Kuyixesha lokukhula, ukuhlola, kunye nobuchule
Othe wathetha izinto ezilungileyo zenzeke kwiethathu kufuneka ukuba wayecinga ngomntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Akusekho umntwana kodwa kungeyena umntwana omkhulu (ngokuqinisekileyo ungamxeleli umntwana wakho ukuba), uneminyaka emithathu ubudala ngumnandi wokubumba, ubunkani, ukuqonda, ukuzimela, ukuhleka nokunye. Ukuzala umntwana oneminyaka emithathu akuyinto nje oyenzayo imihla ngemihla, kufana nokuba yonke imihla yintengiso.
Kumanqanaba amaninzi amaninzi, umntwana wakho ukhula kwaye utshintsha lonke ixesha-ngamanye amaxesha ngokufanelekileyo phambi kwamehlo akho. Bayakwazi ukunxibelelana ngakumbi kunye nokukhululeka okukhulu, baqala ukufumana ukulawula okungcono imizimba yabo, kwaye ukucinga kwabo okuqhubekayo kufumana ubuninzi obuninzi ngemini.
Ngoko ungalindela ntoni? Ngokuqinisekileyo into eyahlukileyo ngexesha lonke, kodwa kukho ezinye izinto eziphambili kunye nezakhono onokuthi umncinane wakho kufuneka azifundele kwaye asebenze kule minyaka.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngamnye umntwana uhlukile kwaye ukhula ngokwayo. Ngoxa ezi zinto ziqhelekileyo, nazo zikhokelo nje. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba umntwana wakho uyasweleka kwindawo ethile, ingaba yinto efanelekileyo ukujonga kunye nodokotela wezilwanyana.
Uphuhliso loLuntu kunye nolwaMoya kwi-Olds-Olds
Intuthuko yezenhlalakahle kunye nomoya ingenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zokukhula komntwana wakho. Kwakhona kubangela ezinye zezona zinto zizama kakhulu.
Ukuqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqhaqha ukukhawuleza kule minyaka njengoko umntwana wakho efunda ukujongana neemeko ezixinzelelekileyo. Kwaye, ngelixa kusekho umntu omdala okhethekileyo ebomini bomntwana wakho ongathandanga ukuyeka emehlweni akhe, abaneminyaka engama-3 banokuqala ukuhlakulela ubuhlobo bokwenene nabahlobo abatsha (kunye namaxesha athile bacinga ).
Kubalulekile ukunyamekela ingqalelo intuthuko yengqondo yomntu kunye nentlalo. Uninzi lwezinto ezisemgangathweni lubekwa ngoku ngokuya kunceda umntwana wakho abhekane neemvakalelo ezinzima njengoko zikhula.
Ezentlalontle kunye neengqondo
- Uqala ukuqonda iimvakalelo, zombini kunye nabanye. Oku kunokuba ngokubona umntu ebonisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngento ethile kumntu okanye kumabonwakude okanye ngokufunda incwadi. Angasebenzisa amagama anlula athi "Ndiyadumala !," "Ndibuhlungu!" Okanye "Ndivuyayo!" ukukwazisa indlela azivakalelwa ngayo.
- Usenokuba engafuni ukwahlukana nomzali okanye umkhathaleli , nokuba ngaba bahlala kwindawo abazijwayele ngayo.
- Esikhundleni sokwenza ngokusemzimbeni (athi ngokushaya ) xa ekhungathekile, unokusebenzisa amagama akhe.
- Uqala ukubonisa uvelwano xa omnye umntu ephazamisekile okanye ephazamisekile kwaye unokuzama ukuthuthuzela loo mntu.
- Endaweni yokwenza umdlalo olufanayo (ababini okanye abathathu abantwana badlala ngecala kunokuba bahlangane), unokuqala ukudlala ngokubambisana nabanye abantwana nokuhlakulela ubuhlobo.
- Uqala ukubonisa izinto ezikhethiweyo zezinto kwaye uyazi ukuba yeyiphi na.
