5 Izipho ezichukumisayo kunye nezikhuthazayo zamaMama amaNICU

Izipho eziphezulu kwiintshaba kunye neentsapho zabo

Akukho nto enjengomntwana omtsha. Uvuyo emoyeni, ulindele ukumbona, ukubamba, nokumanga umntwana wakho osandul 'ukuzalwa okokuqala ngqa. Intsapho yakho kunye nabahlobo bakho balinde ngokunyamezela ukuba batyelele wena kunye nosana lwakho esibhedlele ngeentyantyambo, uvuyiswe amakhadi kunye neibhaluni ngesandla.

Kodwa kwenzeka ntoni xa umntwana wakho ezalwa ngaphambi kokudala okanye ufuna ukunakekelwa okhethekileyo kwiNICU ? Konke oku kukhawuleza kugqithise, kwaye uhlala uziva uwedwa kwaye unesabi .

Izinsuku zokuqala kwi-NICU ayinanto emfutshane yokusongela. Okungaziwa, yintoni-ukuba, kunye nokudideka malunga noko kuya kuza? Unemibuzo emininzi, kwaye intsapho yakho kunye nabahlobo bahlala besele benemibuzo emininzi. Baxhalabele ngawe, kwaye banenkxalabo malunga nosana lwakho. Bafuna ukukuxhasa, kodwa amaxesha amaninzi awazi ukuba njani. Ngamanye amaxesha uthetha izinto okanye izinto ezinokuthi zibe neenjongo ezilungileyo, kodwa kunokushiya uzive udidekile, wedwa, okanye uqondwa kakuhle.

Ngaba usapho kunye nabahlobo-ufanelekile "ukubhiyozela" ukufika kwangaphambili? Uyayivuma njani le mcimbi obalulekileyo, lo bomi obutsha obalulekileyo? Unceda njani abazali ukuba babhekane nokuzalwa komntwana kwi-NICU, kwaye unokwenza ntoni ukuba unganiki inkxaso kuphela kodwa unceda abazali ngokuhamba kweNICU? Ufuna ukwenza into; ufuna ukukukhathalela kwaye ucinga ngabo, kodwa njani kwaye njani?

Ukukhetha isipho esiluncedo nesisigxina kumzali omtsha we-NICU unokuba ngumngeni onzima. Ezi zilandelayo ziyakunceda ekukhokeleni kule nkqubo enzima.

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Uthando

Akukho nto ingcono kunokuba ubambe isikhumba esikhumbeni sakho kwinto ekuthiwa yiCangaroo Care. Le yinye yezinto ezimangalisa kwaye zikhululekile ngezipho kubazali beintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha. Nangona kunjalo, amancinci amancinci amancinci amancinci ahlinzekela ngokubonelela ngokufanelekileyo ukulungiselela ukunakekelwa kwesikhumba kwesikhumba. Isipho esinomdla kunye nesicatshulwa esivumela ukuba ixesha elihle kakhulu likakraoing lifumaneke apha.

Ukushiya umntwana kwi-NICU kwaye ukuphuma ngaphandle kweengcango zesibhedlele ngeengalo ezingenanto kungenye yezona zinto ezinomdla kunomama onokukwazi ukunyamezela. Akukho nto uyenzayo okanye oyenzayo inokuthabatha ubunzima obukhulu kwaye obungenakulinganiswa. Mbonise ukuba uyamkhathalela kwaye uyayiqonda ngesi sipho esichukumisayo senhliziyo esivumela isithoko somama ukuba sihlale kunye nosana lwakhe, ukukunceda ukuthuthuzela, ukuphilisa, kunye nokunciphisa xa engakwazi ukuba khona kwiNICU .

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Ithemba

Iincwadi zabazali:

Uhambo oluya kwiNICU lunokuba ngumngeni omkhulu kumoya; bengazi ukuba lindelwe ntoni okanye ikusasa elibambe likhulu kakhulu. Iincwadi ezibhaliwe ngabazali beintsana ezingaphambi kwexesha ezingazange zibe khona kuphela kodwa ziphume ngaphesheya zinokuba luncedo kwaye ziphilisa. Ezinye iincwadi ezikhuthazayo zifumaneka apha napha.

Iincwadi Kwiintsana:

Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bachitha iiyure nganye ngosuku ngalunye emntwaneni wabo, behleli, bethandaza, bebenxibelelana nosana lwabo. Izifundo zibonisa ukuba abazali ababethetha kakhulu kwiintshaba zabo babancedisa ukuphuhlisa ulwimi nolwazi lokuqonda. Ukuzalisa ibhasikidi ezele iincwadi ezinsana kuyisipho esihle, kungekhona nje kwiintsuku zeNICU zangaphambili kodwa ukuba neendaba ezinobuncwane nezibalulekileyo zibambe kuyo yonke yobuntwaneni. Iincwadi ezifana nalezi ziimbali ezimangalisayo kunye ezikhuthazayo zokubeletha iintsana zangaphambi kwexesha.

