Yintoni ongayilindela Ngomntwana Wakho Kwiiveki Ezi-5 Ezidala

Ngokuqinisekileyo abazali bayamangaliswa kukuba umntwana wabo osanda kuzalwa uphumelele, okanye mhlawumbi ulahlekelwa okokuqala.

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Ukugqiba iziqu ukuya kwiNtsana

Iziqu?

Ewe, uphumelele.

Emva kweveki ezine, okanye umhla wama-28 ukuba uchaneke ngakumbi, usana lwakho olusana luba ngumntwana "ngokusemthethweni."

Ngeeveki ezine zokubeletha umntwana omtsha phantsi kwamabhande abo, abazali abatsha banokuwujonga njengoluhlobo lwesigqibo. Bangavakalelwa ukuba baphumelela kwiintsuku xa beza ekhaya besuka esibhedlele kwaye besenokuba besaba "baya kuphuka" umntwana wabo rhoqo xa bamthabatha. Ngenyanga yesibini yintsana, abazali abaninzi banokukhululeka kwaye banokuqiniseka ukuba banako ukunyamekela umntwana wabo.

Yaye ucinge malunga nokuba unokuqiniseka kangakanani ukuba uza kuba ngowesibini ekugqibeleni umntwana - xa eba ngumntwana omncinci ...

Iingcaciso eziqhelekileyo kwixesha kunye namanqanaba omntwana ziquka:

• Usana olusandul 'ukuzalwa okanye olusenyanisekileyo - ukuzalwa kwiintsuku ezingama-28
• Iintsana - iinyanga ezi-1 ukuya kwezi-12
• Umntwana osemncinane - 1 ukuya kwi-3 iminyaka
• Isikolo sokufunda esikolweni-iminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwe-5
• Isikolo seminyaka-5 ukuya kwe-11
• I-Preteen okanye iTween-iminyaka eyi-11 ukuya kwe-12
• Umntwana - 13 nangaphezulu

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Ukuxiliswa kweNyanga kwiNyanga yesiBili

Ingaba unabantwana bakho kunye nabasebenzi bee-ofisi abaxhasa ukuncelisa ?

Kukho konke owaziwayo malunga neenzuzo zokuncelisa unina nomntwana, kufuneka ucinge "ngokuqinisekileyo ugqirha wam uya kukuxhasa ukuncelisa."

Ngelishwa, akusoloko kunjalo. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo akunjalo ukuba bananto ekuchaseni, kodwa kunoko, uninzi lwabahlengikazi kunye nabanye abaqeqeshi bezempilo abazange bafumane imfundo eyaneleyo okanye uqeqesho oluxhasayo lokuncelisa.

Nangona ukuncelisa kunokuba lula xa ufaka inyanga yesibini kwintsana yakho, kunokubakho amaxesha apho ufuna uncedo kunye nenkxaso yokuqhubeka nokuncelisa umntwana wakho ukuba unganike ubabini.

Uyazi njani ukuba ugqirha uyamxhasa ukuncelisa? Indlela efanelekileyo yokuxelela ukuba, ekubhaleni kokuqala ukuba unengxaki yokuncelisa, isifo sakho sezingane asikhuthazi kuphela ukuxhasana nebhotile, ukutshintsha kwindlela , okanye "uqhubeke uzama."

Ukongezelela ekubeni nomntwana wezilwanyana oxhasa inkxaso yokuncelisa, unako ukwandisa amathuba akho okuncelisa ngokuncelisa ngokufunda ngokubanzi njengoko unokuncelisa kunye neengxaki zokuncelisa. Kukho iincwadi ezininzi ezilungileyo kakhulu malunga nokuncelisa ukuba ufanele uqikelele ukufunda, njenge -Mothering Companion Companion kaKathleen Huggins.

Ukuba nesistim sokuncedisa ukunyusa kwendawo sinceda. Ukongeza kwinqanaba lomntwana oxhasayo, oku kungabandakanya umcebisi we-lactation okanye umcebisi we-lactation, inombolo yakhe yefowuni onokuyigcina kunye nenani lakho leenombolo eziphuthumayo. Amalungu entsapho kunye nabahlobo abanamabele abancinci bezinye izinto ezifanelekileyo zokuxhasa.

