Kukho uluhlu olukhetho lwezinto ozikhethayo
Umntwana wakho unemfuno ezizodwa, oko kuthetha (kumaxesha amaninzi) ukuba igumbi lokufundela elithile kwisikolo sikawonkewonke asikwazi ukuba yindawo efanelekileyo. Kodwa ziziphi ezinye iindlela? Ngethamsanqa, kuxhomekeke kumandla akho kunye nemingeni eyenziwa ngumntwana, kukho amathuba ambalwa. Funda malunga neenzuzo kunye neengxaki ngamnye.
Izikolo zikaRhulumente
Izikolo zikarhulumente zingaba ngumdlalo omhle kumntwana wakho ukuba:
- Izikolo zakho zixhaswa ngemali ukwenzela ukuba uqeqesho lootitshala, ii-aid, i-therapists, iingcali kunye neenkqubo zenkxaso ziyafumaneka.
- Iimfuno ezithile zomntwana wakho zihambelana kakuhle kwizikolo zamandla: izikolo ezininzi zinokubonelela ngabafundi abaneengxaki ezifanayo, kodwa iimfuno ezingaqhelekanga okanye izakhono ezinokuba nzima kakhulu.
- Umntwana wakho ukhululekile kwisikolo sabo esidlangalaleni kwaye akahluphekanga iingxaki ezifana nokuxhaphazwa okanye ukuxhatshazwa.
Iinkonzo:
- Isikolo sikawonkewonke sikhululekile!
- Izikolo zikarhulumente zifunwa ngumthetho ukufundisa umntwana wakho, ukubonelela ngeenkonzo ezifanelekileyo, kwaye uhlawule iinkonzo ezininzi kunye nezokwelapha.
- Izikolo zikarhulumente zilungile kwindawo yakho yangasemva, oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi abantu basekhaya kwaye uya kuba nako ukubandakanya nemfundo yakhe.
- Umntwana wakho uya kuba nethuba lokufakela kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ezikolweni nasemva kokufunda esikolweni .
Umgcini:
- Izikolo zikarhulumente zihlala zihlawulwa ngemali kwaye zigqithiswa kalula zizidingo zabafundi abakhethekileyo.
- Izikolo zikarhulumente zingenakho ubuchule okanye ukulungelelanisa ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba unako okanye unengxaki engayifanelekanga kwiinkqubo ezikhoyo (ewe, kufuneka ukuba wenze inkqubo malunga nomntwana wakho, kodwa akunakwenzeka njalo).
- Izikolo zikarhulumente zingaba ziindawo ezinkulu kunye eziyinkimbinkimbi apho ukuxhatshazwa, ukusabalalisa, kunye neminye imiba kunzima ukulawula.
Izikolo kunye neMagnet
I-Charter kunye nezikolo zamagnet nazo zixhaswa ngemali, oko kuthetha ukuba nabo bakhululwa kwaye bafunwa ngumthetho ukulungiselela iimfuno zomntwana wakho. Kwezinye iimeko, zincinci kunezona zikolo zikarhulumente eziqhelekileyo, kwaye zinokuba zilungele umntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, ezinye iikharityhulam kunye nezikolo zamagnet zinikezela ngezandla ezininzi, imodeli yemfundo yokufunda-inkonzo enokuba yinto enhle kumntwana onokungacatshulwa okanye nokuba yi-autism.
Iinkonzo:
- I-Charter kunye nezikolo zamagnet zinika imfundo ekhululekile kunye nefanelekileyo njengesikolo sakho sesekuhlaleni.
- I-Charter kunye nezikolo zamagnet zingadlala kumandla omntwana wakho kunye nesitayela sokufunda ngendlela eqhelekileyo yesikolo sikarhulumente ayifuni.
- Izikolo ezincinci zihlala zilungelelanisa ngakumbi abafundi abaneemfuno ezizodwa.
Umgcini:
- I-Charter kunye nezikolo zamagnet zihlala zide kumgama wakho.
- Bangaba nenkqubo encinci yokuguquguquka kunye nezibonelelo ezimbalwa kunesikolo sakho sikarhulumente sasekuhlaleni.
- Unokufumana kunzima ukusebenza kunye nesikolo ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana inkxaso ayifunayo.
