Ndiyakuvuyela, ungumzali oneminyaka emine ubudala! Abantwana abaneminyaka emine baphila ubomi ngokuzeleyo, okwenza ukuba baninzi amathuba okufunda, ukudlala nokukhula. Njengoko unyaka ngamnye ngaphambi kwalo, unyaka wesihlanu ebomini bomntwana wakho ugcwele umxholo wokufunda kunye nophuhliso ngokomzimba, emoyeni, kuluntu, nangaphezulu. Olu luhlu lubandakanya ezinye zezinto eziqhelekileyo eziqhutyelwayo ezineminyaka emine ubudala.
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Umzali oneminyaka eli-4 ubudalaKubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, ngelixa ezi zikhokelo, ngamnye umntwana ukhula ngokwahlukileyo kunye nezantyabo. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezahlukileyo xa kuziwa ngendlela kunye nesantya umntwana aqhubeka ngayo, ukusuka kwinani labantwana bakowenu ukuya kwantoni na ukuba umntwana ahlalisane nabanye, kumava obomi. Ukuba unemibuzo okanye ixhala malunga nommandla wophuhliso lomntwana wakho, qhagamshelana nomntwana wakho, uthisha wasesikolweni okanye umboneleli wezinsuku, okanye omnye uchwephesha ophuhliso lwabantwana bokuqala.
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Uphuhliso loLuntu kunye nolwaMoya kwi-Old Age 4Uza kuqaphela ukuba wakho oneminyaka emine ubudala uqala ukuvuthwa kokubini nakwimvakalelo, nangona kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba uzama ukufumana intetho kwiimvakalelo zakhe. Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhabalaza kuya kuba yinto encinci kangako njengoko umntwana wakho efunde ukuxhatshazwa kweendlela, kodwa isiganeko esibalulekileyo sempilo, njengokuhamba, umtshato okanye ukuzalwa komntakwenu kunokusichaphazela iimvakalelo zomntwana kunye nokuziphatha kwayo. Gcina loo nto engqondweni xa ubona nayiphi na utshintsho kwimeko yomntwana wakho. Nangona abantu abadala abathembekileyo (umama, utata nootatomkhulu), basengumthombo oyintloko wokusebenzisana komntwana wakho, iimbono zabahlobo kunye neontanga ziqala ukuba zibaluleke ngakumbi.
Nantsi enye into onokuyilindela ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhlisweni kwezenhlalakahle nakwimvakalelo evela kumntwana oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala:
- Unokuqonda ngakumbi iimvakalelo zakhe, ukuba abanye bazive nabo, kwaye iimvakalelo zomntu zithile kwimeko ingafani naleyo.
- Nangona abanye abaneminyaka engama-4 bengavuyiswa ngcamango yokuhlukana nomzali okanye umnakekeli , banokulawula ukucinezeleka kwabo.
- Phantse zonke iziganeko zokudlala ngokufanayo (ababini okanye abathathu abantwana badlala ngecala kunokuba bahambisane) baye bahamba. Ukudlala ngokubambisana nabanye abantwana kuhlanganiswe ngokupheleleyo.
- Iba ngcono xa isombulula ingxaki kwaye inokuphatha kakuhle indlela yokufaka isisombululo esiza kubakholisa bonke abantu (okanye ubuncinane bazama ukuya).
- Ukuseka ubuhlobo bokwenene, unokufumana "umhlobo ongcono."
- Ukukhulisa uvelwano, kwaye uzama ukuthuthuzela umntu ocaphukile.
- Usakhangeleka kumntu omdala othembekileyo ukuba ancede xa kufuneka.
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Uphuhliso loCognitive kwi-Old Age 4Njengomntwana oneminyaka engama- 3 , ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo eneminyaka engama-4 akukhona nje ngokufunda iinjongo kunye neziseko zezemfundo. Ukufunda kubantwana beli minyaka livulela ukufunda malunga nokufunda-indlela yokubuza imibuzo kunye nendlela yokuqhuba ulwazi ekuqondeni. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-4 unokuba nemibuzo emininzi ongayenza okanye awukwazi ukuphendula . Into ebalulekileyo kukukhumbula ukuba uyimodeli yomntwana wakho, ngoko ke ukuba awukwazi into ethile, bonisa umntanakho ukuba kubalulekile ukungayeki kwaye uchaze ukuba unokuzama ukufumana impendulo kunye. A
Nantsi enye into onokuyilindela ngokubhekiselele ekuphuculweni kwengqondo kwi-4 yakho ubudala:
- Uphuhliso lolwimi luqhuma. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 kufuneka aqonde amagama angama-2 000 kwaye angeze malunga namazwi amane ukuya ezintandathu ngosuku.
- Ukwanda kwimiba. Umntwana wakho kufuneka akwazi ukuhlala ixesha elide kwaye ugxininise oko kuthethwayo-ingakumbi ukuba kukho into ebathandayo.
- Unokuzibekela iinjongo zakhe-ukukhwela ivili-ezimbini, ufunde ukupompa i-swing, njl.
- Unqwenela ukwenza izigqibo ngokwakhe, kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo zifanelekile, njengokukhetha iingubo zakhe okanye ukukhetha i-snack.
- Uvakalisa umdla ekuzameni into entsha, ingaba into ayibonile, ifunda malunga nencwadi, okanye yabonwa kumabonwakude.
- Mhlawumbi bangabandakanyeka kwisihloko esisodwa apho kufuneka bafunde yonke into malunga nesi sihloko, baze batshintshele kwinto entsha.
