Ngo-Oktobha 1, 2018 yi-Blue Shirt Day Day World of Bullying Prevention
Yinyani eyaziwayo ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kuyinkathazo ebuntwaneni kunye neminyaka yeshumi kubantwana abaninzi. Kukho iimeko ezininzi zezingane kunye nentsha ezenza ukuzibulala ngenxa yokuphelelwa ithemba ngenxa yokuqokwa kunye nokuxhatshazwa ngezizathu ezininzi. Ukuxhatshazwa Ngaphandle kokuxhaphazwa ngenye yemibutho esebenza kwimikhankaso yokuchasana nokuxhatshazwa, egxininisa abantwana esikolweni.
Ukuxhatshazwa akupheli xa kubuntwaneni, nangona kunjalo. Abafundi beKholeji, abantu abadala, abantu abadala nangakumbi abadala bangaba maxhoba yokuxhatshazwa, ngokukodwa ngokutsha kwe-cyberbullying. Akukho sizathu sokuba kutheni nabani na onokunyamezela olu hlobo lobubi, ukulimaza. Ukuba umntwana wakho-nokuba ngumdala wekholeji okanye kwilizwe elisebenzayo-ufumana uxhatshazo oluqhubekayo kunye nokuxhatshazwa, kukho amanyathelo athatyathekileyo okumisa le nyango.
Oko Abazali Bangakwenza
Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umdala wakho omdala uxhatshazwa:
- Fumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo kunye nolwazi olunzulu malunga nezinto ezixhatshazwayo - oku kuquka imihla, amaxesha, indawo, izenzo, njl. Qinisekisa ukuthatha iifowuni zohlaselo lweendaba zoluntu xa kunokwenzeka, kwaye ufumane ulwazi loqhagamshelwano kumntu onokuxhaphaza, kuquka iinkcukacha zentlalo yoluntu.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho osekhulile ekholeji usongelwe kumntu okanye kwi-inthanethi, qhagamshelana nomthetho.
- Fumana ikopi ye-kholeji yokuchasana nomgaqo-nkqubo wokuxhatshazwa ukuqinisekisa ukuba ugonyamelo uphule umgaqo-nkqubo wesikolo.
- Xoxa nomntwana wakho ukuba bafuna njani ukujongana nokuxhatshazwa. Bazise ukuba ukhona kuzo kwaye unqume ukuba bafuna uncedo lwakho. Unganqikazi ukukhangela umntwana wakho ukuba unomdla malunga neengqondo zabo, okanye ukufikelela kwi-school management. Wena ungummeli wakho omncinci kwiinkathazo.
Imiqondiso yokuxwayisa ukuba umntwana wakho uxhatshazwa:
- Ubona ukwesaba ukuya eklasini okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi ehleliweyo okanye kwiiklabhu zontanga
- Ulahlekile iklasi
- Akuchazekanga utshintsho kumabakala abo
- Uxakeka ngokukhawuleza kwaye utshintshe ukuzithemba kwabo
Njengomzali, kubalulekile ukuba:
- Bhekisela kwingxoxo oye wafunda kakhulu ngokuxhatshazwa nokuxhatshazwa kwe-intanethi kwiikholeji ngokungathi bayayazi nabani na kwiikholeji zabo ezinokuthi zenzeke kuzo.
- Qinisekisa umntwana wakho ukuba uyabathanda kwaye ukuxhatshazwa akuyiyo iphoso kunye nokuba uya kubanceda.
Ngokuvula ingxoxo malunga nokuxhatshazwa kunye nomntu osemdala, uya kumnika ithuba lokuxelela oko kwenzekile ebomini bakhe. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqaphele ukuba le nto ingaba yinto ehlazo neyantloni kunoma yimuphi umdala osemtsha ukuvuma, kodwa ukuthetha malunga nayo kuyimfuneko ukulungisa ingxaki phambi kokuba kwenzeke into enzima.
Ziziphi iilutsha eziseKholejini ezingakwenza
Yintoni ongayenza xa ubona iziganeko zokuxhatshazwa:
- Ungesabi ukubika - xelela umcebisi wesikolo okanye umcebisi ohlala kuzo kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba wabelane ngazo zonke iinkcukacha zenzeke.
- Mxhase umntu oxhatshazwayo. Yiba ngumhlobo, uhlale nabo kwiklasi, kwaye ubacele ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kuyo nayiphi na imisebenzi ye-campus. Ukuba ngumhlobo onokuqonda noxhasayo kunokuthetha kakhulu.