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Ukuphefumlelwa

Izipho ezithile ezicingayo nezikhunjulwayo ziquka umfanekiso ocacileyo onokusikisela, iingcaphuno ezikhuthazayo, iingcamango, okanye imibongo enceda ukuphakamisa imimoya njengoko abazali bejamelana neentsuku ezinzima. Amanqaku enkcenkcesha afana nalawa enza izipho ezincinane ezimangalisayo zinikela ukunyusa ukukhuthaza ukuqhubeka phambili, kunceda abazali ukuba bathathe olunye usuku ngexesha kwaye bagxininise kwizinto ezintle zohambo.

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Imemori

I- NICU ayisoze isicwangciso sokuzalwa somntu. Izipho zokuhlamba iimpahla ezincinane ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kunye neendawo zokubakho ngoku kufuneka zilinde. Imifanekiso "ye-Anne Geddes" imifanekiso esandulweyo esandulwayo sele ingekho, kwaye incwadana yentsana kwiimpapasho ezinkulu kunye neempumelelo zintsana zihlala zingenanto, njengoko uhambo oluya kwiNICU luhluke kakhulu nolusana olusanda kuzalwa.

Kodwa, oku akuthethi ukuba ezi zinto akufanele zivunywe okanye zibhiyozwe. Ukwenza ezi nkcukacha, zibaxabise, kwaye zirekhode zibaluleke kakhulu kwaye kwiminyaka ezayo, ziya kuba zezi zikhumbuzo eziza kubaluleka ubomi bonke.

Unokunceda Njani Abazali Ukuthatha Ezi Memori?

Ukufotshwa kwiintsuku zokuqala: Izibhedlele ezininzi zinika iifoto ezisandul 'ukuzalwa kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba umntwana usulungele ukukhutshwa kwiNICU. Ukufotola uhambo kunye nezinye iintsuku zokuqala kuya kunceda abazali ukuba bangazikhumbuli kuphela kodwa babhale ezinye zezinto ezibalulekileyo. Ukufumana i-photographer efana nale okanye le nto inokubamba ezi zihlandlo kwaye uncede ukurekhoda ezi zikhumbuzo isipho esibalulekileyo.

Izambatho zokuqala zeengcinezelo zingafika iintsuku, iiveki, okanye iinyanga emva kokuzalwa. Ukugqoka umntwana okokuqala ngenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kakhulu. Uncede abazali bawugubungele umzuzu ngeli shati okanye i-onsi engenasisiseko kuphela kodwa ingaba yinto yokuyeka, inceda ukukhumbula iintsuku zeNICU zangaphambili.

Uhambo lweentlobo . I-NICU inokuvelisa iimvakalelo abazali abangazange bazi ukuba zikhoyo, iimvakalelo ezinzulu kangangokuthi kuphela abo baye bahlala kuyo bayayiqonda ngokwenene. Ngaphandle kokungaqiniseki ukuhlala kwe-NICU, kunzima ukuthatha ixesha lokubhiyozela lo obomi ubomi. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuqaphela uhambo, iimvakalelo, ukufezekiswa, kunye nemigqaliselo enkulu, kwaye kubhiyozela bonke.

Kubazali, Uhambo lweentlobo:

• Xelela ibali lamandla, isibindi, ithemba, nokuphilisa.
• Uncedo lunciphisa ezinye iintlungu zentlungu ye-NICU, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalabisa.
• Ukubonelela ngeendlela zokurekhoda kunye nokwabela uhambo lwabo, ukunika ixesha kunye neendlela ezibonakalayo zokubhiyozela impumelelo nganye ebalulekileyo kwiindlela ezintle nezamandla.
• Buyisela umqondo wokuzimela, ukhuthaze ukuba baqhubekele, bazi ukuba abawodwa.
• Zithuthuzela ngexesha leengxaki kunye nomoya wokuvuyela uhambo lwabo.

Uhambo lwe-NICU Uhambo lunikeza indlela abazali ukuba baxelele ibali labo, ibali lezingane zabo, kwaye baqonde, barekhode, babhiyozele uhambo endleleni.

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Inkxaso

Masijamelane nayo. Ukuba awukho khona, awuyi kuqonda ngokwenene into efana nokuba nayo umntwana kwiNICU. Inkxaso evela kwalabo baye bahamba uhambo kwaye babekho apho banokwenza konke umehluko kwihlabathi. Finyelela kwezinye zala maqela okuba ngumzali wakho okanye ilungu lentsapho kwaye uqulunqe uluhlu lwewebsite njengolu okanye lo oza kunika inkxaso kwizinga lendawo okanye phantse. Ungakhokelela kwakhona iphakheji yomzali we-NICU apha. Qinisekisa umhlobo wakho ukuba akufanelekanga kuphela kodwa kuyimfuneko ukuthetha ngolu hambo kwaye ufuna inkxaso evela kwabo bafumanekayo ukuba banikele ngesandla esinokhokelo nesothando.

Gcina ukhumbule ukuba into enye into ongayenzayo inikeza inkxaso yakho. Ukwazi ukuba intsapho kunye nabahlobo banokhathalela ngokwenene banokwenza konke umehluko kwihlabathi kubazali abahamba ngenye yeendlela ezinzima zobomi babo.