo wezemidlalo.
Edlalwa ngamaqondo atshisayo okanye ashushu, iintsuku zelanga okanye imvula, ukuzibophezela kwimidlalo ngababambi-nxaxheba (okanye ubuncinci abazali babo) abathintana nabo base-US Postal Service ("Akukho nekhephu, imvula, nobushushu ...") . Izaliswe ngamatye e-orange, i- sunscreen , ibhotile yamanzi kunye nezihlalo zokunyathela, kubazali abathile, ukuba abantwana babo badlale imidlalo ehleliweyo yinto abayilindele ngayo ixesha elide. Kwabanye - kakuhle, akunjalo.
Ngaba abantwana bezemidlalo bafanelekile kumntwana wakho?
Impendulo, mhlawumbi. Kukho ezinye izinto omele uziqwalasele xa ugqiba ukuba imidlalo yinto efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho ngeli xesha. Ezi zinto ziquka:
- Ubudala
Ezinye iinkqubo zezemidlalo zezingane ziqala ukubhalisa abantwana njengabantwana abaneminyaka eli-2 okanye 3, kanti abanye baneminyaka yobudala ubuncinane bemi-5. Ngokomdlalo wezemidlalo, ibhola lebhola lihlala lihlala elincinane kubadlali abancinci, kodwa kuninzi Iibhola ze-t-ball eziklanyelwe ngakumbi abantwana abancinci. Ukuba ucinga ngomdlalo ngamnye, ukubhukuda kunye ne-gymnastics kukuhle kubafundi besikolo, ngokude nje ukuba kunomlinganiselo omncinci wokuthatha inxaxheba kumqeqeshi ukuze umntwana wakho angakhathazeki alinde ithuba lakhe.
I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics ibonisa ukuba imidlalo yezemidlalo ifanelekileyo ngokufanelekileyo kwabantwana abangaphezu kweminyaka engama-6, ngelixa abantwana abaselula banokuzuza kwiqela lemidlalo, becacisa ukukwazi okungcono ukulandela izikhokelo kunye nokuqonda okukhulu komsebenzi weqela.
- Isidima
Unomonde kangakanani umntwana wakho? Ngaba uhamba ngokutshintsha? Ngaba uyahlukana nawe ngaphandle kokulahla? Usabela njani xa izinto zingahambi? Ngaba udlala kakuhle nabanye? Ukwabelana njani na? Imibuzo emininzi, kodwa izinto ezibalulekileyo zokuqwalasela.
Ukudlala umdlalo wezemidlalo kubandakanya ukujika, ukulandela imithetho, ukubeka ingqalelo kunye nokwabelana kunye (ngamanye amaxesha amaninzi) nabanye abantwana. Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci uya kucelwa ukuba akhumbule imidlalo ekhuselayo neyokuzikhusela, kuxhomekeke kwimidlalo oyikhethayo, kuya kuba nemithetho elula okumele ayilandele - ehamba ngendlela ethile, engathinti ibhola izandla zakhe okanye egqoke isigqoko. Xa udlala imidlalo, abantwana bayacelwa ukuba benze - kungabonakala njengendawo ephantsi yoxinzelelo ukuba amanqaku engagcinwanga kwaye abantu bahlala bexhaswa ngamaqela, kodwa kwintsana encinane, yonke ingqalelo ingaba nzima kwaye soyike. Kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kubeka umgomo okanye afune ukutshatyalaliswa, unokuthukuthela.
- Inzala
Ingaba umntwana wakho ubonise umnqweno wokudlala umdlalo kwiqela? Ukuba uyambuza ukuba ufuna ukudlala, uyasabela njani? Abanye abantwana abancinci abanako ukuqonda ukuba imidlalo ikhona, abanye bayayazi kakhulu umdlalo wezemidlalo kubazalwana babo abadala, abahlobo okanye izalamane.
Umsebenzi ubalulekile
Ngokona nxalenye, iiprogram zezemidlalo kubantwana bezikolo zakuqala zifuna ukuzonwabisa. Ukuba ngaba iqela lezemidlalo, amanqaku ahlale engagcinwa (nangona amathuba okufumana umntwana ayenayo) kwaye kugxininiso ekukhuselweni kunye nokuchazwa ngokungafaniyo kwemithetho (kuqhutyelwa kuloo ndlela). Kwizemidlalo nganye, kwakhona, ukhuseleko kunye neeparitha ezisiseko zezemidlalo ezikhethiweyo zifakwe.
Ingaba iqela okanye umntu, ezemidlalo yindlela ephakamileyo yokukhuthaza ukufaneleka kwimfundo yakho yokufundela. Akunjalo kuphela, kodwa banceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono ezibalulekileyo-ezentlalo kunye nemoto. Kulo ntsimi, isikolo sakho sokufundela isikolo siya kuqala ukufunda oko umzimba wakhe unako. Bafunda nokuphikelela nokuzimisela.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uthatha isigqibo, kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho usebenza, nokuba ngaba usebenzisa inkqubo yezemidlalo ehleliweyo okanye nje uhamba ejikeleza ngasemva okanye kwindawo yokudlala. Iyure yovavanyo iyingcipheko -kuba ibanda kakhulu ngaphandle, yiphakamise imbopheleleko, ukuba imvula ikhona imisebenzi eninzi yangaphakathi efanelekileyo yokufumana abantwana abancinci behamba.
Yaye ukuba unentliziyo yakho isetyenziswe kumntwana edlala umdlalo kodwa engenomdla, ungaphonzi ithawula nje okwamanje. Njengoko ekhula kwaye ekhulile kwaye enokuzithemba ngamakhono akhe omzimba, amathuba okuba uya kuba nomdla kakhulu ngokunikela ngejezi.