Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kwimfundo yabantwana kunenzuzo enkulu. Nayi imiphumo abaphandi abayifumene ngokubanzi.
Ukubandakanya Kukhuthaza Ukuphumelela Kwezemfundo
Uphando oluninzi lufumene ukuba abantwana benza ngcono kwisikolo xa abazali babo bebandakanya umsebenzi wabo wesikolo. Xa kuthelekiswa nabafundi abanabantwana abavumiyo, abantwana ababandakanyekayo nabafundi bafumana amabakala angcono kwaye bacinga ukuba baninzi kakhulu ootitshala.
Ezi ziphumo zihlala kwixesha elizayo, nangona ngaba abazali bengabandakanyeki kangako njengeminyaka eminyaka. Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kwimisebenzi esekelwe kwizikolo kubonakala kunemiphumo enkulu kumabakala abantwana, kodwa ukubandakanyeka kwabazali basekhaya kubandakanya ubuncinane indima ethile. Abazali ababandakanyekayo banokuphucula ukusebenza kwezikolo ngeendlela eziliqela, kubandakanywa nokukhuthaza ukuqhelaniswa nokufunda nokukhuthaza ukuzithoba , isakhono esibalulekileyo ekuphumeleleni kwesikolo.
Ukuya kuPhucula
Abantwana abazali babo ababandakanyeka emsebenzini wabo wesikolo baya esikolweni rhoqo rhoqo kunabantwana abazali babo abangazange bavulwe. Oku kwenzeka mhlawumbi ngenxa yezizathu ezininzi. Enye, abazali ababandakanyekayo baxabisa kakhulu isikolo kwaye bakhuthaze ukuhamba ngokuqhubekayo. Okwesibini, abantwana abafumana uncedo kubazali bavame ukuziva bekhono lokufunda, ngoko ke bancitshiswa ukuba bangafuni ukuya esikolweni . Ekugqibeleni, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabazali kuphucula isimo sengqondo sabantwana malunga nesikolo, ukwenza ukuhamba kwesikolo kunqweneleke.
Abantwana Abachaphazelekayo Abazali Baziphathe Ngcono
Imiba yokuziphatha iqala ukubonakala ngexesha leminyaka ephakathi, ngokukodwa ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yabantwana kubakhokelela ekuthatheleni ingozi . Ngombulelo, ukunakwa kwabazali kunokunceda ukukhupha amaninzi kule miba yokuziphatha. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana ababandakanyekayo nabazali banamaqondo aphantsi okusetyenziswa kweziyobisi kunye nezenzo ezigqithisileyo xa kuthelekiswa nabantwana abazali babo abangenakuvulwa.
Ukongezelela, abantwana baziphatha kakuhle kwaye bangaphantsi kancinci eklasini xa abazali babo bebandakanyeka kwimfundo yabo.
Ukubandakanywa kwabazali kuphucula ukusebenza kweNtlalontle
Ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kwimfundo kukwabanceda nokusebenza kweentlalo zentlalo. Ngokukodwa, abantwana abachaphazelekayo nabazali banokubambisana ngakumbi koontanga kunabantwana abanabantwana abangavumiyo. Izakhono zabo zentlalo nazo zibonakala zihamba phambili. Ngokuqinisekileyo, izakhono zentlalo ezithuthukisayo, kwakhona, zikhokelela kwiziphumo ezingcono zemfundo .
Impilo yengqondo ibhetele kunye nokubandakanywa kwabazali
Ekugqibeleni, abantwana abachaphazelekayo nabazali banempilo engcono engqondweni kunabantwana abazali babo ababandakanyekanga kwimfundo yabo. Ngenye, ukubandakanyeka kwabazali kwimfundo kukukhuthaza ukuzithemba kwezingane . Abantwana ababandakanya abazali nabo banokuphucula izakhono zokulawula iimvakalelo kwaye bazive bengenakuvakalelwa. Kukho konke, xa abazali bakhetha ukubandakanyeka nomsebenzi wesikolo wezingane zabo, abantwana abazuzekanga kuphela kwigumbi lokufundela kodwa ngaphaya kwayo.
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