Enye yezona nxalenye ezinandipha kakhulu zokuba nomntwana uva i-melt-yakho-intliziyo, i-coos sweet-as-pie encinci. Kwaye, enye yezona zinto ziphazamisayo zokuba nomntwana uziva bekhala, kunye nelokuba abanakukuxelela oko kukukhathazayo. Ukwenza ingqiqo yalezo zikhalazo zinzima kakhulu kuzo zonke iiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala . Ngaba umntwana uswele?
Ngaba u buhlungu? Ngaba uyaxolisa? Ngaba unxibelele? Ungazixelela njani? Yintoni ongayenza xa umntwana wakho ekhala, kwaye uyazi ukuba kutheni? Nazi iindlela ezinhlanu zokuzolalisa umntwana wakho okhalayo.
Zama ukuxhamla kwakhona
Nangona usondla umntwana wakho ngethuba elithile elidlulileyo, mbuyise ebantwini uze uzame ukuncelisa. Maxa wambi umntwana ulele ebuthweni kwaye akafumani ngokwaneleyo. Emva koko, uyavuka emva kwexeshana kwaye ufuna ukunyameza kwakhona. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana uhamba emoyeni xa enonyameka aze ayeke ukuncelisa. Xa ekhuphe i-burp, uzive engcono, kwaye wenza indawo yobisi obuninzi , unokufuna ukuncelisa kwakhona ngokukhawuleza. Okanye, kunokuthi kube kukukhula kokukhula. Xa iintsana zihamba ngokukhula , zibonakala zilambile kwaye zifuna ukuncelisa kakhulu iintsuku ezimbalwa ngokulandelelana ngaphambi kokuba zibuyele kwipatheni engumhlengikazi oqhelekileyo.
Shintsha i-Diaper yakhe
Ukuba i-diaper yesana yakho imanzi okanye ingcolile, ayiyikukhathazeka kwesikhumba sayo.
Ukudibanisa umchamo kunye nesitulo kwi-diaper engcolileyo ngamanye amaxesha kunokubangela ukucaphuka kwesikhumba, ngokunjalo. Usenokuba utshintshe nje, kodwa kuthatha imizuzwana embalwa ukujonga kwakhona. Iintsana zinokuthi zibe ne- diapers emanzi ngaphambi, ngexesha, nangemva kokutya. Kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha ukukhuthazwa kokusula isithuba ngexesha lokutshintsha i-diaper kungenza umntwana wakho aphinde abuye kwakhona.
Khangela nayiphi na into enokubangela ubuhlungu
Ngaba umntwana wakho unxibe kwi-swaddle yakhe eqinile? Ngaba wayezibetha ngeminwe yakhe encinci? Ngaba zikhona iinwele eziboshwe ngezwane zakhe? Ngaba kufuneka adle? Thatha umzuzu ukujonga phezu kwentsana yakho ukuqinisekisa ukuba ulungile kwaye ayikho nayiphi na intlungu.
Mthabathe Uhambo
Umoya omncinci omncinci unokuba yintoni oko umntwana wakho adinga. Ingaba uhlala kumadlelo okanye kwisixeko, ukubeka umntwana wakho kwisigxina nokuphuma kungabangela ukhiye obuncwane (okanye ubuthongo obuhle!). Ukuba uyakhala ngeenxa zonke ebhodini, mhlawumbi ulambile. Kodwa, ukuba uyayikhupha umzuzu ophuma emnyango, wayekulungele amaphupha athile.
Zama iSling or Baby Carrier
Ukubamba umntwana wakho okanye ukugqoka umntwana wakho kwisiringi okanye umntwana ophetheyo kuyindlela enhle yokumnceda xa ekhala. Iintsana kunye neentsana ezifana nokufudumala nokukhuseleka okubanjelwe kumzimba womama kuza. Ngexesha lokubanjwa, umntwana wakho unokuziva intliziyo yakho kwaye uve ilizwi lakho. Ukuba uhamba xa ugqoke umntwana wakho, intshukumo enokunyaniseka ingathuthuzela kwaye ilutye umntwana wakho ukuba alale. Ufuna nje ukuqiniseka ukuba xa usebenzisa i-carrier okanye sling, uyazi indlela yokubeka umntwana ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ulisebenzise ngokukhuselekileyo.
Ngexesha lokuya kubiza ugqirha
Ukuba umntwana wakho esakhala emva kokutya, ukutshintsha, ukutshekisha, ukubamba, ukugubha, nokuhamba, kwaye awukwazi ukumthuthuzela, kufuneka uqhagamshelane nogqirha . Ukukhala kungabonakalisa ukuba umntwana wakho akafumani ngokwaneleyo ubisi lwebele , okanye kusenokuthetha into ebaluleke ngakumbi njengokugula, colic , okanye reflux. Kwaye, ke, ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho ubuhlungu, qhagamshelana nomntwana wakho kwangoko.
Imithombo:
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Lawrence, uRuth A., MD, Lawrence, uRobert M., MD. Ukusondeza isiKhokelo seNgcaciso yezoPhicongo. Elsevier Health Sciences. 2015.
Ehlelwe nguDonna Murray