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Ukutya kweFomula

Kwiiveki ezintlanu, abazali bahlala behlala kwi-brand ethile yefomula. Into ephambili eguqukayo ngoku yile nto umntwana wakho adla ngayo kwondlo ngalunye kunye nosuku ngalunye.

Nangona abazali, ngokukodwa abazali bexesha lokuqala, bahlala befana nemithetho ethile malunga nokutya okuncinci lwabo, akukho nto ifana nayo-yonke imigaqo yokondla umntwana. Ngokungafani neentsana zokuncelisa, ezinomlenze ngakumbi ukunyusa ukuveliswa kwemveliso yebele, ungoxanduva ngqo malunga nokuba ungakanani umlinganiselo wakho wokusela.

Ngoko ungayichazela njani ukuba ungondla umntwana wakho kwaye nini ukuba umnike ngaphezulu? Ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna nje ukubona indlela umntwana wakho anelisekile ngayo kwaye wandise ukondliwa kwakhe xa uqaphela ukuba unokufuna ngaphezulu, njengokuba:

• Ukhawuleza ugqiba ibhotile kwaye ubonakala ufuna ezinye
• Kubonakala sengathi ufuna ukutya ngokuphindaphindiweyo, njengeeyure ezimbini, xa wayesidla iiyure ezintathu
• Uqala ukuvuka ngokuphindaphindiweyo ebusuku ukuze adle
• Akafumani kakuhle isisindo

Izikhokelo Zokutya zeFormula

I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics, kwincwadi ethi Yokuqala Kwaminyaka Yomntwana , ithi "ininzi abantwana bayaneliswa yi-3 ukuya kwi-4 iununces ngokutya kwinyanga yokuqala, kwaye ukwandisa loo mali ngeyure enye ngenyanga ukuya kwiiyunithi eziyi-8."

Nangona kungekhona umgaqo opheleleyo, njengesikhokelo esiqhelekileyo, oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana uya kusela malunga ne-4 ukuya kwi-5 i-ounces kwisondlo sesibini ngenyanga. Kwaye ininzi intsana idla malunga neeyure ezingama-3 ukuya kwii-4, kunye mhlawumbi enye ilanga elingama-4 ukuya kwi-6 iiyure ngelixa balala.

Qiniseka ukuba uthethe kwinqanaba lezingane ukuba umntwana wakho uphuza kakhulu okanye ngaphantsi kwelo nani-ifom - malunga ne-24 ukuya kuma-32 i-ounces ngosuku.

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Iveki yoPhuhliso kunye noPhuhliso

Abazali bahlala becinga ukuba umntwana wabo ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo.

Ukurekhoda imilinganiselo ephindaphindiweyo yokuphakama komntwana wakho, ubunzima, kunye nesithintelo sentloko ngexesha lokutyelela kwinqanaba lakho lezingane kwaye ulungelelanisa kwiteyti yokukhula yindlela efanelekileyo yokubona ukuba umntwana wakho ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo .

Ngelishwa, abanye abazali bathatha uxhalabisayo ngeengxaki zokuba umntwana wabo mncinci okanye kufuphi nezantsi kwetadi zokukhula. Khumbula ukuba izinga lomntwana wakho lokukhula luyinto ebalulekileyo ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa uhlola ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhula kwaye uya kuphuhlisa ngokuqhelekileyo kwaye akayi ndawo apho ekhompyutheni lokukhula. Ukuba umntwana wakho ulandele ikhefu lokukhula kwakhe, ngoko ukhula ngokuqhelekileyo.

Ngoko ungalindela bunjani ukuba umntwana wakho akhule kule minyaka?