Waldorf, Montessori, kunye nezinye iZikolo eziPhezulu
UWaldorf noMontessori baqulunqa ubuchule bokufundisa obuhluke kakhulu kwizinto eziqhelekileyo kwizikolo zikarhulumente eziqhelekileyo, kodwa zisebenza kakuhle kubafundi abaninzi.
Esikhundleni sokusebenzisa amagama njengethuluzi lokufundisa eliphambili, basebenzisa iintlobo ezithile zamava avumela abafundi ukuba bafunde ngokubonakalayo nangokwenene. Kubafundi abambalwa abaneemfuno ezizodwa zokuxilonga iimfuno, ezi zikolo ziyakunkulunkulu.
Kukho, ke, kukho izicathulo ezimbalwa. Okokuqala, izikolo zaseWaldorf kunye neMontessori zijoliswe kubantwana abaneziqhelo okanye eziqhelekileyo kwii-IQ ezikwazi ukulawula kwiindawo ezincinci kodwa zentlalo. Okwesibini, izikolo ezinjalo azidingeki ukubonelela naluphi na uhlobo lwenkxaso okanye unyango kumntwana wakho.
Iinkonzo:
- Ukuba iimfuno zomntwana kunye namakhono akho amenza umdlalo ofanelekileyo kwiSikolo saseWaldorf okanye saseMontessori, amathuba okufumana enye okanye enye kwindawo engafanelekanga yokuhamba.
- Umntwana wakho uya kufumana imfundo esemgangathweni kwisimo esincinci ngelixa udibaniswa neontanga eziqhelekileyo.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uphumelele, amathuba okuba uya kufumana abahlobo kunye neqela loluntu oluqinileyo.
Umgcini:
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kukwazi ukufumana inkxaso-mali yesikolo sabucala esenzelwe abantu bonke, nangona unako ukufumana isifundo semali.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna uncedo oluninzi kunokuba lukhona esikolweni, kunethuba elihle isikolo siya kumcela ukuba ashiye.
- Unokufumanisa ukuba imingeni yakho yomntwana yenza kube nzima kakhulu ukuqhubeka nekharityhulam.
Homeschool
Iimfundo zasemakhaya zithandwa kakhulu, ngakumbi kwiintsapho zezingane ezineemfuno ezizodwa. I-Homeschool ikunika ulawulo oluphezulu kunye nokuguquguquka, okwenze kube lula ukwenza inkqubo efanelekileyo yemfundo kunye nokulungiselela umntwana wakho. Ngamanye amaxesha isithili sakho siya kukunceda ngemali, ukubonelela ngezixhobo zokufunda ngeekhompyuter, okanye ukuthumela abaqeqeshi. Unako ukukwazi ukungena kwiiprogram zomntu osekuhlaleni, iinkqubo zoluntu zasemakhaya, kunye nokubulawa kwezibonelelo zendawo.
Iinkonzo:
- Ulawula iimeko zemfundo yengane yakho kunye nemeko kwaye unokuyila ukuba ibe yinto efanelekileyo.
- Kunokwenzeka ukuba ugweme ngokupheleleyo iingxaki ngeendlela zokufundisa, ukuxhatshazwa, ukuxhalabisa, kunye nezinye iimeko zesikolo.
- Unethuba elikhulu lokunceda umntwana wakho akwazi ukwakha izakhono ngokugxila kwiindawo zokudinga kunye nokwakhiwa kwamandla.
Umgcini:
- Ukuba usebenza ixesha elipheleleyo, kungenakwenzeka kumakhaya asekhaya.
- Abazali abaninzi bafumana amakhaya okufundela ukuba abe nzima kwaye anzima, ingakumbi ukuba iimfuno zabo ezizodwa zibandakanya imingeni ebalulekileyo, engqondweni, okanye engqondweni.
- Iimfundo zasemakhaya zingaba zihlukanise, kwaye ukufumana amaqela asemakhaya asekhaya angabunzima (ngakumbi kwimimandla yasemaphandleni).
Ji kelele 'Izikolo eziZimfuno eziZodwa'
Njengoko inani labantwana "abaneemfuno ezizodwa" likhulile, kunjalo kunjalo nezikolo ezizimeleyo ezinika abantwana abanjalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ezi zikolo zibiza kakhulu, kodwa ukuba ungabonisa ukuba isithili sakho sikarhulumente asikwazi ukubonelela ngemfundo ekhululekile kunye nefanelekileyo ukuba inyanzelekile ukuba ihlawule iindleko zokubeka ngasese. Oku kunjalo kuphela, nangona kunjalo, ukuba iimfuno ezizodwa zesikolo zivunyiwe (oko kuthetha ukuba izikolo ezincinane zokuqalisa aziyi kuba yindlela).