- Unokuqala ukuloba xa ecinga ukuba "uphoswe" ngomnye umntwana okanye umntakwabo.
- Unokuqala ukwabelana kwaye uphenduke, nangona akanako ukuthanda ngaso sonke isikhathi.
- Uya kukopisha izenzo kunye neempawu zabanye, ingakumbi abantwana.
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kwi-Olds-Olds
Ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kumntwana oneminyaka engama-3 akukhona nje ukufunda i-alfabhethi okanye indlela yokubala. Ivelisa yonke inkqubo yokufunda yokwazisa ulwazi, okuquka ukubuza imibuzo, nokucwangcisa ulwazi nokuqonda.
Abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu bafana neziponti kwaye bafumana yonke into ejikeleze kuyo. Umsebenzi wethu njengabazali ukubancedisa ukuba bazi ntoni na loo ngcaciso. Umntwana lo mdala unako ukuhlala uhleli kwaye ugxininise ixesha elide, uvumele ukuba bathathe okungaphezulu. Abantwana kule minyaka banokubuza, ngoko balindela imibuzo eninzi.
Izinto ezibalulekileyo
- Kufanele abe nokuqonda kakuhle ulwimi kwaye unokuthetha nokuqonda okungenani amagama angama-300.
- Akayi kuphelelwa lula. Ukuba umdlalo unzima okanye ukuba i-block tower ihlala iwa, lindela ukuba umntwana wakho azame ukufumana isisombululo.
- Icela imibuzo emininzi kwizifundo ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko ekhula, le mibuzo iya kuba yinkcazo ngakumbi kwaye ibonise umdla wokwenene kulo mbandela.
- Uya kucela kwaye amkele uncedo ukuba uyayidinga.
- Ikhumbula iziganeko kwixesha elisedlulileyo, ngokuyinhloko izolo kunye nosuku olungaphambili. Kusenokuba mhlawumbi beveki edlulileyo ukuba imeko ibalulekile ngokwaneleyo.
- Ibandakanya ukuzenza udlala .
- Unokubala ukuya kwiintlanu kwaye uya kuba nako ukunika amanani kwizinto ezithile, umzekelo, ukubala amaqhosha amathathu. Mhlawumbi akanako ukufumana iinombolo kumxholo wokubala.
- Kufuneka sikwazi ukuchonga izinto ngobukhulu-encinci, obuphakathi, nangaphezulu ngokomzekelo. Oku kubonisa ukwanda kokwazisa kwendawo.
- Gcwalisa iipuzzle ezilula eziphakathi kweenxalenye ezili-10 no-25.
- Uchonga imilo elula (isangqa, isikwere, unxantathu, umxube) kunye nemibala engundoqo.
- Uthi iilfabhethi, nangona akakwazi ukufumana iileta ngamnye.
- Unokuhlela nokudibanisa izinto ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanywa nesimo, ubungakanani, umbala, njl.
- Ngaba uhlakulela ukuhlaziywa kwaye uya kuhleka ngamahlaya alula. Ngamana unokuzama ukuzithetha yena ngokwakhe, nangona baninzi abanako ukuqonda.
- Izakhono zokuqiqa ziphuhliswa nangona zibancinci.
UkuPhuculwa kweMvelo kwi-Olds-Olds
Ukuphuhliswa ngokomzimba komntwana oneminyaka emithathu kuqukwa kakhulu. Hayi nje kuphela indlela ekhula ngayo ngokuphakama nobunzima, kodwa ukulungiswa kakuhle kwezakhono eziphambili kunye nezixhobo ezifanelekileyo . Njengazo zonke ezinye izinto, ukuphumelela kwezi zakhono kuya kuhluka ngumntwana kunye nokukwazi kwabo nobukhulu babo.
Njengoko uneminyaka engama-3 ubudala ukhula, ufunda ngomzimba wakhe kunye nendlela yokulawula ngayo. Ukulinganisela kwakhe kuya kuphucula kwaye, ngokusebenza, uya kukwazi ukwenza izinto awazange akwazi ukuzenza ngaphambili.