- Uqala ukubonisa umdla ekufundeni iincwadi kunye nokuchonga abo egameni lakhe.
- Ucela uncedo xa kuyimfuneko, kodwa kwakhona unokufumana ingcamango entle yintoni isisombululo esifanele sibe nayo.
- Ngaba unakho ukuthetha amazwi.
- Unokuzibuyisela ngokuchaneka ngokuchanekileyo ibali eliyintandokazi.
- Ubonisa umdla kumfundi ngokubanzi.
- Mhlawumbi unokukwazi ukwenza iileta nakwezinye iileta ezisezantsi.
- Ukuba umntwana ubhala amagama, ngokuqhelekileyo akukho zithuba phakathi kwazo.
- Ungabhala ngasekhohlo ukuya ngasekunene, kwaye phezulu-kuya kwezantsi, nangona ukuba umntwana uphuma egumbini, kuya kubhalwa iileta apho zifanele khona.
- Ukuqonda umahluko phakathi kweeleta kunye namanani.
- Mhlawumbi unokukwazi ukuvalela izandi zandi.
- Ininzi inokuthi ibe ngama-10, kwaye iyakwazi ukuchonga iinombolo ngokulandelelana.
- Uyakuqonda iingcamango zamanani - ukuba inomboro yesine imele iintyatyambo ezine okanye iibhola ezine.
- Uyakwazi ukufanisa izinto ezilinganayo nobukhulu.
- Gcwalisa iphazili engama-20.
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Ukuphuhliswa Kwezinto Zomzimba kwi-Old Age 4Njengoko uneminyaka engama-4 ubudala ekhula ngokwenyama, akayi kukhula nje kuphela, kodwa ufumana ingxaki engcono kwizakhono zakhe eziphambili kunye nezityebileyo . Umntu oneminyaka engama-4 uyaqhubeka nokufunda malunga nendlela yokulawula umzimba wakhe kwaye kungenzeka ukuba azame izinto ezintsha njengoko ziphumelela.
Nantsi enye into onokuyilindela ngokubhekiselele ekuphuculeni ngokomzimba wakho oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala:
Zakhono zoLuntu
- Unokulinganisela kunye nokulawula xa uhamba, ugijima, ugxuma, ugoba, usuqa kwaye uhamba.
- Ngaba uyazi indawo yakhe kwindawo kwaye akanakwenzeka ukuba aqhube kwabanye xa ehamba.
- Unokubamba ibhola elikhulu.
- Unokudambisa ibhola lebhola.
- Kuphuculwe ukulungelelanisa isandla, oko kubangela ukuba ukwazi ukugqiba iipuzzle, iintambo zokutya kunye nokunye.
- Unokunqumla umgca ngeesisi.
UkuPhuhliswa koMzimba
- Uyakuqonda kwaye ulandele (ngaphandle kokucelwa) imigaqo yokhuseleko njengokuba, "Ungachukumisi isitofu, kushushu!" okanye "Sidinga ukubamba izandla kwibala lokupaka."
- Unxibe uqobo .
- Unokuhlamba izandla .
- Unokuqhaqha amazinyo ngokucwangcisa.
- Ilungile-okanye ikhohlo.
- Ungasebenzisa izitsha ngaphandle koncediso.
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Uphuhliso loLwimi kwi-Old Age 4Abantwana abaneminyaka emine baziwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuba yibhokisi leengxoxo, njengoko ulwimi lwabo lukhula (oko bathethayo noko baqondayo) ngezinga elimangalisayo. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-4 kufuneka abe namazwi angama-2 500-3000 awaqondayo ngosuku lwakhe lwesibini lokuzalwa. Ngosuku lwakhe lwesihlanu lokuzalwa, liya kuba ibhaluni kuma-5,000. A
Ukuze uncede wakho oneminyaka emine ubudala aqhubeke nale ndlela, qhubeka ukhuluma! Phendula nayiphi na imibuzo (nangona ungayazi iimpendulo), funda, uze ufundele ukuba ucinga ngamagama ngokumbuza imibuzo malunga noko ubonayo nokwenzayo.
Nantsi enye into onokuyilindela ngokubhekiselele ekuphuculweni kolwimi nokuthetha ngomntu oneminyaka engama-4 ubudala:
- Umyinge oneminyaka emine ubudala ufunda amagama amane ukuya kwamathandathu amatsha ngosuku.
- Ufunda amagama ngokuwavalela kumxholo kwaye asebenzise loo nto kwingxoxo yabo.
- Kwakhona ufumana amagama avela kwiincwadi zokuvava ngokuvakalayo.
- Unokuqala ukuqonda ixesha ngokubanzi- iintsuku zeveki kunye neenyanga zonyaka .
- Unokulandela izikhombisi-ndlela ezininzi - "Yiya ekhitshini, zithathe izihlangu zakho uze uzizise kum."
- Sebenzisa umthamo ofanelekileyo xa uthetha.
- Unokuxelela ibali elipheleleyo elinengqiqo.
- Aphazamisi ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
- Uyakuqonda imigaqo yengxoxo (linda ukuthetha de kube omnye umntu eyekile ukuthetha), kwaye uyakwazi ukuwalandela.
- Unokuhlala ngesihloko kwincoko, kodwa rhoqo ujika ingxoxo kuye.
- Ngaba uyathetha kakuhle kwifowuni.
- Unesibambo esihle kakhulu kwisakhiwo semigwebo - sinokuthetha ngezivakalisi ezinzima.