Ukubandakanywa koMzali kuNgezelelo
Abantwana bavame ukuphumelela esikolweni xa abazali bebandakanyeka kwimfundo yabo kwaye banomdla kwimfundo yabo kunye nenkqubela. Ezinye iindlela zokubandakanyeka zingenza umonakalo omkhulu kunoko, nangona kunjalo. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso ezingonakalisa umsebenzi wesikolo abantwana, ngokutsho kophando. Abaphandi abanomdla baye bafumanisa iindlela ezininzi zokunceda abantwana benze ngcono esikolweni.
Gwema Ukuxelela Umntwana Wakho Oko ukwenza
Xa abazali belawula umsebenzi wabo wesikolo, abantwana bavame ukufumana amanani aphantsi kwaye bangabikho nto . Imizekelo yokulawula iquka ukuxelela umntwana ngesihloko sini kuphando lweprojekthi yesikolo okanye ufune ukuba kubhalwe ntoni kwisicatshulwa. Ngokulawula umsebenzi wesikolo somntwana, abazali banciphisa ukunyaniseka kwengqondo kubantwana. Oko kwathiwa, abantwana abahluphekayo esikolweni badla ngokulindela ukuvavanya okufutshane ukuqinisekisa ukuba bazalise zonke izabelo zabo. Kungcono ukuvumela umntwana ukuba athathe indima ebalulekileyo ekwenzeni isigqibo sokuba angagqibezela njani izabelo, nangona kunjalo.
Musa ukugxila kwiZiphumo
Uninzi lwabazali banethemba lokuba abantwana babo baya kufumana amabakala amahle kunye nokuvunyelwa kootitshala. Indlela efanelekileyo yokunceda umntwana wakho aphumelele esikolweni, nangona kunjalo, kukuvuza umzamo womntwana kunokugxila kulezi ziphumo. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana angase asebenze kanzima kwisabelo kwaye usenokufumana ibakala elibi, okanye ikhadi elibi elibi.
Oku kunokwenzeka ngokukodwa kubantwana abaneengxaki zokufunda. Ukuba awukwazi ukwenza amabakala okanye ukuvunywa kwabanye ukuba ugxininiso oluphezulu ekhaya lakho, umntwana wakho unokuhlala ekhuthazwa ngesikolo.
Gwema Ukuxoxa Ngezakhono Zakho Zengane
Ukugxininisa indlela iimpawu ezizalwa ngayo umntwana wakho, njengengqondo kunye nezinye izinto ezinokuqonda , ezinokuchaphazela impumelelo yakhe yemfundo .
Abazali abagxila kwizinto ezinjalo ezingatshintshiyo banokuba nabantwana abangenalo msebenzi wabo wesikolo. Izingane zabo ziza kucinga ukuba uhlakaniphile okanye awukho, kwaye mhlawumbi ungakhathazeki ngokusebenza kanzima esikolweni ukuba awukho "uhlakaniphile." Enyanisweni, iinzame, izakhono zentlalo kunye nokuzimela zihlala ziba yimpumelelo yokuphumelela kwesikolo kunokuba zikwazi ukuzalwa.
Ungabi Nciphisa
Kubonakala kubonakala, kodwa kubalulekile ukunqanda ubundlobongela kunye nomsindo xa usebenza nomntwana wakho emsebenzini wesikolo okanye iiprojekthi zeklasi. Ukungahambisani nokungahambisani nokunciphisa umnqweno womntwana wokusebenza. Ukugxeka kwabazali kuye kwafunyanwa ukunciphisa ukukhuthazwa kwabafundi kwaye kubangele amabakala aphantsi. Kungcono ukugxininisa amandla omntwana kwaye uhlale ulungile malunga namandla akhe kunokusebenzisa indlela engafanelekanga egxininisa ubuthathaka bakhe.
Ukuhlwaywa akuncedi
Kanye nje ngokuba unobungozi kungabungozi, ukujezisa okanye ukugxeka umntwana ngenxa yokungahambi kakuhle esikolweni kunokubangela iingxaki. Abantwana benza ngcono esikolweni xa abazali babo bechonga kwaye bagxininise kwizinto abazenzayo kakuhle, njengezakhono zabo zobunkokeli kwiklasi ye-PE. Kakade ke, imizamo embi ifuna ukujongana nayo, kodwa ukucinga ngezicwangciso zokuphucula kusebenza kangcono kunokuba ujezise umntwana ngenxa yokungenzi kakuhle.
Musa ukugxininisa kokusilela
Abanye abazali baqwalasela zonke iingxoxo zabo nabantwana babo ngeendlela zokuphepha ukuhluleka. Nangona oku kubonakala ngathi kuyindlela efanelekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo libeka "ukungaphumeleli" kwinqanaba elikwinqanaba, okubonakala kubonakalisa ukudibanisa kwabafundi. Endaweni yokuxoxa ngendlela yokuphepha ukuhluleka, thetha malunga nendlela yokufumana impumelelo. Ukufakela izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo kukukhuthaza kakhulu umntwana kwaye kunokumnceda enze ngcono ekuhambeni kwexesha.
Umthombo:
Pomerantz, Eva, noMorman, uElizabeth. Ukuthi ngubani, kwaye kutheni kubandakanyeka kwabazali kwimpilo yabafundi: Okunye akusoloko kulunge. Ukuphononongwa koPhando lwezeMfundo. 2007. 77,3: 373-410.