KwiZakhono zoPhuhliso
- Ngaba unengqondo engcono yokulinganisela kuyo yonke into ayenzayo, kuquka ukuhamba, ukugijima, ukuxumla, njl.
- Unokungena ngeenyawo ezimbini kwaye unokukwazi ukuma okanye udibanise unyawo olunye.
- Unokuphelela ecaleni lakhe kwaye unokukwazi ukuguqula i-somersault.
- Unokubamba ibhola elikhulu iphoswe ngokukhawuleza ngezandla zayo.
- Unokukhaba ibhola ibanga elincinane (ubuncinane ubuncinane ezintlanu).
- Unako ukuhamba ngesantya.
- Unokuhamba umgca, ukulinganisela kwibhola elisezantsi, yeqa okanye udibanise, uze uhambe ngasemva.
Izakhono zoBuchule beZakhono
- Uphuhlisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi. Ngokomzekelo, unako ukudibanisa i-bead chunky, isinkwa sebhotela kunye nekhanga elimnyama, kwaye uguqule amaphepha encwadi ngaphandle kokuwaqhawula.
- Kufuneka bakwazi ukuthulula i-liquide kwisitya esinye kwenye (kunye nokuhlamba).
- Imidwebo ingabandakanyi "abantu," nangona ingaba ziintloko ezinkulu kuphela ngeengalo nemilenze. Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula, ezinye iinkcukacha (iziglasi, iinwele, iimpahla) ziya kwongezwa.
- Ngokuziqhelanisa, unokukwazi ukusebenzisa i-schunors ye-safety chunky.
- Ubambe isixhobo sokubhala ngeminwe yakhe, kungekhona yakhe intonga.
- Unokuqala ukubonisa ukhetho lokusebenzisa isandla sokunene okanye sasekhohlo.
- Unokwakha ithala lebhokisi.
UkuPhuhliswa koMzimba
- Ngaba uya kuqonda imithetho ekhuselekileyo yokhuseleko njengokuba, "Ungachukumisi isitofu, kushushu!" okanye "Sidinga ukubamba izandla kwibala lokupaka."
- Unokuziphazamisa kwaye unokukwazi ukubeka iinqununu ezithile zokugqoka njengebhola okanye iifutshane.
- Unokuhlamba izandla .
- Unokuqala ukubonisa iimpawu zokulungela ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi okanye ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi, nangona izingozi kunye nokulala kwamanzi kuya kusasazeka .
- Kufuneka akwazi ukuxubha amazinyo kwithuba elincinane.
Uphuhliso loLwimi kwi-Olds-Olds
Ngaba uke wathanda indlebe yakho? Yilungele, kuba njengomzali oneminyaka engama-3 ubudala, mhlawumbi awuzukufumana igama ngokukhawuleza ixesha.
Umncinci wakho makabe sele anamazwi angaba ngu-300 kwisigxina sakhe somlomo kwaye mhlawumbi uyaziqonda okungaphezulu koko. Akufanele nje ukuba umntwana wakho akhulume ngezivakalisi ezilula, ukuqonda kwakhe kukhula kwaye kuqina ngakumbi imihla ngemihla.
Ukumnceda aqhubeke ethetha nokuqonda, into enokuyenza yinto yokubandakanya umntwana wakho kwingxoxo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Phendula imibuzo yakhe uze ucele ezimbalwa. Funda lonke ixesha kwaye uhlale uthatha incoko ukuya kumgangatho olandelayo. Ukuba ubona inja, thetha ngoluphi uvalo, apho luhlala khona, yintoni umbala, njl.
IiLwimi eziPhambili
- Unokuqonda amagama angaphezulu kwamawaka angamawaka ngosuku lwakhe lwesithathu lokuzalwa. Ngokomyinge, ufunda amagama amane amatsha ngosuku. Ngosuku lwakhe lwesine lokuzalwa, kufuneka aqonde amagama angama-3 000 ukuya kuma-4,000 amatsha. (Inani lamagama umntwana aqondayo lihlala likhulu kunani lamagama abasebenzisa kwingxoxo.)