Izikhokelo eziqhelekileyo zokukhula komntwana wakho ziquka:

• Ukufumana malunga ne-1/2 ukuya kweyesi-2 iipounds ngenyanga
• Ukukhula malunga nee-intshi ezili-10 (25 cm) phakathi kwexesha elizalelwa ngalo kwaye uneminyaka elilishumi elinambini ubudala
• Ukuba neentloko ezikhulayo ezikhula malunga no-2 ububanzi ngenyanga

Khumbula ukuba ezi zikhokelo eziqhelekileyo nangona kunjalo. Umntwana wakho unokukhula kancinci okanye ngaphantsi ngaphantsi konyaka ngamnye. Ukuba unenkxalabo yokukhula komntwana wakho, ingakumbi ukuba ucinga ukuba unako ukuphumelela (ukufumana ubunzima obuthakathaka) okanye ubukhulu obufutshane (ukukhula kakubi ukuphakama), qiniseka ukuthetha nomntwana wakho.

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Izihlalo zeeMoto

I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics ithi isitulo esona sikhulu saloo mntwana "sihambisana nobukhulu bomntwana wakho, sifakwe ngokufanelekileyo, kwaye sisetyenziswe kakuhle xa uqhuba."

Ngomntwana oneminyaka ezintlanu ubudala, oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka:

• Funda imigaqo yokuhlala emotweni ngokucophelela ukuze uqinisekise ukuba ufakele kwaye uyayisebenzisa ngokuchanekileyo
• Sebenzisa isitulo semoto esisodwa (esine-carrier), okanye isitulo esinokujongana nesithuthi esibheke emva
• Beka umntwana wakho obhekene naso kwisitulo sangasemva sakho semoto kwaye ungalokothi ubeke umntwana wakho kwisihlalo sangaphambili semoto kunye ne-airbag side sidebag
• Namathisela iingubo ze-LATCH okanye ibhande lokuhlala kwisihlalo somoto ngokuqinileyo
• Qinisekisa ukuba isihlalo seemoto sinqatshelwe kwinqanaba elungileyo, elingafuna ukuba ufake indawo yokufaka isikhumba se-foam phantsi kwesiseko sehlalo semoto
• Qinisekisa ukuba i-harps straps iyancipha xa ubhinqa umntwana wakho kwisihlalo semoto kwaye ukuba i-clip ye-plastiki i-clip iyisezingeni layo kwaye ayikho phantsi

Yaye ukhumbule ukuba ngokwemiyalelo yokugqibela yeemoto , iintsana kunye nabantwana baselula kufuneka bagibele kwisitulo esibhekene naso semoto (i-infant-only behind-facing car seat seat) okanye i-seat convertible seat seat). ubunzima kunye nemida yokuphakama kwesitulo sabo semoto.

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Baby Syndrome

Ungalokothi udibanise umntwana!

Oku kubonakala ngathi yenye yezinto ezifanele ukuhamba ngaphandle kokutsho.

Ngelishwa, akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ngeengozi zokugubha umntwana. Izibalo ezivela kwiZiko leSizwe kwi-Babyken Syndrome zibonisa ukuba minyaka yonke e-United States:

• Abantwana abayi-1,200 ukuya ku-1,400 bayagungqiswa
• 25 ukuya ku-30% yabantwana abashukunyiswayo bayafa
• Abasindileyo be-baby syndrome abashukunyiswayo banokubakho ubunzima obungapheliyo, kubandakanya ukulimala kwengqondo kunye nokungaboni
• Abaninzi abantwana banokuthi bangabonakaliswa amaxhoba entsholongwane yomntwana kodwa ayitholakali kuba akukho nto iphazamisayo yangaphandle, njengento yokuqhawula

Baby Syndrome

I-babyken syndrome ephazamisayo ivela xa umntwana eshukunyiswa ngamandla, ebangela ukuphuma kwegazi kwingqondo. Ezinye izinto ezinobungozi ezinxulumene nazo ziquka ukuphuma kwi-retina yelihlo, intambo yomgogodlo kunye nokulimala kwentamo, kunye neentambo zentambo.

Iimpawu ze-baby syndrome zixakeke ngokubanzi zibandakanya ukugqithisa okukhulu, ukutya okubi, ukuhlanza, ukuxhwalaza, kwaye umntwana usenokulala ngaphezu kokuqhelekileyo okanye kunzima ukuvusa (lethargic).

Ufanele ufune unyango olusondeleyo xa ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho usenokuba sisisulu se-baby syndrome.

