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Ukubetha ngumntwana wakho kunokukhathazeka, kukuhlazisa, nokucaphukisa. Kwaye nabazali abathile, kubangela ukuhlazeka kunye nokuphazamiseka.
Abazali abaninzi banenkxalabo yokuba ukugwenxa komntwana kubo kufuneka bathethe ukuba bahluleki njengabazali. Abanye banentloni ukucela uncedo.
Kodwa phantse bonke abantwana bebetha ngexesha elinye. Indlela oya kuphendula ngayo ukushaya iya kuba nefuthe ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuphinda aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde aphinde ahlawule
Izizathu ze Kids Kids
Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba abantwana bebetha abazali babo. Ngamanye amaxesha baxakeka xa bethuka ngenxa yokuba abaqinisekanga ukuba bangahlangabezana njani neemvakalelo zabo ngendlela eyamkelekileyo yentlalo.
Abanye abantwana bayabetha ngenxa yokuba bengakwazi ukulawula . Bashaya ngaphandle kokucinga ngemiphumo okanye ezinye iindlela zokufumana iimfuno zabo.
Ukutshaya nako kunokusetyenziswa njengethuluzi lokuxhaphaza. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bazama ukuzama ukufumana indlela yabo. Umntwana oshaya unina xa ethi ayikho unokuthembela ukuba ugonyamelo luya kutshintsha ingqondo yakhe.
Ukuseka iMithetho malunga nokuLa
Yenza imithetho yasekhaya ejongene nenhlonipho. Yenza kucacile ukuba ukubetha, ukukhaba, ukunxuma, okanye izenzo zobudlova akuvumelekanga ekhaya lakho.
Hlela imithetho yakho ngendlela enhle xa kunokwenzeka. Endaweni yokuthi, "Musa ukutshitshisa," tshela, "Sebenzisa okuchukumisayo." Thetha nomntwana wakho ngemithetho ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyaqonda imiphumo yokuphula imithetho.
Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuziphatha Okufanelekileyo
Akwanele ukuba uxelele abantwana, "Musa ukubetha." Fundisa umntwana wakho ubuchule bokulawula umsindo . Khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba afunde incwadi, athathe umfanekiso, athabathe umoya ophezulu okanye angene egumbini lakhe xa evekile.
Fundisa umntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo , ezifana nokudakumba nokukhungatheka.
Xoxa ukubaluleka kokujongana nale mvakalelo ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye uncede umntwana wakho athole iindlela ezimnceda ukujamelana neemvakalelo zakhe ngokukhuselekileyo.
Xa umntwana wakho ekushaya, tshela ngokuqinisekileyo, "Musa ukubetha. Ukubetha buhlungu. "Gcina imiyalezo yakho ihambelana nokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba ukushaya akuvumelekanga kwaye awuyi kuwubekezelela.
Ukubonelela ngeziphumo ezicacileyo zokuhlawula
Ukubonelela ngesiphumo esicacileyo ngasinye sihlandlo. Khangela iziphumo eziya kumvimbela ukuba aphinde aphanye.
Kwabanye abantwana, ixesha lokuphuma liyindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokubavimbela ukuba bangabetha kwakhona. Ixesha lokufunda lifundisa abantwana indlela yokuzinqabisa phantsi kwaye ibasuse kwindawo yendalo.
Abanye abantwana bangadinga imiphumo eyongezelelweyo. Ukuthabatha amalungelo kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqeqesha . Nciphisa ukufikelela komntwana wakho kwiikhompyutheni okanye kwiimpawu ezithile zokudlala iiyure ezingama-24.
Ukubuyisela kunokuba luncedo ngokunjalo. Yenza umntwana wakho enze umsebenzi owongezelelweyo okanye enze ukuba udwebe umfanekiso njengendlela yokulungisa.
Ukuba umntwanakho uyakubetha ngokukhawuleza, jongana neengxaki ngenkqubo yomvuzo . Mvuza umntwanakho ngenxa yokusebenzisa "uthabatha ngokukhawuleza." Ukwaphule imini ibe ngamaxesha amaninzi apho unokufumana amanqaku okanye iimpawu zokuziphatha kakuhle.
Mdumise umntwana wakho rhoqo xa esebenzisa ngokuchukumisayo. Xa ekugubungela, yenza iphuzu ukumxelela ukuba unomdla othandekayo onjengeentsimbi. Ukuba uyasabela ngokufanelekileyo xa umxelela, hayi, umdumise.
Gwema u kuhlwaywa
Ukuba usebenzisa i-spanking njengesijeziso, umntwana wakho uya kudideka malunga nesizathu sokuba uvunyelwe ukushaya kwaye akakho. Abantwana bafunda ngakumbi malunga nokuziphatha kwizinto abazibonayo wena, kunokuba bakuva ntoni.
Indlela yokuziphatha ehloniphayo . Bonisa umntanakho indlela yokujongana nomsindo, ukudana , nokudumala kwiindlela ezifanelekileyo zoluntu.
Funa UluNcedo lwezakhono
Ukuba unomntwana osekhulile okushaya, okanye unomntwana okhuselekileyo okanye unomntwana okhuselekileyo, funa uncedo lobuchwepheshe .
Xoxa nodokotela wengane yomntwana malunga neenkxalabo zakho. Udokotela wakho wezilwanyana angabhekisela kumntwana wakho ukuvavanya ukuze ancede ukuba achaze isizathu sokugonywa kunye nesicwangciso sokujongana nayo.
Ngamanye amaxesha iingxaki ezinokubangela ingcinezelo kubantwana . Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abane- ADHD okanye inkcaso yokuchasana neengxaki ezingenanto bayakwazi ukuwa. Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana abaneenkqubela-zengqondo okanye ukuphuculwa kokuphuculwa kunokuhlaselwa ngenxa yokuba abanako ukusebenzisa amagama abo okanye ukulawula iimpembelelo zabo.
> Imithombo
> I-American Academy Yomntwana Nengane Yengqondo Yengqondo Yengqondo Yomntwana: I-Violent Conduct in Children and Adolescents.
> I-American Academy ye-Pediatrics: Umntwana okhutheleyo.
> I-HealthyChildren.org: Ukuziphatha okubuhlungu