- Unakho ukukhumbula intsingiselo yelizwi xa uyichazela yona, kodwa unokukwazi ukuchazela intsingiselo kumxholo wendawo.
- Izakhono zokuphulaphula ziyanda kakhulu. Unokuqonda kwaye alandele izikhombisi-ndlela ezininzi ezifana nokuthi, "Yiya ekamelweni lakho, fumana izicathulo zakho uze uzizise kum."
- Unwabela ukuphulaphula iincwadi kwaye usenokuzama "ukulifunda" yedwa.
- Unokuba neengxaki zokulinda ithuba lakhe kwincoko, ngokukodwa kwi-setting setting, ngoko uphazamisa rhoqo.
- Uqala iingxoxo.
- Unokuyigcina ingxoxo echaphazelekayo kwizinto ezixubushayo, nangona ngezinye ixesha uya kuhamba kwi-tangent.
- Ngona nxalenye, ineminyaka engama-3 ubudala inokuqondwa ngumntu ongekho nabo imihla ngemihla.
- Ungasebenzisa izivakalisi ngokuchanekileyo.
- Unamagama okanye amagama eetekethi kuwo wonke umntu obalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.
- Ucela imibuzo eninzi kwaye uya kuphendula impendulo xa umbuza umbuzo.
Ukuphuhliswa kobuGcisa kwi-Olds-Olds
Ufuna ukubona ukucinga emsebenzini? Zichitha ixesha kunye neqela le (okanye nokuba lilodwa) abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Abantwana kule minyaka banomdanco obalaseleyo wenzondelelo kunye nolwazi lwendalo oluboleka kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwabo bokudala.
Isibalulekileyo kukukhuthaza umncinane wakho njengoko eqhuba ingcinga yokudala. Ubunono kunye nokucinga kuya kunceda umntwana wakho njengoko afunda ingxaki ekujongeni kwaye aqikelele oko kuya kwenzeka.
Ubuqili abuyi kuvela nje ngemibala okanye ubugcisa nemisebenzi, nokuba kunjalo. Kubonakala kuyo yonke indawo, kubandakanya umdlalo , ukuba umntwana wakho ukhetha njani iimpahla zakhe, nokuba zidla njani ukutya kwazo. Kuyacaca ukuba kukho imida oyakufuna ukuyifaka, kodwa ubuchule kubantwana abancinci bangabonakalisa kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga ngamanye amaxesha.
Amandla amakhulu
- Uyaqonda ukuba unokudala into emele enye into. Kungenzeka udwebe umfanekiso wento okanye isakhiwo into ethile eneebhloko okanye ezinye izinto.
- Izakhono zezakhono ezintle ziphuhliswa, ngoko ke abantwana banokukhungatheka okokuqala ngethuba izakhono zabo zilahla emva kokuba zifane neentloko zabo.
- Unomdla ngokufunda izinto ezintsha kwaye uya kubathatha njengento yokugxila ekubuzeni imibuzo.
- Ingaba yinto ephazamisayo njengoko idala, ngokukodwa ngezobugcisa ezithile kunye neeprojekthi zobugcisa.
- Unokuba neengxaki zokuhlukanisa phakathi kwezinto eziyinyaniso kunye neengcamango ngamanye amaxesha, nangona oku kuya kutshintsha xa ekhula.
- Uya kutshintshwa yinto ebaluleke kakhulu kuye. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba isikolo sokufunda esikolweni sifuna ukubukela uMickey Mouse, ezininzi izinto zakhe zokudala ziya kuba malunga nomxholo ofanayo.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ezi zigugu zentuthuko ayilwanga kwilitye. Wonke umntwana uyingqayizivele kwaye umncinci wakho akanako ukufikelela kuzo zonke ezi zingama-3 ubudala, okanye unokuhlakulela ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nentetho yakho kunye nezingane zabo okanye ootitshala bezikole.