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Kanye njengoko uphefumula ukukhulula ukuba "ezimbini ezimbi" ziphelile, unokuqonda ukuba iminyaka yokufundela imfundo ayinakukhathalela. Enyanisweni, njengokuba isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni sifumana ukuzimela ngokwengeziwe, mhlawumbi uya kubonisa isicwangciso esitsha seengxaki zokuziphatha.
Kodwa yinto eqhelekileyo yokukhula. Izingane zidinga ukungaziphathi ngamanye amaxesha ukuze zifunde ukuba kukho imiphumo yokuphula imithetho.
Ngokuqeqeshwa okungaqhelekanga, unokuguqula ukuziphatha kakubi kukufumana ithuba elihle lokufunda. Kwaye ngokugqithiseleyo, isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni siza kuba sikrelekrele kwaye silungele ukwenza izigqibo ezintle. Nazi iindlela ezona zifanelekileyo zokusingatha iingxaki zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo eziqhelekileyo:
1. Ukukhohlisa
Uninzi lwabafundi bezemfundo luzungeze ngeencwadi, iifilimu kunye nemiboniso yeTV apho abantu banokubhabhisa khona kwaye izilwanyana zikwazi ukuthetha. Ngamanye amaxesha, banenkathazo encinci phakathi kwehlabathi lenene kunye nefantasti.
Nabo bacinga kakhulu. Ngoko ungamangalisi xa umfundi wakho oneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala echaza ukuba umgcini wesithuba kufuneka athathe loo cookie engekho ngenxa yokuba akayidlanga.
Nangona iimbali ezithandwayo zingenakonakalisa, kubalulekile ukufundisa isikolo sakho sokuqala ukuba umehluko phakathi kokuxoka nokuthetha inyaniso .
Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha ubuxoki, buza, "Ngaba yinto eyenzeka ngokwenene okanye into enqwenela ukuba yenzeke?" Uninzi lwabantwana luya kuchaza ukuba yinto eyenzayo.
Emva kwexesha, isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni siya kufunda ulwimi oluya kumnceda ukuba akuxelele ibali lokuzenza.
Ukuba umfundi wakho wokufundela uxoka ukuba aphume kwintlekele, mnike umphumo wokungathembeki. Thatha umdlalo okanye ilungelo kwaye umxelele ukuba ulindele ukuba athethe inyaniso.
2. Ukunyuka
Abafundi besikolo basoloko becinga ukuba uthetha okokuqala, ukucela kunye nokugcoba kuyakukunyanzela ukuba utshintshe ingqondo yakho.
Kwaye kwiimeko ezininzi, banako ukucaphukisa abantu ngokuzithoba.
Kodwa ukunikezela xa umntwana wakho epholayo ingcamango embi. Iyakomeleza kumntwana wakho ukuba unamandla okufumana oko akufunayo ngokumhlophe kuze kube yilapho ungeke ukwazi ukuma.
Nika umntwana wakho umyalezo othi "Hayi ukuthetha cha." Ukuba uyeka ukuyeka, mhlawumbi uyaqhubeka ecaza. Yibambelele kwizibhamu zakho kwaye ekugqibeleni, uya kufunda ukuba ukugcoba akusebenzi .
Into ebhetele kunokuba ikhwebu elineminyaka engama-4 ubudala, i-whining-year-14. Faka emnye umzamo okwenziwe ngoku ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukugcoba akuyi kuba ngumkhwa wokuphila komntwana wakho.
3. Baby Talk
Kwimizi emininzi, intetho yentsana ifuphi phezulu kwoluhlu lwezinto zokuzikhusela zasesikolweni. Kodwa, ukubuyela kwintetho yesana inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwezikole.
Ngamanye amaxesha, abantwana abasesikolweni bayisebenzisa intetho yabantwana ukuze bafumane ingqalelo. Ngamanye amaxesha, zibuyisa ngenxa yoxinzelelo okanye uxinzelelo. Umzekelo, umntwana angase aqale ukusebenzisa intetho yentsana ngaphambi kokuba angene enkulisa ngoba uyakhathazeka ngenguqu.
Unokusingatha intetho yabantwana ngokufanayo nendlela ophendula ngayo. Beka imida kwaye ukhumbule, mhlawumbi isigaba esimele sidlule ngokukhawuleza. Qinisekisa ukuba awukhuthazi ngengozi intetho yabantwana ngokunikela ingqwalasela enkulu.
4. Ukunyaniseka
Nangona abantwana besikolo basoloko befuna ukuba luncedo, banqwenela ukubonisa ukuzimela kwabo. Kuqhelekile ukuba bathi, "Hayi!" Xa ubaxelela ukuba benze into nje ukuze ubone indlela oya kusabela ngayo.
Ukuseka uluhlu lwemithetho yasekhaya kwaye wenze imiphumo emibi ngokuphula imithetho leyo. Qhubeka uqeqesho lwakho. Abafundi beeplangaleji baya kuzama ukuhamba nokuziphatha kakubi njengoko nje becinga ukuba ithuba elincinane aliyi kuba neengxaki.
Sebenzisa ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo ukukhuthaza ukuthotyelwa. Ukudumisa nokuvuza imivuzo , njengesatidi esitikiweyo kunokwandisa amathuba okuba umntwana wakho osemfundela uza kulandelwa.
5. Inkcaso
Uninzi lwabafundi bezemfundo luye lwafumana ulawulo oluncinane phezu kwentlungu kodwa awanakho ukufumana ukulawula okunyanisekileyo ukukhusela ukuziphatha kanobudlova. Ukubetha, ukukhaba, nokubetha kusenokuba yingxaki.
Ukuphendula ngokuziphatha kakubi ngokuziphatha okuqhubekayo. Ixesha lokufunda lifundisa abantwana indlela yokuzihlaziya. Ukuthabatha amalungelo kunokuba yinto ephumelelayo yokunyusa.
Fundisa ubuncwane bakho bokuxazulula iingxaki ukuze umntwana akwazi ukulungisa ingxabano ngokuthula. Kwakhona, fundisa umntwana wakho ngeemvakalelo ukuze akwazi ukuveza iimvakalelo zakhe ngamazwi, endaweni yokuthatha indlela azive ngayo. Ukuziphatha kakubi kufuneka kugxilwe njengoko umntwana wakho ephethe ezo zakhono.
> Imithombo
> I-HealthyChildren.org: Ukuziphatha okubuhlungu.
> Inkqubo Yokwandiswa kweYunivesithi yaseMichigan: Uqeqesho lwe-3-5 ye-Old Age.