Iingcebiso zokuthetha nomfundisi wakho womntwana onamabala

Iinkomfa zabazali-titshala yindlela enkulu yokumazi utitshala womntwana wakho kwaye amvumele ukuba azi into ethile malunga nawe kunye neenkxalabo zakho. Nangona iintlanganiso kunye nabafundi bezikolo ezivulekileyo ziza kukuvumela ukuba ufunde ngemigaqo-nkqubo yomfundisi kunye nobuntu, bahlala besifutshane ukuze bavumele ingxoxo enzulu yengxaki okanye iintswelo zezingane. Indlela engcono yokuxoxa nomntwana wakho ukusekela inkomfa yangasese. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zeengxoxo eziphumeleleyo.

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Yenza uludwe lweengxaki

Uluhlu lweengxakini yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqala ukulungiselela intlanganiso kunye notitshala. Ukuba ukhathazeke ngomsebenzi wasekhaya, bhala phantsi. Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuziphatha, bhala phantsi. Akuyimfuneko okanye ayinqwenelekayo ukubhala phantsi zonke iinkxalabo onokuba nazo. Kunoko, gxininisa enye okanye ezimbini ezibalulekileyo kwimicimbi. Ukuzama ukugubungela umcimbi omnye kwintlanganiso enye kunokungabi nzuzo.

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Ncokola Nomntwana Wakho Mxelela umntwana wakho ukuba uceba ukuthetha notitshala. Amathuba kukuba sele sele uyayazi iimvakalelo zomntwana wakho kwimibandela ofuna ukuxoxa ngayo, kodwa unokufumana into engongezayo. Ukongezelela, kukulungile ukuphulaphula umbono womntwana wakho kunye nombono wothishela. Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana uyaphulaphula imeko, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha utitshala akazi kakuhle iimvakalelo zomntwana. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba uza kuzama ukulungisa iingxaki; awukhethi nje ukukhalaza.

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Beka Iipotfoliyo Zomsebenzi Wabantwana Bakho

Ukuba uye wagcina iphothifoliyo yomsebenzi wakho wengane, jonga kuyo ngemimiselo yomsebenzi onokuxhasa oko ufuna ukuba utitshala azi malunga nendodana okanye intombi yakho. Umzekelo, unomdla wokuba umsebenzi wesikolo ulula, fumana iisampulu zomsebenzi kwinqanaba elifanayo umntwana wakho okwenzileyo kunyaka odlulileyo (okanye ezimbini) okanye umsebenzi okhoyo ophezulu. Abantwana abaninzi, ngokukodwa abatyebileyo ootitshala, abahlala bebonisa ubuchule babo bokwenene, ngoko ke utitshala akanako ukuziqonda.

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Misela Utyunjwa

Ukukhathazeka kwakho ngomntwana wakho kubalulekile, ngoko mhlawumbi ufuna ukuxoxa nabo ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, unethuba elingcono lokusombulula ngempumelelo nayiphi na imiba ukuba wenza isigqibo kunye nootitshala. Ukwenza ukuqeshana kunemivuzo emininzi:

• Bobabini kunye notitshala unethuba lokulungiselela
• Awufani nokuthatha utitshala ngexesha elibi
• Ibonisa intlonipho kwaye iqala ukuqala kwinqanaba elilungileyo

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Gcina isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo Isimo sengqondo esihle sibalulekile ngaphambi, ngexesha, nangemva kwenkomfa kunye notitshala. Abantwana bangakwazi ukujonga iingcinga ezingalunganga kwaye ukuba umntwana ucinga ukuba umzali akayi kumhlonela okanye akahloneli utitshala, umntwana uya kucinga ukuba isimo sengqondo simkelekile, esiya kwenza ukuba nayiphi na ingxaki ekhoyo kwaye ibe nzima ukuyixazulula. Yishiye umsindo wakho ekhaya kuba kunokukwenza ukuba ubonakale ungenangqiqo kwaye wenze ukuba utitshala azikhusele, akukho nto iya kunceda umntwana wakho.

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Gwema amazwi athi "Unyame" kwaye "Uphethwe"

Zimbalwa izinto ezinokukhupha umfundisi ngaphezu kokumxelela ukuba umntwana wakho uyaxhalaka eklasini lakhe. Uninzi lwabafundisi abaqhelanga ngokuzikhethela ukwenza izifundo ezintle; Ngokuqhelekileyo basebenzela nzima ukwenza izifundo eziya kumnandi kwaye zenze umdla. Igama elithi "i-gifted" lenza abanye ootitshala bathethe ukuba bathetha nomnye umzali onobuchule. Kunoko, thetha ngeendlela zokufunda. Unokubonisa, umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ufunda kakuhle xa enikwa umsebenzi onzima.

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Gcina Ugxininiso kumntwana wakho

Ootitshala banomntwana ongaphezu kweyodwa ukuba bakhathazeke ngako kwaye banokuphendula kwiinkxalabo zakho ngokubonisa oko abanye abantwana abafuna. Unokuthi xa uxabisa ukukhathazeka kwabo bonke abantwana, ukhona ukuxoxa nomntwana wakho. Ngokomzekelo, utitshala angatsho ukuba akuyi kubulungisa kwabanye abantwana ukuba banike umntanakho umsebenzi okhethekileyo. Mxelele ukuba uyayixabisa into yokuba unenkxalabo ngabanye abantwana, kodwa inkxalabo yakho yinto efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho.

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Buza ukucaciswa

Uninzi ootitshala baqeqeshwe ukugxila kwiintsilelo - ezifundweni, ezemvakalelo kunye nezentlalo. Ngenxa yoko, utitshala angachaza apho acinga ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuphuculwa. Ngokomzekelo, unokukuxelela ukuba umntwana wakho akakwazi ukujongana nomsebenzi onzima. Buza ukuba yintoni eyenza ukuba acinge ukuba umntwana wakho ufile kwaye ucele imizekelo yokuziphatha kakubi . Buza kwakhona ukuba abanye abantwana baziphatha ngendlela efana. Kungenzeka ukuba ukuziphatha kuchanekile kwiqela elidala.

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Ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso sokusebenza Sebenza kunye notitshala ukuphuhlisa amanyathelo athile oya kuthatha ukulungiselela ukulungisa ingxaki. Imiba embalwa yesikolo inokusingathwa esikolweni yedwa. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho akaphenduki emsebenzini wakhe kwaye ucela ukuba anikwe umsebenzi onzima, unokuvuma ukubeka ixesha elithile lomsebenzi wesikolo kwaye uvumele ukuwujonga xa utitshala enokuvuma ukumnika ngakumbi msebenzi.

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Thumela Uyabonga Qaphela emva kwentsuku okanye ezimbini emva kwentlanganiso, thumela utitshala inqaku elibulela kuye ngokudibana nawe. Bhala uluhlu lwamanyathelo ootitshala kunye nawe ootitshala abavuma ukuba bathathe ukujongana neenkxalabo zakho. Le ncwadana ayisebenzisi nje ngokubulela, kodwa kwakhona njengendlela yokubonisa indlela oya kuqonda ngayo amanyathelo oya kuthatha kokubili okanye nayiphi na enye imiphumo yentlanganiso. Ukuba kukho na ukungaqondani, kunokusombululwa ngaphambi kokuba kubangele iingxaki.