Ngokuqhelekileyo "iimfuno ezizodwa" izikolo zihlala ziluhlu olupheleleyo olubulawe kwiiwebhsayithi zabo (yonke into ukusuka kwi-dyslexia ukuya kwi-autism ukuya kwimingeni enomdla, umzekelo). Kodwa ngenxa yokuba izikolo ziyimfihlo, zinokukhetha ukhetho lwabafundi abanomuvo wokuthi banokukhonza. Ngaloo ndlela, nokuba umntwana wakho ubonakala ehambelana neendlela ezifanelekileyo, isikolo sinokukuguqula ngenxa yokuba iimpawu zakhe zihluke okanye zinzima ngaphezu komfundi wazo.
Iinkonzo:
- Bonke abasebenzi abaneemfuno ezizodwa zikolo zilungele, zikulungele, kwaye zikwazi ukusebenza kunye nabantwana abanjengakho.
- Izikolo zemfuno ezizodwa zenzelwe ukubonelela ngeenkqubo ezifana nokuqeqeshwa kwezakhono zentlalo, ukufunda okulungisa, njl njl., Akukho mfuneko yokucela ukuba iinkqubo ezinjalo zenziwe kumntwana wakho.
- Ngenxa yokuba bonke abantwana baneemfuno ezizodwa, kukho ithuba elingcono lokuba umntwana wakho uya kwamkelwa uluntu.
Umgcini:
- Ukuba uhlawula izikolo eziziimfuno ezizodwa, uya kuba uhlawula kakhulu.
- Umthetho awudingi ukuba izikolo ezizimeleyo zilandele yonke imithetho efanayo kunye neenkqubo ezifunekayo kwizikolo zikarhulumente.
- Ngenxa yokuba bangaphandle koluntu lwasekuhlaleni kwaye iintsapho zihlala kude kakhulu, kunokuba nzima ukumazi uluntu okanye ngabahlobo bakho, ootitshala kunye nabagqirha.
Izikolo eziMfuno eziZodwa eziZodwa
Ingaba umntwana wakho une-autism, i-ADHD, i-OCD, "imingeni yokufunda ngokusekelwe kulwimi," ukuxhalaba, ukukhubazeka kwengqondo, okanye iimeko zempilo yengqondo, ngokuqinisekileyo kukho isikolo esikhankanywe ngokuthe ngqo kwi-diagnostic. Oko kuthetha ukuba kwindawo ethile eUnited States (kwaye mhlawumbi kwindawo yakho yedolophu) kukho indawo "yokugqibelela" yokufunda umntwana wakho.
Igama elithi "liphelele" likwiimpawu zengcaphuno, nangona kunjalo, ngokuba ngamnye umntwana uhlukile kwaye kunjalo nazo zonke izikolo. Ukuba umntwana wakho unokusebenzisa i-autism ephezulu, umzekelo, isikolo sabantwana abane-autism esinzima siya kuba yintlekele. Ukuba umntwana wakho ene-ADHD kunye neminye imiba yempilo yengqondo, unokufuna ukujonga ngokukhawuleza ukuqinisekisa ukuba isikolo somfundi esikolweni esikhethekileyo sinemiqobo efanayo.
Iinkonzo:
- Njengasesikolweni esikolweni esikhethekileyo, ootitshala nabagqirha baqeqeshwe kakhulu, kodwa kwisikolo esikhethekileyo banokuba nayo "ibhokisi yeetekisi" enkulu yeendlela zokufundisa kunye nomntwana wakho.
- Umntwana wakho unokufumana iintanga ezinomdla, izinto ezinamandla kunye nemingeni efana nayo, enokuba yindlela enhle yokuba bafumane abahlobo abanomdla.
- Wena, njengomzali, uya kuba nomngeni onzima ekuchazeni izinto ezithile zomntwana wakho okanye ufumane ootitshala nabasebenzi ukuba bathi "ewe" ekuthatyathwa kakuhle kweendlela okanye iindlela zokufundisa.