- Ukuba uziziva ukhuselekile kwaye ukhululekile, unokumelana nomxhaphazi - xelela umntu onokuxhaphaza ukuba oko benzayo kubalulekile kwaye akulungile. Nangona kunjalo, ungamcaphukisi umntu onokukhahlazela kuwe ngezenzo zakho. Unokuhlala uhamba kubaphathi kwi-campus uncedo kunokuba ulawulwe le meko ngokwakho.
Ukwandisa ngendlela exhasekileyo neyiyoyikugweba iya kumnika umntu uxhatshazwa ithuba lokuxelela uxhalabo kunye nokwesaba ngeemeko zabo. Nangona kubonakala kungenakunqweneleka ukubandakanyeka, ukunceda umntu ophathwa kakubi kuyinto efanelekileyo yokwenza, nangona kuhamba nje naye ukuya ekholeji yokucebisa iikholeji.
- Yazi ukuba akusiyo iphoso lakho kuba akukho mntu ufanelwe ukuxhatshazwa!
- Musa ukulwa nxamnye nomxhasi. Ngeke kubenze izinto zibe bhetele kwaye zingakufaka ingxaki.
- Ungalokothi ugcine into yokuba uxhatshazwa wena - xelela umngane okanye umcebisi ohlala kuyo. Akukho mfuneko yokuba ungakhathazeki ngokuvuma ukuba umntu uxhaphaza - nguxhaphalo ophuthayo, kungekhona wena.
- Qhagamshelana nesikolo ngexesha leeyure zokusebenza kunye nokucwangcisa i-aphoyintimenti okanye ukufowunela kwisebe elijongene nemicimbi yabafundi.
- Cacisa iinkcukacha, kungekhona kwintetho ebushushu, kodwa njengokungathi uxelela umngane okwenzekile.
- Xa udibana nelungu lokulawulwa kwesikolo, xelela ibali lakho uze ucele uncedo. Qinisekisa ukuba udibana neenkcukacha uze ushiye iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umxhaphazi uphule umgaqo-nkqubo wokuchasayo wesikolo, yibeke ngokuzeleyo kwingxoxo. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile ukuzisa umhlobo okanye ukukhuthaza kuwe nayiphi na intlanganiso apho uya kuxoxa ngeemeko zakho, unganqikazi ukucela oku kulawulo. Unelungelo lokuziva ukhuselekile ngexesha le ngxoxo.
- Musa ukunqumla iiklasi okanye naluphi na ugweba nabani na abahlobo okanye amaqela omfundi onokuba nawo - unelungelo elininzi lokuba khona njengalowo nawuphi na umntu.
- Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uvakalelwa kakubi kangakanani, ukuzilimaza okanye ukucinga ngokuzibulala akusiyo impendulo. Ukuba ikholeji yakho inomlingane / iqela lokuphulaphula okanye isikhungo sokucebisa, bathethe nabo kwaye ucele uncedo.
- Ukuba uthembisa ubudlelwane okanye ubuqili, qi Ukuba abayithethi, bathethe nomcebisi ohlala kuyo.
- Iikholeji zabafundi beekholeji zinokusebenza ngokunciphisa ukungabikho kokungakhuselekanga okunokubangela ukuziphatha kakubi kwikholeji kunye ne-cyberbullying ekolishi. Bangakwazi ukudala iinkqubo zokubandakanya abafundi abaninzi, njengendlela yokufunda ngokutsha, nokwenza abafundi baqonde ngemisebenzi eyahlukeneyo kunye neeklabhu ezinikezelwa kwikholejini. Le mi sebenzi igcina abafundi bekholejini abaxakekayo abangakhokelela ekuthintela ukuxhatshazwa kwikholeji.
NgoMvulo wokuqala wango-Oktobha abantwana, intsha kunye nabantu abadala banokuthatha inxaxheba kwi-BLUE SHIRT DAY DAY DAY OF BULLYING PREVENTION ngokufaka i-BLUE SHIRT.
Yisihlandlo apho wonke umntu enokugqoka iikhati elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka aze ahlangane ngokubambisana ukuze ayeke ukuxhatshazwa nokuxhatshazwa kwe-intanethi ngoMsombuluko wokuqala we-Oktobha wokuqala.