Oobawo banomsebenzi okhulayo ngokunyamekela abantwana
Iindima zentsapho ziyaqhubeka ziguquka, ingakumbi kwiimeko ezicwangcisiweyo zanamhlanje. Uphando lubonisa ukuba malunga neyesithathu kubantwana boomntwana abaselula basebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya. Okwangoku, malunga neepesenti ezingama-40 zooyise basebenza ngaphezu kweeyure ezingama-50 ngeveki emsebenzini. Impikiswano phakathi koomsebenzi kunye nosapho iyaqhubeka, kwaye ukunakekelwa kwengane evela kubaba kuyadingeka ngokukodwa kwiintsapho ezimbini.
Ngako konke okuthethileyo, oomama kwiimeko ezininzi abafunanga kuphela indima "yokutya." Obawo bafuna ukubandakanyeka kwaye bazama ukusebenzisa ixesha elifanelekileyo kunye nezingane zabo. Ngokutsho kwinqaku, "Khuthaza iNxaxheba Yabantwana Kwiinkqubo Zokunakekelwa Kwabancinci Kwezingane," kubazali, Inc., ngelixa abanye oobawo beba negalelo lokuphila kubantwana babo, ngaphezu kwesiqingatha sabo bonke oobawo kwiintsapho ezimbini zomzali abanakho ukubandakanyeka okukhulu esikolweni somntwana (kubandakanya ukunakekelwa kwabantwana). Leyo nani inyuka kuma-82 ekhulwini xa ixoxa nababawo abangahlali nabantwana babo.
Uphando oluvela kwiSebe leMfundo lase-United States lubonisa ukuba indima yooyise esikolweni nokunyamekelwa kwabantwana inceda ekuphumeleleni kwabantwana. Uphando lwafumanisa ukuba abantwana abavela kumakhaya omzali ababini apho ootata bathatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi (njengeentlanganiso zesikolo, iinkomfa zabazali-titshala; imisebenzi yesikolo okanye imisebenzi yokunakekela abantwana okanye iziganeko okanye ukuzithandela) banokufumana amanqaku aphakamileyo, bathatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yecandelo elithile, kwaye ujonge ngakumbi kwinkathalo yabantwana okanye isikolo.
Nazi ezinye iindlela abaotata abangabandakanyeka ngayo ekunakekeleni abantwana.
Ukuthetha noBawo
Funda amagama omzali bobabini uze uwakhumbule. Ukulawula zonke iifowuni zonxibelelwano, ii-imeyile, iileta ekhaya-kubazali bobabini. Jonga iifom zeprogram yakho. Ngaba ziquka indawo
bobabini abazali ukuba basayine?
Mema oomama nooyise ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwiintlanganiso, iintlanganiso kunye neemeko ezizodwa. Ukuba kukho ootata abangenakudlula okanye bangakhange bahambele inkqubo, bafune kwaye baxelele ukuba ukubandakanyeka kwabazali bobabini kubalulekile kumntwana wakho.
Iminikelo yokunikezela kwabaBini Abazali
Abaninikeli bokunakekelwa kwabantwana ngamanye amaxesha bathi ootata bakhetha imisebenzi ngokukhethekileyo kubagadi kuphela. Isifundo sichaza ngenye indlela, kubonisa ukuba ootata bathanda ukuya kwimisebenzi kunye nabafazi kunye neentsapho zabo. Ezi ntlobo zemisebenzi zibandakanya amaqela asemasontweni, i-PTA, izikhundla zokuzithandela ukuba indoda nomfazi banokukwenza kunye , iiklasi zabazali kunye neeprojekthi. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukuba ubaba athathe inxaxheba esikolweni.
ImiSebenzi yeShedyuli emva kweeyure zomsebenzi
Cwangcisa ngoxa abazali abaninzi abasebenzayo banokuya khona. Ukuba kukho ukubandakanywa kobawo obongezelelweyo, iinkqubo zokunyamekela kunye nemisebenzi kufuneka zicwangciswe ngokufanelekileyo. Cinga ngobuchule ngezinye iindlela iindlela ootata abanokubanceda ngayo kuba ootitshala abasebenza emini bangadinga ukuguquguquka njengoko bacinga ngeendlela zokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yesikolo. Buza ootitshala ukuba bancede ngemisebenzi enokuyenza ekhaya, njengokunciphisa imilo ekulungiseleleni imisebenzi yobugcisa.
Khuthaza inxaxheba eklasini
Maye bahlali babelane ngeetalente zabo.
Ukuba unetalente ezizodwa, kutheni ungazithungeli eklasini? Ngaba unayo iresiphi oyithandayo okanye uyazi umdlalo omnandi okanye udlala isandi? Thabatha izakhono zakho kwiklasi lakho leklasi uze ubafundise into oyaziyo ukuba ungayenza.
Xelela oobawo ukuba uyakwazisa ukubandakanya kwabo
Ootata mabaxelelwe ngokubulela kwaye banike inkxaso ngonyaka wonke kwaye kungekhona ngoSuku lukaBawo. Abantwana bathatha inxaxheba kwimpumelelo yezemali, imvakalelo kunye nemfundo yabantwana, kwaye kufuneka badunyiswe ngenxa yezenzo zabo. Cwangcisa iziganeko ezikhethekileyo kunyaka apho ooyise bamenywa esikolweni.
Uninzi lwabazali bafuna ukwenza inxalenye yabo kakuhle ngokukhulisa abantwana ukuba babe ngabantu abadala abaphumeleleyo kunye naluphina uncedo olongezelelweyo, ukukhokelwa, inkxaso kunye nokuqiniswa kufunwa kakhulu ngabagadi njengabamama.
Kwaye, inxalenye engcono kukuba abantwana banenzuzo ngokusebenzisa iintsapho ezonwabileyo kunye kunye noomama nabathintekayo kwimpilo yabo.