Amaxhoba aseNtshontsho yeBantwana

Ukukunceda ukukhusela umntwana osusayo, kubalulekile ukuba ufundise bonke abantwana bakho abancinci ukuba bangalokothi baxhaphaze umntwana.

Abazali becinga ukuba abantwana abancinci kuphela kunye neentsana zinokuxhatshazwa ngumntwana. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba nabantwana abaneminyaka engama-2 ukuya kweyimihlanu ubudala banokuxhatshazwa yi-baby syndrome xa beshukunyiswa.

Oko kubangela ukuba kubalulekile ukukhumbuza ngokwakho, iqabane lakho, ezinye izinto ezibalulekileyo, amalungu omndeni, abahlobo, abantakwabo, kunye nabani na abanye abanonophelo abakufanele bawugubungele umntwana wakho.

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Ukutshathisa umntwana

Ngaba unokuphanga umntwana?

Ngenhlanhla, ezininzi iingcali zicinga ukuba awukwazi ukuphazamisa umntwana.

Lezo ziindaba ezilungileyo kubo bonke abazali abafumanisa ukuba indlela yodwa yokuthuthuzela umntwana wabo ngoku uthabatha nje ukubathwala.

Ukuthabatha umntwana wakho rhoqo xa ekhalayo mhlawumbi unokufumana impendulo engafanelekanga ngaphezu kwamalungu omhlobo namalungu entsapho, nangona kunjalo. Aba bantu balandela ezinye iindlela "zokuqala zesikolo" zokubeletha abanombulelo abangazange bababonge. Ngokuqhelekileyo bakholelwa ukuba ukuba uhlala uthabatha umntwana wakho okhalayo, ngoko uya kubaphanga.

I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics, kwincwadi yabo Yokuqala Yonyaka weNtsana , inikeza iingcebiso ezintle ngale ndaba:

Indlela efanelekileyo yokusingatha ukulila kukuphendula ngokukhawuleza kwintsana yakho nanini na ukukhala ngexesha leenyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala. Awukwazi ukuphazamisa umntwana omncinci ngokumnaka; kwaye ukuba uyaphendula uncedo lwakhe, uya kulila ngaphantsi.

Izitya, i-Wraps, kunye neNkonzo

Nangona akuyi kuphazamisa umntwana wakho, kunokuba nzima ukwenza nantoni na ukuba uhlala ubambe umntwana wakho.

Unokubamba umntwana wakho kufuphi nawe, gcina uyathuthuzela kwaye uhlalise, kwaye ugcine izandla zakho zikhululekile ngokusebenzisa isithwathwa somntwana okanye ukubethela .

Iimpawu eziphambili ziquka:

• I-Maya Wrap Sling
• Baby Bjorn Carrier
• I-Moby Wrap Baby Carrier
• I-Evenflo Snugli I-Comfort Vent Soft Carrier

Ngaba kufuneka usebenzise umgca okanye umphathi? Ngokwenene ukhetho lwakho, kokubili wena kunye nosana lwakho, kodwa lunokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokufumana enye okanye enye.

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Iveki yesihlanu ukuTlola uludwe

Nangona unokuba uzive unethemba ngakumbi malunga nokunyamekela umntwana wakho oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, kusekho into eninzi yokuqhubeka nayo.

Ukutya umntwana wakho, ukuguqula i-diapers, ukumthoba xa ekhala, njl., Bonke bangathatha ixesha elininzi. Ukuchitha ixesha elininzi lokunyamekela umntwana lwakho kunokukwenza kube lula ukungazibali izinto ezinokugcina umntwana wakho ukhusele kwaye unempilo, njengale:

• Ukuba awukwenzi oko kunjalo, yenza ixesha lokuqeshana nomntwana wakho wezingane ezinyangeni ezimbini zeentsuku zokutshekisha umntwana.
• Qinisekisa ukuba ikhaya lakho lilunge kakuhle umntwana ukuba umntwana wakho ukhusele.
• Shayela unobantwana bakho okanye ufune unyango xa umntwana wakho enomkhuhlane, oqhelekileyo uthathwa njengeqondo lokushisa elikude okanye ngaphezulu kwe-degrees Fahrenheit.
• Qhubeka ubeka umntwana wakho ukuba alale kumqolo wakhe ukunciphisa umngcipheko we-SIDS.
• Ngaphambi kokuba isistim somzimba sakho sesisu somelele xa sele sineenyanga ezimbalwa ubudala kwaye sele esenezinye zokugonywa kwakhe, zama ukugwema ukumtyhila kubantu abaninzi. Oku kunokumnceda aphephe iintsholongwane eziqhelekileyo kwaye angaguli.
• Qhubeka ubeka umntwana wakho kwisitulo esibhekene nelo elibheke ngasemva kwisihlalo sakho semoto. Funda ukuphepha iimpazamo eziqhelekileyo zokuhlala emotweni , njengokuba ubeka ikhefu yesiqhwenga esifubeni kwindawo engafanelekanga.
• Jonga ngeempawu zokudandatheka , emva kokuxinezeleka , emva kokuxinezeleka , emva kokuxinezeleka , emva kokuxinezeleka , emva koxinzelelo , kubandakanya oomama abaziva besidabuka

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Ukubhoboza Indlebe

Nangona abanye abazali bethanda ukuphulaphula iindlebe zentsana zabo ngokukhawuleza, i-American Academy ye-Pediatrics iyincoma ukuba "uyibuyisele phambili ukubhoboza ude umntwana wakho ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukunyamekela isayithi elihlabayo."

Oku kunokukunceda ukuphepha ezinye zeengozi zokubhoboza indlebe, kuquka:

• isifo - iintsana ezincinane zinamajoni omzimba omzimba omzimba, ngoko ke abanako ukulwa nesifo kwi-site yokubhoboza kakhulu.
• ukukhwaza ingozi - ukuba bafumene i-earring.
• iimpendulo ezithintekayo - kwizinyithi ezinamacici (ikakhulukazi i-nickel kunye negolide) enxibayo, kodwa oko kunokuba nzima ukuphawula ekubeni iintsana zihlala zitshintshe iindlebe zazo.
• I-earring edibeneyo- le nto iyenzeka xa enye inxalenye yomgca ihamba emngxeni we-earring kwaye ifakwe ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Nangona oku kwenzeka nakweyiphi na iminyaka, kunokuba nzima ukuba ususe kwiintsana.

Ziyingozi kangakanani na? Kungenzeka ukuba bancinci, kodwa ukususela kwintsapho yokubhoboza iindlebe ngokuqhelekileyo yinkqubo yokonkcenkcesha leyo ingasuswa kwixesha elikhuselekileyo, akukho ncinane isizathu sokuthatha loo mngcipheko.

Ukubhoboza Indlebe

Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba iindlebe zakho zibethe iindlebe zakho, zama ukulinda de ibe ubuncinane ezimbini okanye ezintathu ezinyangeni ubudala, oko kukuthi xa kufuneka abe ngumdala ngokwaneleyo ukuphatha izifo ezincinci kwaye uza kufumana ubuncinane umjikelezo wezitofu.

Kwakhona qwalasela ukufumana amacici ngokukhenkceza okanye kwi-back backs eyenziwe yintsimbi yokucoca (ukunciphisa ukuphendulwa kwemizimba), oku kunokunceda ukunciphisa amathuba omntwana wokutsala i-earring kunye nokugwinya okanye ukugubha. Futhi ukhethe isixhobo esisebenzisa izixhobo ezinobuncwane kwaye unamava okubhoboza iindlebe zentsana, njengeziko lezonyango.

> Imithombo:

> AAP. Ukunyamekela Ingane Yakho Yesikolo: Iminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwe-12.

> I-American Academy yePediatrics. Izihlalo zoKhuseleko lweMoto: Isikhokelo seMindeni ka-2011.

> Iingxaki zokubhoboza umzimba. UMeltzer DI - Am Fam Physician - 15-NOV-2005; 72 (10): 2029-34.

> Isiko seSizwe kwi-Shaken Baby Syndrome.

> AmaZiko eNational Health. Ikhasi leNgcaciso yeBantwana ye-Syken.