Njengoko bekhula kwaye baqala ukuqonda ihlabathi ngcono, abantwana baqala ukubuza imibuzo enzima. Ngaphandle koko "Zivelaphi iintsana?", Abaninzi abazali bayesaba ngelinye ilanga lezingane zabo zibuza, "Ngaba iSanta iyinyani?" Kuza kukubamba ngethuba kwaye kukho iindlela ezimbalwa ongayisingatha ngazo.
Imiba yobudala
Kungaba nzima kubazali ukuba bamkele ukuba abantwana babo bakhula kwaye bavumela ukuhamba kwamasiko kunye neengcamango zabantwana.
Kubazali abaninzi, kubuhlungu kakhulu ukuba bacinge ukuba umntwana wabo ukhulile kwiminyaka yaseSanta kunye nokuzonwabisa okudibene nenkolelo kuSanta kunye neentombi zakhe ezincinci.
Iyakwenzeka nanini na ubudala kwaye inokuvela ngenxa yengxoxo nabanye abantwana. Umntwana wakho oneminyaka engama-6 okanye oneminyaka engama-7 unokuva into ethile esikolweni kwaye ufuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuba uSanta uya kubonakala eKrisimesi. Kungaba kukuhle ukuqinisa ibali leSanta, kuboniswe imifanekiso encinane yabantwana okanye iividiyo "zokuphila" i-Santas kwiimfesane kumabonwakude.
Umntwana oneminyaka eyi-8- okanye oneminyaka engama-9 unokucela ukuba ngaba kunjalo ukuba bazenzele ukuba kukho iSanta ukuze bangaphuthelwa nantoni na. Kule minyaka, uya kufuna ukusebenzisa isigwebo sakho ngokuphathelele injongo yabo yangempela ngombuzo. Abanye abantwana bayilungele inyaniso kwaye abanye abakho. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, cela imibuzo embalwa ebuza, "Ucela ntoni na?" ngaphambi kokuthatha isigqibo sokuba uphendule njani.
Ngexesha elifikelela kwi-10 okanye le-11, phakathi kwakho mhlawumbi akusayikholelwa kwiSanta Claus. Olu lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuphuhlisa. Kule minyaka, ukuba abantwana babe nolwazi ngakumbi. Baqala nokufumana ukunyaniseka okulungileyo. Kodwa ezinye iimbini zibambelele kwiinkolelo zabo zobuntwana kuba nje zinokwenzeka.
Inyaniso kukuba ukuba umntwana wakho ubuza imibuzo efana nale nto, "Ngaba iSanta iyinyani?" mhlawumbi sele esazi i nyaniso okanye unengcamango yalo. Mhlawumbi unokufuna ukuqinisekiswa okuvela kuwe.
Yona Yonke Yomxholo
Ukuba ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uye wakubona konke, yinto efanelekileyo yokuthetha inyaniso. Ngokomzekelo, unokucacisa ukuba uSaint Nicholas, ngokwenene, wayengumntu wokwenene kwasekudala. Wayeyaziwa ngokushiya izipho kubantwana basekhaya kunye nokunyamekela amahlwempu kunye neentlungu . Umlando wanda ngaphezu kwexesha, waba ibali sonke esazi namhlanje.
Eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokufakela iinkolelo zentsapho kunye nemilinganiselo yakho ngokubanyusa kwingxoxo. Unokwenza oku ngokuqinisela ingcamango yokuba umoya weSanta umele oko kwiintliziyo zabo bonke abantu abanomusa nabanikela.
Kwaba abantu abadala bayaqonda ukuba kukho "umlingo" kwimbali yeSanta Clause kwaye ayikwazi ukucaciswa rhoqo. Zingaphi iintliziyo ezibuhlungu ziphendukile zithandeka ngokuphefumlelwa kwe-Jolly Old Elf? Ngaba akuyena umlingo? Ngaba akunjalo? Incwadi yakhe iphelele njani ukusinda kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana? Kwimihla ezayo?
Unokukhumbuza abantwana ukuba oko kudla ngokubhekiselele kwimiba kunye nokholo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba inkolelo kunye nokholo zikhetho sonke senza, unokukhetha ukukholelwa kwinto ephezulu nangakumbi. Yabelana ngeengcamango zakho kwizinto okholelwayo kwaye kutheni umnike ixesha lokuziqonda iinkolelo zakhe.
Amasiko eKrismesi
Oku kunokuba yithuba elihle lokuhlaziya ezinye zeentsapho zeKrismesi zonyaka. Endaweni yokubhala ileta kuSanta minyaka yonke, umntwana wakho abe nguSanta oyimfihlo kumntakwabo omncinci okanye umntwana ohlala kuyo. Kwakhona unokupheka ii-cookies okanye isonka kubahlali abalupheleyo. Buza indlela angathanda ngayo "ukuthatha" iSanta kwaye usasaze i-cheer novuyo ahlale eyazi.
Nangona abantwana bengasakwazi ukujonga i-reindeer kwi-Christmas Eve, i-kati yakho ingaba ilungele ukufumana umoya weSanta Clause kwaye usasaze uvuyo lokunikela ngendlela yakhe ekhethekileyo. Ukunceda ukwenza njalo kuqinisekisa ukuba entliziyweni yomntanakho, uSanta uya kuhlala ngonaphakade kwaye, ngokwenene, ngokwenene.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Umbuzo omnye unokuba ngumngeni kunoma yimuphi umzali, kwaye kuya kwenzeka ekugqibeleni. Impendulo yakho engcono kakhulu ingaba, "Hayi indlela ocinga ngayo. Nantsi into endiyithethayo ..." Yiyo amava okufunda amahle kakhulu ekunyamekeleni nasekwenzeni ukuba abantwana banoma yimuphi umdala baya kukhumbula.