Umgcini:
- Izikolo ezizodwa ezizodwa zifuna izikolo ezingaqhelekanga; ngenxa yoko, umntwana wakho unokufuneka ahambe umgama omde okanye abe ngumfundi webhodi kwelinye ilizwe.
- Umntwana wakho uya kuboniswa kuphela kubantwana abanokuxilongwa kwakhe, oko kuthetha ukuba uya kuba yedwa kwinqanaba labantu (oku kunyanisekileyo kwinqanaba elithile nangona isikolo sizimisele ukuthabatha umntwana wakho "ekuphumeni" kuluntu).
- Unokuba unqanyulwe kumntwana wakho ukuba akahlali kufuphi.
Izikolo eziKhethekileyo eziZodwa
Ukumba ngakumbi nakwiikolo ezizodwa, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane izikolo ezizimeleyo ezakhiwe malunga neentlobo zefilosofi zonyango. Ehlabathini le-autism, umzekelo, unokufumana izikolo ze-ABA, izikolo ze-SCERTS, izikolo ze-Floortime, izikolo ze-RDI, njalonjalo. Ukuba ungummeli wendlela ethile yokwelapha okanye yefilosofi kwimfundo yeemfuno ezizodwa, lolu hlobo lwesikolo lunokuba lufanelekile wena nomntwana wakho.
Iinkonzo:
- Ukuba usuyazi ukuba umntwana wakho ulunge ngendlela ethile yokwelapha okanye ifilosofi, ufumene indlela efanelekileyo yokufunda isikolo.
- Phantse zonke izikolo ezizodwa zonyango ziyingcinci, oko kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho uya kufumana inkxaso encedisayo.
- Ngenxa yokuba sele uyayiqonda kwaye uyayithanda indlela yesikolo, kukho ithuba elihle lokuziva ukhululekile kunye nootitshala nabaqeshwa.
Umgcini:
- Kukunzima ukufumana inkxaso-mali yesikolo esithile, ngoko ke uya kuhlawulwa ngaphandle kwepokothini.
- Izikolo ezincinci kakhulu zinabasebenzi abancinci kwaye abanakwenzeka ukubonelela ngeenkqubo ezahlukeneyo ezifana nobugcisa, ukuvocavoca, umculo okanye imidlalo.
- Akunakwenzeka ukuba isikolo esikhethekileyo siya kuba sekona ukusuka kwikhaya lakho OKANYE ukukwazi ukuba nebhodi lakho lomntwana. Ngenxa yoko, unokwenza ufune ukutshintsha indawo yokuhlala okanye wenze uhambo oluninzi lokuqhuba.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isigqibo sokuba umntwana wakho ufuna isikolo esingekho sikarhulumente, qiniseka ukuba uhlolisise yonke i-nooks kunye neenkampani zendawo yesithili sakho. Ngoxa ungeke unikezwe zonke iinkonzo ozivelayo ufuna, kukho ithuba lokuba ezo nkonzo zifumaneke. Ngokubanzi, iinqununu zezikolo zikarhulumente ziya kukunika into oyifunayo, kodwa ayiyi kuphuma yindlela yazo ukuthetha ezinye iindlela. Nesi sizathu sokuba isikolo sikarhulumente kufanele sibe yinto yokuqala yokukhetha:
- Imali: Isikolo sikawonkewonke sikhululekile.
- Izixhobo: Izikolo zikarhulumente zifunwa ngumthetho ukubonelela ootitshala, izibonelelo kunye neendlela zokuncedisa umntwana wakho kufuneka aqhubeke phambili kwimfundo nokukhula. Izikolo ezizimeleyo azikho. Kwaye, ngenxa yokuba bancinci kakhulu, izikolo ezizimeleyo azifaneki zikwazi ukuthethelela iindleko zokuthi, zithi, umlawuli wee-chorus okanye u-intanethi yokuhlanganiswa kwengqondo.
- Ukufakwa : Lo mcimbi omkhulu. Xa umntwana wakho eshiya isikolo sikarhulumente, akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kumana umntu ohlala kuyo ngaphandle kowe. Okugqithiseleyo isikolo, encinci ithuba lokuba uyazi okanye aziwa ngabamelwane, abahlobo bendawo, oontanga, abathalabhribhu, abalawuli be-rec, okanye abanye abantu kunye namaqela awenza ihlabathi ahlala kulo.