Ewe kunzima, akunjalo akumele ubekezelele
Umbuzo: Uncedo! Umfundi Wethu wokufunda esikolweni akayi kukuyeka ukunyuka kweeNose!
Ndizama ukungabi nehlazo ngenxa yokuba ndiqinisekile ukuba le ngxaki eqhelekileyo kwiintsapho ezinabantwana bonke ubudala, kodwa ndihlala ndihle kakhulu.
Intombi yam eneminyaka engama-4 ayiyi kuyeka ukukhangela impumlo. Uyenza yonke ixesha. Ngamanye amaxesha uyidla. (UGH!) Ndizamile ukuthetha naye malunga nalo, ndimnike izicubu, ndiyakhala, kodwa akunandaba. Uyaqhubeka ekhetha impumlo yakhe naphi na kuyo yonke indawo. Isikolo, imoto, esitolo - akanamahlazo! Ndifuna ukuyeka ukuziphatha ngokukhawuleza. Ndingenza ntoni? Nceda Nceda!
Impendulo:
Akunjalo, abafundela esikolweni, bahlala kwizinto ezintle zothando, ngamanye amaxesha azinjalo? (Okubi kakhulu le nto ayigcinwanga kubantwana abangaphantsi kwamahlanu-yikes!)
Ewe, ukuqoqa impumlo kuyindlela eqhelekileyo yokufunda esikolweni kwaye kukho izizathu ezimbalwa ezenza ukuba abantwana bahlanganyele kuyo:
- Kukho ukugqithisa kwe-mucus ekhaleni lomntwana, uziva uhleka kwaye ufuna ukukhipha, okanye,
- Iphunga lomntwana lome kakhulu kwaye liziva lihleka.
- Amandla omkhuba
- Imiqolo
- Boredom
- Akayiqondi nokuba uyayenza
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi inqanaba lomntwana wakho owela kulo, ukuqoqa impumlo yinto efuna ukumiswa, kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Njengoko ukhankanyile, ihlazo kunye noluntu alwamkelekanga, kodwa lukwasasaza iintsholongwane kwaye lunokubangela ukusuleleka kumphunga wengane yakho. Kwakhona, ukuba umntwana avunyelwe ukuba ahlale ebandakanyeka kulo mkhuba, ngumkhwa oya kuthi (ngelishwa) aqhubeke enza njengoko ekhula.
Nazi ezinye iindlela zokumenza ayeke ukukhetha impumlo yakhe:
Ukujongana nengxaki. Ngokuqhelekileyo. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubone umntanakho eqala ukukhetha impumlo yakhe, memela intombi yakho kwinto ayenzayo, umnike izicubu uze umcele ukuba ayeke. Phinda kwakhona njengoko kuyimfuneko. Ukuba ukuphuza impumlo ngumkhwa omtsha, kunokwenzeka ukuba kukho into ekhaleni lakhe, njengokwenkcenkceshe engaphezulu, okumcaphukisayo.
Ukuba le nto yinto eyenzayo okwethutyana, akanako ukuqonda xa eyenza. Qhubeka ubiza umnqweno kwaye uyenze uhlambe izandla emva kokuba eyeke. Cacisa ukuba ukuqoka kwempumlo akuyona inkqubo ecocekileyo kwaye ayikwazi nje ukudala impumlo yakhe ukuba isuleleke, inokusasaza iigciwane kwaye yenza abanye abantu bagule.
Bhalisa kwiinkxaso. Kukho izinto ezininzi kwiimarike ezenzelwe ukufumana umntwana ukuba ayeke ukuphala kwempumlo, kodwa nokuba isenzo esilula sokubeka ibhanti yomxube kumnwe womntwana wakho, unokuyenza inkohliso, ingakumbi ukuba uyayenza ingqiqo. Chaza ukuba kutheni ubeka i-bandage apho, ngoko udibanisa i-bandage ukuba angayikheli impumlo.
Mnike enye into enokuyenza. Yikholwa okanye cha, ukukhethwa kwempumlo yengane yakho kunokusuka kwixhala okanye kunokuzalisekisa imfuno yokuhlala uxakekile. Ngaba ubukele umboniso omabonwakude okanye ahlale phantsi? Mbandakanye kwezinye izinto. Ukuba izandla zakhe zihlala, azinako ukunyuka ekhaleni lakhe.
Cela uncedo. Akunakwenzeka ukuba imeko elula yomntwana ekuthabathe impumlo yayo yinto enzulu, kodwa kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, kunokuthi, ngakumbi ukuba ukuziphatha kuvela ngokukhawuleza kwaye kudibene nenye into (njenge- bedwetting , umzekelo).
Ukuba umntwana wakho ugxininisekile, ukuqoqa impumpo kunokuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho unokunye okunye okuqhubekayo, ngoko ke umnxeba kwinqanaba lezilwanyana unokuba luncedo.
Yigatya. Mhlawumbi kungeyiyo impendulo ofuna ukuyiva, kodwa ukuba uzame konke akunakunceda, umvumele ukuba (ukuba izikhonkwane zakhe zifutshane kwaye azibukhali) unokukwenza konke onokukwenza okwesikhashana.