Ukuba ukhangele indlela yokunceda unobantwana bakho basekuqaleni bafumane abahlobo abatsha ngelixa befunda ubunzima bezentlalo ezibalulekileyo, i-playgroup (okanye i-playgroup) ingaba yinto yokujonga.
Iqela lokudlala okanye i-playgroup yintlanganiso yabantwana abaneminyaka elifanayo (okanye ubuncinci abantwana abasemgangathweni elifanayo leminyaka) kunye nomzali okanye umgcini. Iqela, elidibeneyo rhoqo kwikhaya lomntu okanye kwindawo eqhelekileyo njengepaki, ithala leencwadi, okanye indawo yoluntu, inokuluhlu ukusuka kwi-esemthethweni (njengeqela njengeMOPS) kwi-informal, kodwa intambo efanayo Banika abantwana kunye nabadala ithuba lokudibanisa kunye noluntu.
Ukusebenzisa iZakhono zoLuntu
Abantwana bafumana ithuba lokusebenzisa izakhono zabo zentlalo kwindawo ekhuselekileyo, eyaziwayo xa abantu abadala befumana ubuhlobo kunye nenkxaso kubantu abaqonda kakuhle oko bahambayo. Imisebenzi inokulungiswa kubantwana (njengengoma yengoma okanye ubugcisa), okanye banokuhlangana kunye ukuze badlale. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela kwangaphambili ixesha elo nxaxheba ngamnye efunayo kwiqela lokudlala. Abanye banokufuna isakhiwo esisemthethweni, kanti abanye bakhetha intlanganiso engaqhelekanga. Unxibelelwano luyintloko!
Ngokona nxalenye, amaninzi eqela lokudlala azama ukugcina abantwana abathatha inxaxheba kuwo wonke umlinganiselo wobudala obufanayo, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo akuyimfuneko. Kukho izizathu ezahlukeneyo zokuhlangana kwabantu ukudala okanye ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiqela lokudlala. Amanye amaqela adlalwayo ayenziwe nje ngabahlobo abaqhelekileyo abavela kwisikolo esifanayo okanye kwontlalontle; maxa wambi bahlanganiswa ngenxa yokuba abantu baphendule isikhangiso okanye babone i-flier; Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bafumanisa ukuba banomxholo ofanayo kunye ne- ADHD kunye nommandla wendawo yokudlala yinto enhle apho wonke umntu angaziva ekhululekile kwaye eyamkelwe.
Misela Imigaqo kunye neenjongo
Kubalulekile ngaphambi kokuba uqale okanye ujoyine iqela lokudlala oyaziyo ngeenjongo kunye nemithetho yeqela lokudlala (kunye nakwezinye iimeko, akukho nto okanye akukho ncinane kakhulu). Ukwazi ukuba zeziphi izikhokelo ezisisiseko phambi kwexesha (umzekelo - ukutyhulwa, ukufumana, indawo yokuhlangana, abazalwana abavunyelwe) kuya kunceda ukuphepha ukungaqondakali kwexesha elizayo kunye nomdlalo.
Ngokuxhomekeke kubukhulu beqela lokudlala, abazali bangasungula iminye imithetho yezenhlalakahle. Umzekelo:
- Ukuba kuqhutywe umcimbi wokuzalwa, ngaba bonke abantwana kufuneka bamenywe?
- Ukuba omnye wabathathi-nxaxheba unomhlobo okanye isihlobo esityelele ngexesha lokudlala, ngaba omnye umntwana uvunyelwe ukuba eze?
- Ngaba ukulahla kuvunyelwe kwiqela lokudlala okanye ngaba ngabazali okanye abanakekeli abafunekayo ukuba bahlale?
- Ziyiphi na ukungavumelani phakathi kweqela lokudlala?
- Ngaba kukho iimeko apho umntwana okanye umzali ecelwa ukuba ashiye umdlalo?
Le micimbi nayo iyakwazi ukuzikhangela ngokwayo xa ivela. Kuxhomekeka ngokukwenziwa kweqela kunye nendlela esesikweni ngayo malunga nokubeka imithetho.
Iidlali zihlukile kumhla wokudlala kuloo maqela okudlala adla ukudibana ngokuqhelekileyo, ngelixa ixesha lokudlala lidla nje lixesha elilodwa. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umhla wokudlala uphumelele, abazali bezingane abathatha inxaxheba, banokuqwalasela ukumema abanye abahlobo nokuqalisa iqela lokudlala.
Ukuba ucinga ukuqala iqela lakho lokudlala, khangela indlela yokuqalisa i-Presgroup Playgroup ukuze ufumane amanye amathiphu, amacebo kunye neengcebiso.
Eyaziwayo njenge: Playgroup, iqela lokudlala